Are your children’s achievements worth showing off? It has long been out of date, these kinds of showing off can be called "advanced baby-showing"

It is said that now is the "Era of Fighting for Dads", but when parents get together, what is it like "baby show contest"?

In the field of showing off children, many parents like to show off their children’s achievements, but this way of showing off their children has long been outdated. From the perspective of family education, the most advanced way of showing off children should be Raise a child who can talk.

As the saying goes: "Three kind words warm people's hearts, but words that are not speculative make June cold." Children who can talk often win by opening their mouths.

Neighbor Liu Fang’s son is in the fifth grade of elementary school. His grades are very good and he ranks high in the grade. He has always been Liu Fang’s pride. Whether it is a reunion party between relatives or a dinner party among friends, Liu Fang always talks about her son's achievements and shows off the teacher's affirmation and praise of her son, and she is full of pride.

But if you talk like this too much, your relatives and friends will start to get bored.

At a gathering of relatives and friends, Liu Fang once again showed off her son’s achievements. Liu Fang’s son was playing with his toys. A relative’s child wanted to play with him, but was rejected: "This is my toy. If you want to play with it, ask your parents to buy it for you." The child stood quietly and watched him play.

Liu Fang's son said loudly: "Don't stand here, blocking me, it's really annoying!" "Can't your family afford toys?" Relatives and friends around him became embarrassed. The child's mother took the child away directly.

Liu Fang keeps showing off her son’s achievements, which is annoying in the first place, but Liu Fang’s son’s personal etiquette is really hard to describe, which makes relatives and friends talk about it. From then on, there will be no gatherings between relatives and friends. Few people are willing to call Liu Fang.

Although a child’s grades are very good, but he or she lacks education or is even annoying when speaking, such a child will not be liked by others and will only make people stay away. Parents cannot only focus on their children’s education by looking at their grades. We must also pay attention to cultivating children's good character and cultivation, so that children can truly become outstanding.

1. Table manners

Whether a child is well-educated or not can be shown in table manners. If a child pays attention to table manners and pays attention to eating, he will be welcomed and loved by others. If the child's table manners are not good, it means that the parents' education is not adequate. Parents should reflect on it in time and correct and teach their children correct table manners.

Parents should cultivate their children's table manners from an early age, such as washing hands before and after meals, helping to set the tableware, elders not using chopsticks, and children not being able to use chopsticks first, not speaking loudly or banging dishes while eating. Bowls, no tossing around in meals, etc. Good table manners for children can also reflect the success of their parents' tutoring.

2. Respect elders

Many parents dote on their children too much, causing their children to disrespect their elders and even contradict, beat and scold them. In the eyes of parents, the child has not grown up or has a little personality, but in the eyes of others, it is a sign of the child's lack of education. Parents should educate their children to respect their elders from an early age and not to contradict the elderly or instruct the elderly to serve themselves.

Parents should set an example, respect and honor their elders, and set a good example for their children. Children have a strong ability to imitate, and they will imitate their parents' words and deeds in every word and deed. Parents' words and deeds are the best rulers for children, leading them to grow.

3. Not only learn well, but also be versatile

If you want your children to be excellent and even have a bright future, you must cultivate your children from multiple aspects and make your children versatile in their future growth. will be broader. Children with different talents, even if their academic performance is not good, but they have other talents, will find their own development path in some special fields.

It has become a thing of the past for parents to use their children’s achievements to show off their children. There are thousands of ways to show off their children. Cultivating children who are well-spoken, versatile, and educated is the most advanced way to show off their children. .

1. Set an example and set a good example

When it comes to educating children, parents should set an example and serve as a role model. Parents should pay attention to the way they speak, understand the art of speaking, do not say harsh words, know how to consider others, do not laugh at other people's shortcomings, and especially do not expose children's scars. This is the best education for parents. The education of parents is the education of children.

2. Disapprove of children’s cleverness

Every child will have his or her own cleverness, and parents must not agree or recognize their children’s cleverness, otherwise they will only cultivate children who are not modest. .

Being smart is a good thing, but being clever is not good. On the contrary, it is a kind of misleading to children. Let children be proud of their cleverness and often end up with greater success. Children who like to act clever will not be lovable.

3. Encourage children to say words of praise

People who cannot speak may be bored or rejected by the people around them because their words are not pleasant to the ears. Parents should let their children learn to see the advantages of others, and encourage their children to say more words of praise to others, which not only pleases others, but also pleases themselves.

Children who can talk, whether as children or as adults, will have better interpersonal relationships, which is good for career and family.

Parents cultivating the art of speaking in their children is their greatest wealth, which will benefit them throughout their lives. Showing off in any way is not as good as the praise brought by a well-spoken and well-educated child, and is more worthy of parents' pride.