What exactly does it mean to be suitable in love?

The adaptation of love refers to the spiritual consistency of the three views. It doesn't matter if there is a gap between a couple economically, but there must be no big gap between the three views. Different people have different views on many things encountered in life, and it is difficult for adults to change their views. How can they live together? Both of them like food. If one likes Chinese food and the other likes western food, it doesn't matter. You can often introduce some new products to each other or cook food for each other, which will be very happy for eating goods.

But if a person insists on earning money to eat delicious food in a restaurant, and the other person thinks it is too wasteful to go out to eat, he can try to eat and drink. This problem is basically insoluble because it is related to values. Both of them sincerely believe that they are right. Two people in marriage need not only to rely on each other, but also to play the harp and chord on the spiritual level, and run their besieged lives together. It is not that one person makes progress unilaterally, and the other person is always stagnant, but that two people keep pace with the times side by side. The real reason for being speechless is the loss of the same topic that can be used for spiritual communication.

Many parents always feel that the economic conditions are suitable when choosing their children to get married. Farmers can only marry farmers, local tyrants can only marry local tyrants, and nobles can only marry nobles? Can such a suitable marriage last long? Just like my little brother, he is slow. He has never been married since he graduated from college for many years, and others secretly laugh at him for being worthless and unable to marry a wife.

Later, someone introduced him to a girl who didn't graduate from junior high school. Many people think that their education gap is too big to continue. However, after they get along, the little brother is like a different person. He is cheerful all day, and his mouth is becoming more and more talkative, especially sweet. Because menstruation is a very capable person, she can always read her brother's inner thoughts, think for him, and gradually let him open up. They got married soon after talking, lived a comfortable life together and gave birth to a big fat man.

Don't force yourself to make do. If you live at a different spiritual level for a long time, you will find that you are subtracting your own life and consuming your own energy. Don't walk into the marriage hall with the elders you have chosen, claiming to be the right person. You will always be the one to spend the rest of your life with, and you will definitely know what kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You should always know and remember one thing: the correct matching has nothing to do with matter. If you can't be equal in spirit, no amount of material can make up for the emptiness and paleness of the soul.