She laughs at you for being a housewife, because her monthly salary is 2000. Should women be housewives?

Guide: Deciding whether a housewife's status at home is a "unpaid nanny" or a "head of the family" depends entirely on women's requirements for themselves, as well as their own efforts and values, including the grasp and management of the family.

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One day, I met my neighbor Fangfang who was walking her baby in the community. Dressed casually, she glanced at her precious mother who had gone far away and muttered, "When I met her, I took her to work. She is very busy, not as idle as I am with my children at home. "

"Why are you so angry on such a fine day?" I asked her while teasing Fangfang with the pink and tender doll in the cart. That big mouth is in sharp contrast to his mother's pursed mouth.

"Ah, it's not like she hasn't given birth to a child. Don't you know the difficulty of taking care of children? Does she think taking care of children is leisure? She is obviously laughing at me as a housewife. "

"I used to think that she had a decent job and showed off in high heels every day. Later, I learned that she was a handyman in a small company. Earn two thousand a month. I thought she was a white-collar worker with a monthly income of over 10,000 yuan. "

I listened to Fangfang's angry spit, only to know that Fangfang was ridiculed by a woman with a monthly salary of 2000 because of her status as a housewife.

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In our county, which is not rich, 2000 yuan is very small. Obviously, it is not the amount of money, but going out to work has become a question of dignity.

It seems that housewives who don't earn money are always free at home. When people ask about their jobs and talk about housewives, they all feel short.

Hold a man, look at his face, palms up. Has become a housewife's label.

People often count housewives as part-time nannies, teachers and other occupations, but in fact, no family pays wages on a monthly basis. Money is a way to reflect value, because it is not directly converted into wages, so all the hardships of housewives are easily overlooked.

Therefore, modern women do not want to be housewives. Not only ordinary people, but also female stars have just given birth, so they quickly return to the workplace, take care of their children and work, and try their best to balance the relationship between them.

I can cook with my baby and earn money to support my family. Although hard, I just want to give myself a more confident life.

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Regardless of outsiders' views on housewives, after all, every family has its own problems. As long as they live a good life and the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious and happy, this is the most important and best result.

However, many women don't want to be housewives. What they are most worried about is that if they are housewives for a long time, they will be looked down upon and belittled by their husbands, and even affect the original harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

In fact, in married life, two people can do their own jobs, understand each other's hardships and difficulties, housewives will be treated fairly, and husband and wife will respect each other.

My cousin and sister-in-law are a typical example.

When I first got married, my cousin and sister-in-law started from scratch, but my cousin is very flexible and knows how to do business. My sister-in-law is always in charge of everything at home. Later, business got better and better, and the children grew up.

On the surface, my sister-in-law only cares about beauty at home, and there are some gossips at home, saying that my sister-in-law should also go out and do something to show her value or help her family's business, which makes my wife feel really wronged.

Fortunately, my cousin has always said to family and relatives: "My wife is also very hard, and the two people in the family have their own division of labor."

Up to now, I have been married for almost twenty years, and I have never seen my cousin neglect my sister-in-law because she is a housewife. We have also seen her trying to take care of her life. Her children are clever and sensible, and her grades are excellent.

The house is in good order, and occasionally I buy a few lilies, and the house is full of fresh fragrance. My cousin said that after a hard day outside, I feel much more comfortable at home.

Every time my cousin mentions that the house is big, let's ask the nanny to clean it. She always said that she had a house of love, singing and cleaning, tired and happy. We think this is what it feels like to be married to love.

My cousin is afraid to drive. My sister-in-law got her driver's license and became her exclusive driver. My cousin said, "To outsiders, I earned all the money, but half of it was also given by your sister-in-law. There are hundreds of things at home, and she is comfortable to use them. I can't do it. I only care about one thing, making money. If I am involved in other things, I can't concentrate on my work. "

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Someone asked my sister-in-law, "Aren't you afraid of men changing their minds? You are the backing of a man now, and you do everything well, but if he changes his mind, you will lose everything you have now. "

My sister-in-law said, "No, although I am a housewife, I am not giving up on myself. I will attend many training courses when I have time. I don't go out to make money because there are more important things for me to do at home than making money. It doesn't mean that I don't have the ability to make money. " I also believe in my husband, and I believe that this family will be paralyzed without me. "

Have confidence in yourself and be sure of your husband. We see that my sister-in-law has the ability to firmly grasp happiness.

Tu Lei said: Whenever a housewife accuses a man of hating her on the stage, you must first reflect on yourself. Are you a competent housewife? Housewives can, but that doesn't mean you can get rid of society and close yourself off. Doesn't mean you can be slovenly every day and don't care about yourself. It doesn't mean that you can sit back and relax all day without studying. Real housewives are proficient in all kinds of martial arts They know how to cook, manage money and manage their families.

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Marriage is a whole, and only two people appreciate each other and work hard together can win. Only by taking life seriously can we win each other's respect in the family.

Whether I like being a housewife or because of my children's needs, responsibilities and obligations, I will leave the workplace and become a housewife.

However, even if a woman is a housewife, don't blindly cling to a man.

Clean up your mood and clean up yourself. Work hard every day, take time to study, and don't let what you are good at forget over time.

You can be a housewife for your children, your husband and your family. You can also go out of the house at any time and regain yourself.