What if my husband criticizes me when I am a stay-at-home mother and my mood collapses because I feel tired?

I think you need to let your husband share the responsibility of taking care of the children, so that he can feel the fatigue and collapse in the process of taking care of the children.

After the baby is born, many fathers choose to take care of their mothers alone, thinking that working outside is very tiring and they should have a rest when they go home. They also take it for granted that women just take care of their children at home. What's so boring? Therefore, when the stay-at-home mother collapsed because of fatigue, the husband not only didn't mean to comfort her, but blamed her. Actually, I'm used to it. At this time, dad should feel what it's like to take care of children.

First, the beauty of family life lies in the reasonable division of labor between husband and wife.

When we enter the marriage hall, we must be clear that both of us have to bear the responsibilities and obligations brought by marriage and family. After giving birth to a child, it is not the mother's responsibility to take care of the child. First of all, father should be clear. Moreover, only when the husband and wife unite and become comrades in arms on the same front can we better cope with the fatigue caused by raising children and reduce or avoid the possible emotional collapse in Ma Bao. Taking care of children is a very tiring thing, and mom and dad should work together to finish it. Only by achieving a reasonable division of labor and cooperation can we feel the pressure between each other and be more considerate of the emotions that may arise in the process of raising children.

Second, Ma Bao should encourage Boda to take care of the children together.

Many treasure moms feel that Bao Dad can't take care of the children well and does everything by himself, which leads Bao Dad to let himself go. When he can't stand it, he will collapse and cry. At this time, the husband will only cast a reproachful tone. Therefore, mom and dad must encourage dad to take care of the children under appropriate circumstances, so that dad feels that he is also a dad, and naturally assumes a responsibility, and mom will be more relaxed.

Third, don't be too hard on yourself.

Mothers should understand that no matter how careful they are, sometimes there will be some mistakes in taking care of their babies, so mothers should not be too hard on themselves and their families. Relax and let them take care of the baby, so that they can maintain an optimistic attitude emotionally and bring out healthy and happy children.