Who is responsible for caring about education and children jumping off buildings?

After the incident, various media rushed to pay attention. Among them, Taizhou Evening News reported that the student was "called outside by the teacher to reflect on his homework" and "probably fell over the fence". After the news was reprinted online, netizens accused schools and teachers, especially class teachers. It seems that I can't get through without venting. This led to a discussion about "who should be responsible". It is said that students are minors, and accidents at school are of course the responsibility of the school; It is said that students have the basic right to education, and it is of course the teacher's responsibility for your teacher to deprive him of the right to attend classes in the classroom without authorization. It is also said that the guardian of the child is the parent, and the school only has the responsibility of education management for the students during the school period, but does not exercise the responsibility of guardianship for the students, so the responsibility is still with the parents; He also said that students' psychological quality is really poor, and the teacher criticized you for not finishing your homework. This is the most normal thing. If you can't relax, you jump off a building. You asked for it, so the responsibility can only be the students themselves. There were different opinions at that time. However, I think the child's life is in danger, and it seems too late to say "who is responsible". But as far as "summing up experience and learning lessons" is concerned, I think each has its own "responsibility". Let's talk about "the responsibility of the school" first. At present, there is a serious lack of mental health education for students in schools. Nowadays, society, parents, schools, teachers, including students, pay more attention to academic performance, so the psychological counseling courses that should have been offered in schools have been replaced by the so-called Chinese, mathematics, English and other main courses. In addition, under the pressure of society, parents and schools, teachers have to pay attention to students' grades, so students leave the classroom without doing their homework as a punishment. From this point of view, if we must say that schools are responsible, it is also the fault of society. Schools only provide a stage for social tragedy. Moreover, in such an impetuous social background, it is not easy for a person to live well. In addition, most students are only children, and their psychological quality is inherently fragile. Everyone seems to be a dynamite bag. Once Mars gets involved, it will explode. Therefore, the responsibility of society is great. It's just that society is a whole and a concept. What can it be? As a result, schools and teachers naturally became scapegoats. If the society puts the responsibility on schools and teachers, it will simply bite the hand that feeds it. Damn it! Let's talk about "teacher's responsibility" again. The teacher is naturally the chief culprit of this incident. Yes, if you don't check the students' homework and let them do some bullshit introspection, how can you be embarrassed if you don't care about the students' southeast and northwest winds? So it is concluded that teachers are not responsible for students' learning at all. Whether he studies well or not is none of my business. What kind of teacher wants to "come wholeheartedly without taking away a blade of grass" is sheer nonsense. I remember that in the "Eight Requirements for Teachers' Morality" put forward by the Education Bureau last time, it was said that teachers should "do their best" for students. Now that I think about it, it is really a joke. Isn't it? You "do your best" to him, and he bites you in turn, which makes you unbearable. See if you dare to "do your best" to your students. Third, say "the responsibility of parents". This seems to be the least said, because other people's children are dying, and you still say that he has the responsibility of parents. How can you stand it? It's really hard to say, but this is the actual situation. Imagine that as parents and guardians of students, they have the obligation and responsibility to help schools implement the right to education management during normal teaching hours. Of course, not to mention the educational responsibility that parents should exercise at home. Whose fault is it that the students didn't finish their homework at the weekend? Of course it's the students' fault. Is there nothing wrong with parents? Have parents checked their children's homework at home? If you check, how come students haven't finished their homework that should have been finished on the weekend after they arrive at school? Impetuous society, impetuous people. How many parents really care about their children's study? Even if there is, it is often the result of learning, not the process of learning. Sadness, this is the sadness of parents! It is also the sorrow of students! If parents blindly shirk their responsibilities, it is the biggest irresponsibility! Even slander! Fourth, say "the responsibility of students". As a child, it is inevitable to make mistakes in the process of growing up. If something goes wrong, it is normal for an elder to guide you and lead you back to the right path. There's nothing to be ashamed of. If you take others' reminders, exhortations and education as a shame, is it all right? On the positive side, you have self-esteem; On the negative side, you are a pervert-mental disorder! Although children today have a heavy burden on their shoulders, they cannot be heavier than teachers. I didn't see any teacher jump off a building because of too much pressure, only students jumped off a building because they couldn't stand setbacks. Therefore, the problem often lies in students, too fragile psychology, leading to the outbreak of bad behavior. However, can the students really blame themselves? Don't parents and society have responsibilities? Without the pressure of parents, perhaps children can lighten their burden; Without social pressure, perhaps the school will give some teachers and students less "motivation". So in the final analysis, it is still the society that is to blame. We are used to blaming schools and teachers for student incidents after they come out. The school is wrong, which is right; It is also right that the teacher is wrong. However, after simplifying the attribution, parents and society, which should bear more responsibilities, have evaded their responsibilities. This can't help but make the conscientious audience sad, and also make the responsible teacher chilling. What's the use of talking too much? I had to sigh: "Alas!"