Reading Comments: Humor and communication are a delightful compilation-all.

Everyone likes you with a sense of humor.

Communication is a bridge of interpersonal communication, so humor must be a lubricant. Humor and communication teach us when to choose what brand lubricant in different situations.

Humor in English, China's humor first appeared in ancient books, meaning silence. We say that modern Chinese is humorous, which is translated according to English homophones. This development also coincides with our traditional virtues of modesty and modesty in China.

When I think about my daily life or work, I really find humor very useful. I am depressed, and no one likes to talk to me. When I was unreasonable, I accidentally became the object of venting. Sometimes when I meet a person who is good at chatting, I feel instant sunshine in a few words. I really envy these great gods with humorous skills, but this skill is innate, right? Why can't I be like them?

There are many humorous cases in the book. We can enjoy the humorous jokes shared by the author while reading and learning knowledge, which is different from reading boring skills to learn books and complete jokes. As readers, we can have both.

The pace of modern life is getting faster and faster, and people's emotional needs need humor to adjust. According to the book, many foreign celebrities, even some international leaders, regard humor as an essential skill, deliberately study and practice it every day as part of their daily life. People are so successful that they are all working hard. No wonder I can't be humorous. My feeling is empty.

So we just envy others' good humor and eloquence. If we want to be like them, we must study hard. More humor, more linguistic wisdom, less difficulties around, and one more skill in dealing with people-humor.

The wisdom of the mouth, the power of humor

Two characteristics of humor: it must be interesting and meaningful. Churchill, one of the leaders of Britain in the 20th century, used humorous wisdom to resolve contradictions and conflicts, and was elected as British Prime Minister twice. Franklin was an outstanding American politician. In his early years, he promoted and accumulated his inner cultivation in the form of tabular plan. This well-known calligrapher in China can handle the original works humorously even when he is imitated, which shows that he is full of hope and has a good attitude towards life.

True humor should be kind, and the solemnity of Confucianism needs to be applied to humor, but it is not ironic to attack others. The essence of humor is to entertain others and enhance relationships.

In interpersonal communication, humor can resolve war. On various occasions, the power of humor makes people more friendly, and it can be well used. When criticizing others, you might as well decorate them with humorous art, which is more acceptable. A decent and humorous speech can better reflect your generosity and vividness and win people's hearts.

According to research, frequent laughter can improve human immunity, humor can regulate mood, calm fear, resolve depression, and play a health care role in regulating blood, vital capacity, digestive system, muscles and nerves.

Share humor with people around you, add happiness to ordinary life, and have more humor and stronger feelings in love. Humor can dispel the shell of pessimism and create a happy, harmonious and relaxed atmosphere. Humor is like an air freshener, which dispels troubles and unhappiness.

Good use of humor and eloquence can naturally add points, which can create a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere in negotiations, increase the appeal of speeches, narrow the distance with friends in friendship management, and be more comfortable in business.

Teach you how to use humor

There is a kind of humor, which is a kind of intelligent and improvisational humor. In the book, the author lists several scenes about the use of impromptu humor.

A humorous beginning with a new acquaintance can quickly narrow the emotional distance with strangers and win others' acceptance and appreciation, such as a humorous introduction, a humorous prologue and a few subtle digressions. It is easy to feel at home.

China is a country of etiquette. If he can play humor temporarily when he violates the taboo, this humorous way of turning taboo into joy is very suitable in life or workplace.

Zhang misspelled the word "ink" as "black" and described the slip of the pen as an attitude of refusing to give an inch of land to the Japanese, which was simply a humorous way of admitting mistakes, while the strange way was to recruit dangerous chess.

It is also a good way to break the deadlock with humor and occasionally make harmless jokes about yourself, which will not only make people laugh, but also make others think you are friendly.

Don't get angry when you are accused, laughed at or ridiculed by others. If you can change the subject in a humorous way, you can solve the embarrassment and win the respect of others.

People often want to refuse others. I don't know what to do. If you can refuse politely, logically and politely, you won't hurt your feelings easily. When you are embarrassed, you can appropriately belittle yourself or laugh at yourself. You might as well talk nonsense. A waiter in a hotel walked into a room where a female guest was taking a bath. The waiter said "I'm sorry, sir" and then closed the door and left.

How to answer difficult questions? Humorous reasoning, avoiding the real and making the virtual, can not only preserve one's position, but also show one's emotional intelligence. Why not? A typist received a confession from a male colleague. How did she cleverly refuse? She typed the letter again and sent it to her male colleague: "I typed it all for you." Is there anything else? " Smart and harmless.

Quarrel between husband and wife is inevitable in marriage. Wife: "Every time I ask your opinion, it is very casual. Are you so casual? " Husband: "I pick you at will, but you pick me carefully." A little humor in anger is better than tit-for-tat, and appropriate ridicule can bridge the gap. Humor is a mixture of ordinary life.

True humor comes from sincerity, and the real meaning lies in love, which overflows in a smile. Beautiful WeChat can add points to humor, and a smile is the cultivation of humor. Treat people with a smile, well-intentioned, harmonious, humorous if there is a slip of the tongue or loss of face, witty to save face, elegant without losing grace.

Improve your humor skills and become a master of humor.

Chinese traditional humor comes from the people, and the beauty and ugliness are in sharp contrast. Corresponding to modern diversified humor, in Britain and America, men would rather admit that they have physical defects than that they are not humorous.

Humor thoughts include healthy humor and unhealthy humor, which mainly includes adult humor and pathological humor (violence, tragedy and pain). Health humor mainly includes Zen humor and childhood humor, red humor and warm humor, and other forms of humor (spicy humor, local characteristics, dialect humor).

Three points are meant to be, seven points are cultivated, and humorous skills can also be cultivated. We envy others' humorous skills, but we don't know that humor is also the result of knowledge accumulation and continuous learning. For example, you must master the basic knowledge of life, world, culture, specialties and so on. Only when there is ink in your chest can you call the knowledge base.

Mentally, we must first be confident, overcome nervousness and master our emotions. It is also essential to practice humorous eloquence and training. Usually you can communicate with your family and make more friends. Speech is a good way to exercise eloquence and improve intelligence.

The author shared some humorous tips, such as using metaphors to decorate: personification in images, personification in people and similarity in things. Applying it to Xiaoli, or using some exaggeration and irony appropriately, can not only keep proper limit, but also control the language vividly.

My wife talks to the parrot when she is bored, and the parrot is exhausted. Express what you want to say so personified and vividly and humorously.

Mother: "You don't discuss it with me when you get married, and I don't buy anything." Daughter: "Didn't you discuss it with me when you got married?" Mom: "Did you buy me a present when mom got married?" Is it humorous to put such unrelated concepts together for analogy, which is psychologically acceptable to the other party?

Transfer words from different contexts and ask, "They don't like me if I say three or two words?" Answer: "Because it saves time." The disharmony in language produces humor.

When using humor, it is also very important to grasp the discretion. For example, when joking in the office, we must first understand other people's personalities, colleagues' experiences, opportunities, industries and so on. Local, such as customs, pronunciation, taboos, etc. Most jokes are harmless, but you must master the scale and the relationship between the people you are talking to, and don't overdo it.

The use of humor is inseparable from thinking. On the premise of friendship and equality, we should be good at using logic, whether it is logical reasoning or logical fallacy. If we can apply it to humor, it will bring more aftertaste to the conversation.

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