What is the most contemptible thing about a man?

1. You can’t do well on your own, but you are always willing to reason with others.

2. Habitually shirk responsibility. No, it’s all someone else’s.

3. Brag about who you know and how awesome you were in the past.

4. He talks about benevolence, justice and morality, but only commits male thieves and female prostitutes. This is an extreme double standard.

5. When making choices, you always have a gambling mentality and rely on luck. If you lose, you will blame others.

6. Envy, jealousy, jealousy of others, always thinking that if they can do it, I can do it too, but it becomes a joke again and again.

7. Live in fantasy and always place your hopes on others.

8. He has no money, but he is still lustful and says that women are realistic.

9. Cannot see through the nature of human nature and interpersonal relationships, and talk about right, wrong, and feelings.

10. Always want to get something for nothing.

11. I have no money to eat or support my family, but I want to sleep peacefully.

12. Parents have no conditions and will continue to live in poverty and do not want to work and make money on their own.

13. When people reach middle age, they are still unconvinced and do not know how to act within their capabilities.

14. She struggles to eat and gives birth to multiple children, making her children suffer accordingly.

15. Even when you are old, your mind is still unclear and you are always digging holes for yourself and your family.

16. Externally, he is timid and afraid of getting into trouble. At home, he is arrogant and arrogant.

17. If you encounter someone like this, stay away quickly.

1: If you can’t get a wife, you will be a bachelor for the rest of your life.

2: Be a scumbag and don’t know how to be responsible.

3: No house, no car, no rights.

4: Don’t smoke or drink.

5: Having sex, eating from the bowl, looking into the pot, holding it in your hand, and continuing to search.

6: You yell at your own family, but you are respectful to outsiders.

7: It is reasonable to borrow money and not repay it.

8: Only talk, never converted into action.

9: Don’t know how to be filial to your parents and don’t know how to be grateful.

10: Not raising your own children.

11: Staying at home and not going out to work to make money.

12: Self-indulgent, kneeling and licking women, willing to be a spare tire.

13: When encountering difficulties, you only know how to escape, but do not dare to face them head-on.

14: Domestic violence against wife and family members.

15: Hesitant to do things and has no opinion.

16: I love fantasy, always thinking about winning the lottery and thinking that God loves me.

17: Wearing tight pants and beanie shoes.

18: Always love to belittle others and base one's happiness on others.

19: A braggart. He talks about "how awesome my friends are and how awesome my relatives are" every day.

20: He has no ability but loves to give orders.

1. Care about every detail, love to take advantage, and refuse to suffer any losses.

2. He is not very capable, but has a very bad temper, and his eyes are as long as the sky.

3. I am over 30 years old and still cannot support myself, so I borrow money every day to survive.

4. When I haven’t been working for a long time, I always blame the boss, the leader, and the work, instead of looking for problems within myself.

5. Be petty and have to fight with others to the end for everything. You cannot lose, you can only win.

6. Bully the weak and fear the strong, be submissive in front of strong people, and be the overlord in front of weak people.

7. I blame my parents for not giving me good conditions, and I resent my parents.

8. Very talkative and likes to talk about other people’s gossip among women.

9. Mooching, often deliberately touching girls’ hands and patting their shoulders.

10. Not having any sense of responsibility, pushing all the responsibilities out and letting others take the blame.

11. Domestic violence, and never repent, and do it when emotionally unstable.

12. I often say that my friends are awesome, but in fact I am nothing.

There is no unified standard, and it cannot be generalized or absolute. Different people have different understandings and choices. In today's society, there are so many things that make a man look down upon the most. I think the main ones are:

First, a man without faith and morality.

The second is a man who is too lazy to do anything right.

The third is men who cheat, cheat, eat, drink, go whoring, gamble and smoke.

The fourth is a man who has accomplished nothing, has no ability and no abilities.

The fifth is a man who has no ambition, backbone, and domineering strength.

The sixth is a man who has evil intentions, causes trouble, is unstable, is not popular, and loves to talk big and brag.

The seventh is a man who is not hygienic and has a bad style.

