The downtown is poor, and no one asks what it means to be rich in the mountains and have distant relatives. What does it mean to have no money to maintain kinship?

What does it mean to be poor in the city and not ask if there are distant relatives in the mountains? Is it so realistic in today's society? I tell you, the present society is far more realistic than this.

You go to the first-tier cities to see, whether boys or girls, which one is not working hard to make money, do they make money so hard because they love money more? No, because they understand that money is not everything, but they can't do anything without it.

Why is there so little contact between modern people? It's not that feelings are weak, but that everyone is busy making money, because no one wants to be inferior because of money, let alone embarrassed because of money. With money, parents can support their parents and create better conditions for their children's growth.

There is a good saying: without money, what do you use to maintain family ties, stabilize love, and contact friendship by mouth? Please, everyone is busy, okay? No one asks if you are poor in the city, rich and have distant relatives in the mountains. Don't believe me, but look at the wine at the banquet, and respect the rich first. A tall horse tied to the door is not a kiss, but also a kiss. There are begging sticks in front of the door, and friends and relatives don't come to the door. It takes money to make friends in the world, but not much. Money and wine, many brothers. How can you meet anyone in an emergency? ?

How to understand that poverty is unknown in downtown, and wealth has distant relatives in the mountains? ? ? This famous saying comes from the abstract in "Zeng Guang Xian Wen" in Ming Dynasty. Poor people are ignored in front of others, and rich and powerful people will try their best to find you even in the deep mountains and forests.

The first meaning of this sentence is to satirize some people, whose eyelids are too alive to look down on the poor and incompetent. Look up all day. For some powerful people, they can afford it and try their best to get close and pull the cage. For some ordinary people, they regard it with special respect or even oppress it.

The second meaning is that people often use this sentence to educate and improve their children. When they grow up, they will work hard, study hard, work hard, start a successful business and become rich. When we grow up, we should rely on our own efforts, instead of asking for help from relatives, and relying on friends to get rich to support ourselves. In other words, it is better not to rely on anyone than to rely on yourself. This sentence has aroused the entrepreneurial enthusiasm of some people, and we should use our hard-working hands to create a better future.

In short, this sentence also fully reflects that there are such people at all times and in all countries, who don't work hard and just want to rely on others to help them pass the time. This is not a long-term solution. After a long time, poverty will be in front of you, and no one dares to ask you. Because you are a poor pit full of discontent. Causing relatives and friends to avoid you, this is called poverty in the downtown area, no one asks, and wealth has distant relatives in the mountains. ? The profound meaning of.

Don't ask the poor in downtown, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. ? On the one hand, it really reflects the indifference of the real world, so it also has the significance of inspiring the poor to struggle. On the other hand, however, not all people will stay away from the poor and tend to the rich. Some people will try their best to help the poor; Some people think that since they can't help poor relatives, they shouldn't give them any more trouble. Because the poor are actually very enthusiastic. When relatives visit, even if they borrow money to entertain them, they don't want to lose their face or dignity. There are also poor people who would rather change their appearance by their own ability than go to the door of the rich, do not want to curry favor with the rich in their own poverty period, and do not want to show their poverty in front of the rich, even if people do not look down on themselves. Some people, on the contrary, have money in downtown areas and don't come home, but poor people in the mountains have concerns? . In a word, life is a kaleidoscope, and everything will happen, which can't be summarized in just one sentence. I think: most poor people have backbone. They believe that the East will turn to the West in ten years? . They are struggling, and one day, they will be completely uprooted and become the new rich envied by everyone.

Don't ask the poor in downtown, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Although poor, but living in a bustling city, relatives and friends rarely care. Even if you have the money to live in a deep forest, many relatives and friends will come to visit relatives and get help.

This is a famous philosophical sentence in the past or ancient times. It's different now. They all work with their hands to eat. The money you have is yours, and no amount of money will be spent on others.

Everyone can only rely on their own efforts to make money, live their own lives, eat their own meals and do their own work.

As long as you are willing to work hard, endure hardships and work hard, you will definitely live a good life.

Don't ask the poor in downtown, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This sentence is a summary of the life and experience of the ancients, and it is really regrettable that the human feelings contained in it are cold and warm and the world is cold. Undoubtedly, this sentence has profound truth. Of course, especially with the development of the times, we should also treat this sentence positively and dialectically.

