What should boys do to quickly warm up their feelings with girls they like? These five rules will help you.

Hello, everyone, this is the space of the voice of the soul. Pay attention to me, we study together and grow together. When many boys associate with girls, they have a problem, that is, how to warm up their feelings quickly? In this regard, I want to say that boys must first understand that the purpose of doing this is simply to chat or to tease her?

If the purpose is different, you will take a different approach. If you want to flirt, then I'll talk about how to make a girl want to chat with you when you chat with her.

Just like you just met, you should never use such a stupid opening remark:

Man: Are you there? What are you doing? )

Woman: I'm eating.

M: Oh.

I guess it will be very cool for boys to chat like this. When a boy first establishes a relationship with a girl, don't ask what the girl is doing, or are you busy? Hello?

This way is actually not very good. If you have something to say, everyone basically uses WeChat now. You express your needs and ideas in words. She saw it, and if she is interested in you, she will reply to you.

And boys try not to. The word "Oh" is actually the end of the topic. You should keep talking about it. For example, I'll tell you later. I just thought of a little joke, for fear that you might vomit.

Well, in this case, you have successfully aroused the appetite of girls, and she will feel good. This boy is ok, and he is good at chatting! Then she will contact you after eating. Before that, you should search for a little joke on the Internet. Whether this situation is obscene or elegant depends on you.

2. Learn to grasp the topic. The girl told you something, but you didn't follow her topic. Instead, you led the topic to your interest. Then girls may do it for the first time. If this happens again, girls will soon hack you.

Because you don't think from the girl's point of view, if you talk to yourself, girls will think you are narcissistic and immersed in your own world, so boys won't consider it.

If you want to talk about the topic you are interested in, you can talk about some topics on this basis after talking about this topic, and slowly transition to the topic you want to talk about, which is very good!

3. In order to learn some humor, boys deliberately play dumb, which is quite cute. Humor is a lubricant in interpersonal relationships, and we can know how much humor plays. People who can joke and drive properly need to learn. Humorous people are generally smart at heart.

When boys are in love, the most important thing is to make their girlfriends happy. As long as you feel comfortable chatting and you make her laugh, then she will think you are cute and interesting and will often take the initiative to chat with you.

4. Praise her for her beauty. Girls like to be praised. Praise her beautiful head, praise her beauty, praise her beautiful words. You don't boast for the sake of boasting, but you can't help boasting in the process of chatting. Therefore, there should be no routine in love, the simpler the better, and sincerity is the most important.

5. Make good use of some particularly cute expression packs to achieve unexpected results!

Nowadays, people chat mainly with words, so some expression packs that can reflect your heart will have a good effect when you use them.

Remember that WeChat chat is not a real chat, but an aid. You'd better get along well in real life, and don't talk too much online and be embarrassed in reality.

The most important thing in falling in love is in reality, right? If you are online dating now and don't feel strong about each other's closeness, then I suggest adopting the running water mode. You can flirt warmly, even if you don't get together in the end, there will be friendship.

Many times, we choose a friend of the opposite sex to chat, perhaps to relieve boredom, speak our minds and seek some comfort and encouragement, right?

Personally, I think friendship is a long-term relationship, so what I said above is nothing more than to tell you that you should have a comfortable feeling with your chat partner. After you use this method well, it will be of great benefit to your interpersonal relationship and your intimate relationship will be good in the future.

Let everyone who chats with you get a comfortable feeling, which is not only high in emotional intelligence, but also very intimate. And such people, in intimate relationships, will not be happy? I hope that each of us can take care of others on the basis of taking care of ourselves, so if we all do this, I can't imagine that we will live in a beautiful world.

Spring has come. What is the best love in your eyes when such a beautiful season comes? If you ask me, I will tell you that the best love is that everyone has a harmonious and happy intimate relationship. Everyone really loves each other. True love is not possession, but for each other's happiness.

I hope each of us can be a warm and virtuous person. No amount of love skills and routines are as important as sincerity and beauty.

I am the voice of the soul, a post-90 s psychological counselor. If you have emotional problems, you can trust me privately and I will help you solve them.