The eighth is a bachelor who does not seek to make progress.

Wait...

The most despised thing about a man is his cowardice. What is cowardice? That is, there is no motivation, no momentum, and you don't fight back when others bully you. This is the end of life and death. Just do whatever you see.

So. In order not to be looked down upon by others, a man must straighten his back, use his brains to work well, and work more righteously. When he becomes financially stronger, his back will become straighter, and then others will look up to him.

How can we achieve this situation? Two aspects are needed. One is to study what you want to do. You must concentrate, concentrate, study book knowledge down-to-earth, and then learn in practice. There must be three people in the group. I don’t know how to do it. You have to ask, and finally become proficient in a certain major you are engaged in. You must at least become a leader in this industry.

The second one is to get the maximum value based on your true skills and earn a lot of salary. At present, it is at least about 10,000 or even 30,000 to 50,000 a month. After reaching this level, gradually others will no longer look down on you, but will look upon you with high regard and love you deeply.

Of course, it is very difficult to achieve these two items, and requires unbearable difficulties for ordinary people.

At the same time, you also need the help of noble people. When you are working and studying, or in the process of promotion, you must have noble people to help you. Sometimes this thing is very wonderful, and it happens without you knowing it. A noble person helps you, and once the help breaks through this layer of window paper, you will immediately stand up. If there is no help from noble people and this layer of window paper cannot be broken, then there will never be time to stand up. Help from noble people is really important, but as long as you work hard, that noble person will eventually. appeared. If you don't work hard, noble people will pass by you and won't appear in front of you.

Of course, another point is talent. No matter how hard you work without talent, it is useless. Just like studying, some people rely on Tsinghua University and Peking University, some people take the technical school exam, and some people do not graduate from junior high school. Why? The main thing is talent. A good teacher's teaching is not as good as your talent, so if you don't want to be a coward, it is also a result of your talent. If your personality is always cowardly, it is really difficult to change.

Therefore, since you are a man, you should use your brain and try every possible means to change your destiny. Only by changing your destiny can you straighten your back. To be looked down upon.

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1: A man is too lazy to take care of his own life.

Generally speaking, between men and women, women take care of housework at home and men work hard to earn money outside. This seems to be a natural distribution. But if a man is too lazy at home, too lazy to even wash his own clothes, and does not know how to take care of the mess every day, and only knows how to walk parallel to the bed every day, such people are not healthy because they are too lazy to give up. People have a sickly paleness that makes them look hateful and pitiful.

2: Men who gossip, especially men who spread rumors and slander others about having improper relationships between men and women, are particularly annoying. Gossip seems to be the preserve of women, but we find that women are not the only ones who gossip in life. Some men not only gossip, but also often spread rumors to stir up trouble and slander others. Especially when describing other people’s inappropriate relationships between men and women, it seems that he is Watching from the side, this kind of man is really annoying.

3: Born as a boy, but with the character of a woman, he is like a big-footed granny who cares about everything in life. This kind of person is the most annoying. I don’t know if this kind of man is too narrow-minded or just because of his nature. In short, he has to take care of every little thing in life, even what kind of onion he buys. This kind of man It's really annoying. Although he manages many things, he is looked down upon.

4: A man who has been cuckolded is looked down upon. This doesn't seem to be the man's fault, but once such a situation occurs, men are often looked down upon.

5: A man who has lost his masculine characteristics. This kind of person, due to physical reasons, no longer has the characteristics of a man, so he is always looked down upon by others in life.

6: Men who are full of foul words are looked down upon. There is a kind of man who speaks dirty words when talking to others. This seems to be a way for them to attract other people's attention. In fact, he does not know that attracting other people's attention in this way will only make others look down on him even more.

7: Men who are overly superstitious are looked down upon. This kind of person shirks all the faults in life. In fact, everyone has sharp eyes on who is right and who is wrong in life. His shirk will only make people look down upon him.

8: A man who cannot marry a wife is looked down upon. Now there are a large number of bachelors in every village, and it seems that bachelors have become commonplace. But if you look carefully, you will find that men who cannot marry a wife are looked down upon. It is difficult for them to hold their heads up and straighten their backs in front of others.

