My mother and my wife are in trouble. Who should I convince?

Of course I convinced my wife. The most basic thing is that young people should let the old people, which is also the minimum cultivation. What's more, it's one of our own! Besides, if my wife often asks me whether your mother is important or your mother's, or if your mother and I have to choose one, then your wife is really worthless. A woman should at least know that she is a daughter-in-law, not an ancestor. There is a saying that "I celebrate the son of heaven for a long time, but I support Liu Ri for a short time". Is the meaning clear? After all, couples still have a long way to go, but the days of getting along with their parents are not that long. Parents are willing to haggle like children when they are alive. What's the point of coming to this home? Home is a place of love, and when you start to reason, it becomes stale. Sometimes putting a man in the middle is actually a reflection of the immaturity of the daughter-in-law. Parents may inadvertently create some troubles for their children, but it is wrong for a daughter-in-law not to give her husband a step, right? If this gets out, the daughter-in-law's reputation is not good yet. Therefore, some things need the wife's conscious love to do, and don't always make trouble for her husband. This is also a sign of not loving your husband. Live in the moment, stay away from TV series, avoid aiming too high and cherish it. Just like the following question, even if the driver is not at fault, he is responsible.