That makes sense. On the one hand, there are too many examples to prove it, on the other hand, we should think deeply and rule out those factors that follow the trend, poverty? What is the answer? It means the size of ability and energy, so there are two situations that are normal;

With the development of the times, especially in the new era of Socialism with Chinese characteristics, the establishment of socialist core values and the implementation of precise poverty alleviation, the poor are neglected in downtown areas, while the rich have distant relatives in the mountains? Will quietly change:

1. Some people ask that the downtown area is poor, and some people ask that the hinterland is poor;

2. People are poor, but they cannot be poor. Poverty is poor to old, and poverty alleviation is combined;

3. Being poor and rootless, being rich and seedless, the key lies in oneself and struggling;

It is better to be strong than to complain passively.

Not every individual or group is like this. Something happened to me in 2000, and I had to pay more than 200 thousand. I was afraid to tell my family, so I went to my aunt and uncle. They didn't have much money either, but everyone helped me solve it without saying anything. I can't live at home. I came to Hangzhou in 2004 and I haven't paid back the money. Of course, during this period, my family also knows. It was not until 2008 that the money was paid back. In 2009, my son had to pay 30,000 yuan for primary school, but Yuhang District can buy a house or go to a public primary school. It's not good, but it's better than the migrant workers' school. Borrow money to pay the down payment. At that time, Fourth Aunt's sister didn't have a house either. She has just saved enough down payment and the house has been repaired. As soon as she heard that I was in a hurry, she gave me 90 thousand yuan She said, you give it to my brother first, and I'll borrow mine. . So I bought a house in 2009. Not to mention relatives, even our friends helped me a lot. From 2000 to now, I have been in debt to my relatives and friends. I have never helped them, but they have been helping me silently. I really hope they can come to Hangzhou to see me, but they have never come. This is not money, but love, which can never be repaid. . Although it is stable now, most of the company's working capital is still in it, and there is nothing at home that can really help. However, my relatives have always said that I don't have to care, and I don't have to care. Let me know if I have any difficulties. . So nothing is absolute.

This is a well-known old saying. It depends on the social environment, personal connections and luck.

Poverty and affluence are two opposing classes that exist objectively. They are divided by the abundance and scarcity of material capital, and the thickness of human feelings determines their respective value orientations.

There is a saying in our country that many people support bamboo poles. Who will support the well rope? ? Who wants to add soil to the high grave? These words may come from the mouth of the poor, but they cannot be said to be unreasonable.

You are rich and famous, and you are sure to make many friends. This is not always of great help to you, but a sense of face. Fortunately in misfortune, when in danger, you can solve the urgent need. You are poor, penniless and have nothing. What do people care about you? Some people are afraid to avoid it. Some relatives and friends are indifferent, and poverty is the inducement.

However, nothing in the world can be generalized, but it should be divided into two parts and viewed dialectically. Throughout the ages, many people have helped the weak and helped the poor. In ancient times, there were righteous men in the rivers and lakes, but now there are good policies of the government to help the people get rid of poverty, caring volunteers and many good friends for the poor.

In a word, we can't generalize everything in the world, but we should have a dialectical method to look at the problem in two. Only in this way can we not be extreme and balance our mood.

No one asked you if you live in a poor city, but you live in Toyama. Do you have any distant relatives? , and people walk tea cool? It is a normal human world. Say normal, because this is a common phenomenon, not an individual.

People bite rich dogs? Basket? Money to tell the truth, no money to tell lies. Don't believe me, but look at the wine at the banquet. Let's toast to the rich first, okay? More icing on the cake, less in the snow? . The common people summed up many similar human feelings.

Since this phenomenon is common, it shows that there is a profound reason, that is, matter determines consciousness. Everyone has a subconscious mind to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and more people want to take advantage, not send warm. This is the ugly side of human nature. Except, of course, in a few cases.

In reality, officials play with people with similar levels, and people with similar assets are a circle. As a classmate, my status has changed, so I can't play together, or I can't play naturally. It can be said that as long as there is a gap between the rich and the poor and the status gap, there will be such a human world. Don't condemn others, laugh at others, you are the same person.

In the future, the world will be one, everyone will truly achieve equality, material and rights will no longer be the object of pursuit or the capital to show off, and the dependence between people will be greatly reduced. Perhaps, such a human world will undergo fundamental changes. Before that, the only thing to do is to accept this reality, constantly change yourself and make yourself successful!