Of course, we also know that no one is perfect. As long as we work hard to be ourselves, strictly demand ourselves, and try our best to go on the right path.

Talking big words makes men with small money look down upon! I know a deputy director who always asks to take a piece home every time someone invites him to dinner. He calls it... he always eats out and his wife has objections. It's really annoying. He is a person who is greedy for petty gains.

1. If you can’t make money, you don’t work hard to make money.

Chew on old age or eat soft rice. A man must bear responsibilities and obligations when he lives in this world. It is shameful to rely on soft food and old age. It is the duty of a man to be self-reliant and shoulder the responsibilities and obligations that you should bear.

2. A man who is incapable of controlling his wife and wears many cuckolds will be looked down upon by his friends.

This kind of thing happens from time to time in society. Many men have no choice but to swallow this bitter pill for the sake of their children, and swallowing it up is also a helpless choice.

3. A man who is not filial to his parents, and some are particularly bad and rebellious, and even beats and scolds his own parents. No one looks up to such a man, and no one wants to be friends with him.

Filial piety comes first among all good deeds. This is a fine tradition of the Chinese people. If you don’t know how to be filial, you are a bad guy with no humanity, and everyone will look down on him.

4. People who do not have basic behavioral habits will be looked down upon.

A person habitually cheats, lies and spreads rumors. These behaviors and habits, whether male or female, are the most looked down upon. As a man, you must be open-minded, have good conduct, and rely on your own abilities to live uprightly in this world. Only then can you win the respect of others.

5. Not raising your own children.

I read a report some time ago. A man eloped with another woman. He ignored his three children and did not send money to his family. More than 30 years later, he ran away again. She came back and asked her children to support her in her old age.

His children ignored him, and he even went to court. Such a man is considered extremely wicked. His children all despise him, and no one will think highly of him.

6. A man riddled with bad habits, eating, drinking, prostitution and gambling.

A man like this cannot do anything serious. Sooner or later, his wife and children will be separated, and his family will be destroyed.

7. Habitually shirking responsibility.

Whenever there is any problem in life or work, I never look for the reason in myself. I blame this or that. How can a man like this be obtained? There is no way he can look like a man.

8. Don’t know how to respect women and beat your wife.

If a man wants to be respected by others, he must shoulder his responsibilities and obligations as a man.

Be responsible for your family, your parents, and your children, earn enough money to support your family, and correct your behavior and habits.

Such a man, whether he is an ordinary person or a person with great achievements, will also be respected by others.

Borrowing money and not returning it on time;

Being a drunkard, always drunk when drinking, borrowing money to fool around, drinking is not good;

Touching the opposite sex , no sense of proportion;

Bragging, talking nonsense, not fulfilling promises;

Domestic violence;

Unfilial;

Indolent, indolent, high-minded but low-handed, without a sense of responsibility .

1. Extremely poor, but always pretending to be rich.

2. He has accomplished nothing and likes to point fingers at others.

3. Not filial to parents, beating and scolding wife, children and the elderly when encountering difficulties.

4. Set limits on yourself, thinking that you can’t do anything, so you dare not do anything and escape from reality.

5. He gave everything for a woman who didn’t love him, and even moved himself to a complete mess.

6. Do not keep your word and speak nonsense.

7. There is no way to release the anger you feel in front of outsiders, so you use family members as a punching bag.

8. Complain, evade and delay when encountering problems, and shirk responsibility to others.

9. He has no ambition, gives up on himself, gnaws at his old age every day, eats and waits for death.

10. You are married and have children, but you are still flirting with women everywhere.

11. When I get home, I lie down and play with my mobile phone. I leave all the housework to my family members and give them advice.

12. If you are rejected once, you will become discouraged and have self-doubt.

13. Disrespect others and speak dirty words.

14. If you can’t make big money, you can’t make small money.

15. Hesitant, doing anything for three minutes and giving up easily.

16. Without self-awareness, he thinks he is better than everyone else, and he has high vision and low hand.

17. Think of a thousand roads at night, and take the same path in the morning.