Why are some people so exclusive when dating?

Stage fright, or maybe I feel embarrassed.

Everyone's personality is different. Not everyone can talk about Kan Kan in front of strangers. He is as calm as an innocent man and an old friend for many years. Just like some people, they are introverted, withdrawn, unsociable and don't like strangers since childhood, so contact with strangers is a real resistance.

Just like a person who is afraid of heights, it is the same to look at heights; Just like people with dense phobia, it is the same to hide dense things.

That fear comes from the deepest part of my heart, uncontrolled and changed. However, many parents don't quite understand. They think blind date is just a trivial matter. Is it necessary to be so exclusive?

And some people who are not good at words. Although I am usually careless, when I see a stranger, I immediately fear my hands and feet and feel unnatural all over. They don't know what to say or talk about. So the atmosphere is very embarrassing, and I always want to find an excuse to escape. I have experienced it once, and I don't want to experience it again.

As the saying goes, people are different. What you can accept does not mean that others can accept it.

The most important reason is that I feel embarrassed.

Many people think that only people who can't find a date will go on blind dates. Why can't I find the object? Explain that you are not good enough, so people will think that going on a blind date proves that you are not good enough. Then I am worried that my relatives and friends around me will know and I will laugh at myself. After being spread out, I feel very embarrassed. Even if blind date is common, even if many people can accept it, there will still be such scruples and worries in the deepest part of their hearts.

Especially for young people, vanity and comparison are more intense. Everyone is so proud, and no one wants to lose face.

I don't think blind date is reliable

There is a kind of person who is full of expectations and fantasies about love from an early age. The love and marriage in their hearts should be as beautiful and romantic as in fairy tales. Therefore, when it comes to blind date, I am very reluctant. I feel that my marriage should not be so casual and realistic.

In their deepest heart, they feel that blind date is just to find someone to live with, and it has nothing to do with love and romance.

There is another kind of person who may have left a shadow in his heart because of the misfortune around him. For example, some couples finally get married through blind date, and they are not happy after marriage; For example, a couple walked together through a blind date, and finally their feelings were played. Because of these examples, they directly think that all blind dates are unreliable.