How to talk about the first blind date and how to talk about these topics when we meet for the first time.

Nowadays, many young people will face blind dates, especially many men, who may be over 30, but have no daughter-in-law, so their families usually prepare blind dates for them. But when it comes to blind date, there are still many people who don't know how to talk. For blind date, if you don't know how to chat, it must be embarrassing. I will do it here.

First, the blind date meets for the first time and talks about five topics.

sensitive

If you meet in a restaurant or bar, it is a pleasant topic to talk about your favorite food. Talking about food, we can not only understand her taste, but also find similarities, so we don't have to worry about no topic anymore.

working situation

You can talk about work, as long as you know what she does, not about income. Too sensitive. If the other person is interested in this topic, you can continue, otherwise, you can stop. Don't cause her discomfort. If both sides feel good, these questions can be left for later. Don't worry.

Hobbies and interests

Of course, hobbies are important. If we can understand her hobbies, we can basically understand her. You can look at the updates on her social software and know what she likes. After all, it's better to have the same interests ~

Discuss some popular TV programs, because girls like to follow dramas.

This requires you to do your homework in advance. Or the hot news of real things, or talk about my junior's brain teaser to make her happy. Make the chat atmosphere first, and the blind date will be easier to go on.

kith and kin

When I meet my family for the first time, it's easy to win her trust by getting to know them and their living environment. But to know the interesting things in her life, we must be careful not to ask her parents directly. If her parents are at odds, it will affect her mood.

2. What did we talk about when we first met?

Talk about hobbies when dating.

Different people have different hobbies. If you two have similar interests, we can open another deeper topic for you.

Maybe the other person's hobby is just what you yearn for. For example, if the other person knows calligraphy, you can directly ask the other person for advice, and by the way, make an appointment to have a calligraphy class together next time.

Tell me about the places you have been on a blind date.

You can ask where the other person has been. If the other person has been to many places, you can ask the other person to introduce what the place is like and guide the other person to speak. If the other person is particularly impressed by that place, he will pour it out to you.

Maybe the other person seldom goes out to play. You can talk about where you want to go and ask if the other person is interested. You can start chatting with that place and think about how to go there to play.

Blind date chat constellation

Blind date doesn't know what to talk about, so it's embarrassing. You can start with the constellation. Many girls especially believe in constellations. They think that constellations can guide their lives.

Talk about hot topics on blind date.

You can talk about the recent popular TV series and the newly released movies.

By the way, when talking about TV series, you can ask the other party what they think of a role, or predict the plot direction, so that you can find out whether the other party agrees with you.

Third, the first meeting blind date chat skills

Chatting skills are that you store a few cold jokes or skills. To learn to chat, the specific methods are as follows. You can try to practice ~

mentally

Blind date should have a good attitude. A good attitude can make us single young people living in the field of blind date become stronger when we are strong, and the more frustrated we are, the braver we are! In a word, it is mainly sincerity+fearlessness.

Sincerity: Being sincere enough is actually a bonus. To tell the truth, don't hide some principled questions, such as whether you have a girlfriend or a marriage history. After all, it is not easy for both sides to come on a blind date. Routine can't keep people's hearts since ancient times.

Fearless: it can be extended to chatting with blind date with "indifferent mentality" Don't be afraid that you don't know what to talk about, and what to do if the other person's attitude is cold. Because I haven't become boyfriend and girlfriend yet, I don't have to chat with the mentality that it is a pity to lose each other.

Learn to express

Here are three ways to express a good chat: open-ended questions, sense of humor and storytelling. The first blind date is more important, which will directly affect the feeling of each other. If we meet on a blind date for the first time, we must arrange the process of the first date clearly, which will give each other a better feeling. After the blind date, the two will talk more deeply, and maybe they will develop into lovers over time.