Lin Qingxuan "Send Him a Bright Moon"｜Your personality is the best bright moon

Monday, February 18, 2019, Rain (6-8)

At the beginning of "Send Him a Bright Moon", there is such a story. A Zen master who lived in a thatched hut in the mountains and practiced medicine. One day he went for a walk in the forest at night. Under the bright moonlight, he suddenly enlightened to his own prajna!

When he returned to his residence happily, he found that his hut had been visited by thieves. The thief who could not find any belongings met the Zen Master at the door. The situation was very embarrassing.

"You walked all the way to the mountains to visit me. I can't let you come back empty-handed. It's a cold night, so take this dress with you and go!"

The Zen Master said After putting the clothes on the thief, the thief was at a loss and slipped away with his head lowered. Seeing the thief's back walking through the bright moonlight and disappearing into the mountains and forests, the Zen master couldn't help but said with emotion:

"Poor man, I wish I could send him a bright moon!"

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After the thief escaped, the Zen master returned to the hut and meditated naked. He looked at the bright moon outside the window and entered a state of concentration until the sun rose the next day. The Zen master opened his eyes and found that the coat that had been put on the thief last night had been neatly folded and placed at the door.

The Zen master was very happy and murmured: "I finally gave him a bright moon."

Can the bright moon be given to each other? Of course not, the Zen master influenced the thief with the fragrance of his personality, allowing him to walk on the bright road under the light of the "bright moon".

During the Spring Festival, a new word "professor" was suddenly added. This title is half a joke and a little bit serious. The joke is that ordinary people like us dare to call professor; the little bit of "true" is because this time Go home and successfully "brainwash" many teenagers in the rebellious period, with remarkable results. One of my cousins ????delayed her return home in order to allow her children to meet me.

Over the years, I have been working hard on reading and writing. Although I have forgotten most of the contents of many books I have read, I found that my cognitive level has really improved a lot. It is very important to control these hormonal explosions. The little furry kid is still handy.

I often hear parents complain that their children are rebellious and difficult to teach. Whenever parents accuse their children of various bad things, I will always stand with the children and let the parents reflect on their own behavior first.

I have also heard of such a story. A young mother asked the Master for advice:

"What should I do if my child is disobedient and doesn't like to study?"

The Master asked her: "Have you copied the document? If there are typos on the copy, do you change the copy or the original?"

Parents are the originals, the family is the copy machine, and the children are the copies. In parent-child education, to solve children’s problems, we must first solve their parents’ problems.

The only way to solve this problem is to return to yourself, enrich your own personality, and let your personality charm illuminate the other person's soul like the bright moon. This is really a beautiful thing.