Every time my husband’s grandma sees my son (my son is nine months old), she says that my son is like a dog. After I told my husband, he must have told his grandma too.

Just hearing these words would make anyone feel uncomfortable. But calm down and think about it carefully, why does grandma scream like that? What is her starting point? In those days, they all had names like Goudan. What the old man meant was that the lower the name, the better the livelihood. This is actually a way of doting on her great-grandson. If you are embarrassed to say it yourself, just tell your husband that times have changed and don’t call her that way in the future. Having said that, as juniors, knowing that she has no bad intentions, wouldn’t it be better to be more considerate and tolerant to keep the family in harmony?