How to help a girl from a single-parent family get through the period of lovelorn?

Dialogue between Socrates and the Lovelorn

Socrates: "My child, why are you sad?"

The Lovelorn: "I am lovelorn." < /p>

Socrates: "Oh, this is normal. If there is no sadness after a broken love, love will probably have no flavor. But, young man, how did I find that you are more invested in a broken love than you are in love? How can you be so devoted to someone else?"

Lovelorn: "I lost the grapes I got, this regret, this loss, how can you know the sadness in it if you are not one of them?"

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Socrates: "If it's lost, it's lost. Why not keep moving forward. There are still many delicious grapes."

The Lovelorn: "I want to wait until the sea is dry and the stone is broken, until she changes her mind. Come to me."

Socrates: "But this day may never come."

The Lovelorn: "Then I will commit suicide to show my sincerity. ”

Socrates: “If you do this, you will not only lose your lover, but also yourself. You will suffer double losses.”

Lovelorn: "What do you think I should do? I really love her."

Socrates: "Really love her? Then of course you want the person you love to be happy?"

Lovelorn: "That's natural."

Socrates: "What if she thinks leaving you is a blessing?"

Lovelorn: "No. ! She once told me that she felt happy only when she was with me!"

Socrates: "That was in the past, but she doesn't think so now." < /p>

Lovelorn: "Does this mean she has been lying to me?"

Socrates: "No, she has been loyal to you. When she loves you , she is with you, and now she doesn’t love you, she will leave. There is no greater loyalty in the world than this. If she no longer loves you, she will pretend to be very affectionate for you, or even be with you. Getting married and having children is the real deception."

Lovelorn: "But she doesn't love me now, but I still love her hard. How unfair is this!

Socrates: "It is indeed unfair. I mean you are unfair to the person you love. Originally, it is your right to love her, but it is her right to love you or not." How unfair is it that you want to deprive others of their freedom to exercise their rights?"

Lovelorn: "According to you, this is all my fault?"

Socrates: "Yes, you made a mistake from the beginning. If you can bring her happiness, she will not leave your life. You know, no one will escape Happiness."

Lovelorn: "But she didn't even give me a chance. Do you think it's hateful?"

Socrates: "Of course it's hateful. Fortunately, you are already. You should be happy to be rid of this hateful man, kid.

Lovelorn: "Happy?" How is it possible? But after all, I was abandoned. "

Socrates: "Time will heal the wounds of your soul.

The Lovelorn: "I hope I can have this day, but where should I start?" "

Socrates: "Go thank the person who abandoned you and bless her. "

Lovelorn: "Why? ”

Socrates: “Because she gave you loyalty and gave you a new chance to find happiness.” ”

I used to feel that I only had pity and compassion, which I have never felt before. But now it occupies a huge weight in my life. It makes me stare at everything with tearful eyes. . Even though all the happiness in the past will show up from time to time, it will bring my heart back from the sinking. When the love is the most passionate, I feel like I have truly touched the tenderness and feel the joy of this praiseworthy love. The ending I got immediately made me sober, and I realized clearly that this intoxicated love is just a type of beautiful and false. In the passionate intoxicated love, if the ecstasy hug, the exciting kiss, then Tempting sweet words and sacred vows cannot guarantee the relationship between the sexes. I am afraid that the meaning of happiness will not exist at all.

Of course I cannot deny that I once lived in a vision full of the flames of love. How can I change my nerves and not feel that joy in the past was just a symbol of distress?