Mother-in-law slapped her daughter-in-law because of parenting problems. The next day, her in-laws blocked the door and forced her to kneel down and apologize. Who is right and who is wrong?

Speaking of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I believe many married women will have a lot of bitterness to vomit. Because of the particularity and sensitivity of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many married women don't know how to deal with it, which leads to many contradictions in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which further affects their married life.

Actually, it's not a woman's fault. After all, because a man inexplicably becomes a mother-daughter relationship with another strange woman, he will be at a loss and at a loss. And everyone knows the gold content of this "mother-daughter relationship".

Therefore, some people will suggest that a mother-in-law can treat her daughter-in-law as her own daughter, but a daughter-in-law should never treat her mother-in-law as a mother.

Because your biological mother will understand your small temper, understand your willfulness, and forgive you even if there are contradictions. But mother-in-law is different. Everyone is fine when it's good. Once there is a contradiction, the previous relationship will collapse.

Therefore, many women are always afraid when they get along with their mother-in-law, or they are prepared and can't put down their body and mind to communicate with their mother-in-law. This also leads to the difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

And if you want to ask at which time the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is prone to contradictions. Then I think it should be two stages. The first stage is that a woman is pregnant and her mother-in-law takes care of her, that is, during confinement; The second stage is when the mother-in-law helps to take care of the children.

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Why is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law most likely to occur in these two stages? This is because confinement is the most sensitive period for women. If her mother-in-law doesn't take good care of her during this period, it is likely to make women hate for life. Second, in the child-rearing stage, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different views on bringing up children, and conflicts will also arise at this time.

In fact, many mothers-in-law take care of their daughters-in-law, help with their children, and have good intentions. It's just that I used the wrong method in the process of helping, which led to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This is a typical good intention to do bad things. Of course, there are also mothers-in-law who deliberately make things difficult because they don't like their daughter-in-law. It is often the hardest to meet such a mother-in-law because she can't change her mind.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the most difficult marriage relationships. I hope all women should learn how to get along with their mother-in-law, so as to create a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and make their marriage happy.

Jialin is a hot-tempered woman, but she is not bad-hearted, but she will not be calm when something happens, so she often does bad things on impulse.

People who know her character are used to it and know that she didn't mean it; But people who don't know her will think that this person is too strong.

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When Jia Lin and her husband Zhang Haogang got married, Zhang Hao's mother disapproved of their marriage. Zhang Hao is a civil servant, while Garin is just an ordinary employee of a company. Zhang Hao's mother felt that Jia Lin was not worthy of her son at all, so she strongly disagreed with their marriage.

Jia Lin knew what her future mother-in-law was thinking and flew into a rage. She couldn't help quarreling with her future mother-in-law. It's even harder for two people to get married now. Zhang Hao's mother said, "If you dare to quarrel with me before marriage, you may abuse me after marriage! I strongly disagree with this marriage! "

Afterwards, under the persuasion of Zhang Hao and her family, Jialin bought a gift to apologize, but even so, Zhang Hao's mother did not agree to their marriage.

However, Zhang Hao likes Jia Lin very much, so she will have a showdown with her mother when she gets home. She will never marry Jia Lin in her life. If you don't agree, I will be single until I die.

Mother had no choice but to agree to the marriage of two people. Although she is still reluctant, she can't resist her son's insistence.

Only in this way can Garin marry Zhang Hao. Jia Lin's parents and Jia Lin are very similar in character, and they are both straightforward. When their daughter got married, Jialin's parents got married as soon as they were happy. Now Zhang Hao's mother is a little more balanced.

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Although two married people usually have a little quarrel, they forget afterwards that they have a good relationship. After a year of marriage, Jialin became pregnant. In order to take good care of Garin, Zhang Hao took her mother over.

Before picking up her mother, Zhang Hao asked Jia Lin to restrain his temper and not to quarrel with her mother-in-law. Jia Lin also agreed.

However, after her mother-in-law moved in, Jialin found herself unable to control her temper at all. Because what her mother-in-law did made her so angry.

As soon as my mother-in-law moved in, she regarded herself as the hostess of this family. The couple should report everything to her. If they do anything wrong, she will reprimand them and even seriously insult them.

Zhang Hao is fine. After all, he was used to it since he was a child. But Jia Lin had no choice. She's a little grumpy. I was able to hold back at first, but then I got bored and began to return to my mother-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plummeted.

In the end, two people will quarrel within a few minutes of meeting, and if no one stops them, they will definitely quarrel. Zhang Hao has regretted taking her mother and tried to send her back several times. But my mother was so angry that she was already fighting with Jialin and said nothing. He also threatened to educate Jialin well.

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The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been deadlocked. On weekdays, Jialin doesn't talk to her mother-in-law at all. My mother-in-law talks back every time she finds fault.

It's hard to get to the due date, and Jialin finally gave birth to the baby. But when I was pregnant, my mother-in-law still didn't leave. Originally Jialin wanted to go back to her family, but her mother-in-law wouldn't let her. She also said that if you marry into our family, you will make outsiders laugh.

Helpless, Jialin had to choose to let her mother-in-law take care of her. However, when her mother-in-law takes care of her and her children, she still follows the methods of the older generation, which makes Jialin very uncomfortable and often has disputes with her mother-in-law. In the second month, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled fiercely.

On that occasion, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled again because of taking care of the children. When her mother-in-law was angry, she slapped Jialin directly, which made Jialin angry. I took the children directly back to my parents' home and told them about it.

Jia Lin's parents have a bad temper. When they heard that their daughter was beaten by her mother-in-law, they were furious and came to the door the next day with a group of relatives and friends.

Mother-in-law also panicked when she saw that her in-laws had brought a group of people to block the door. Jia Lin's mother was even more angry and said to her, My daughter has been reluctant to fight since she was a child. A mother-in-law, you hit my daughter? I'm telling you, it's not over! Either you kneel down and apologize to my daughter, or this matter can't be finished today! .

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Zhang Hao was anxious to convince her parents-in-law. When Jia Lin's mother saw him, she didn't resist. Pointing at her nose, she scolded, "You punk, you don't know how to stop your wife from being beaten. How could I be blind and let my daughter marry you? " !

Everyone pushed and shoved, and her mother-in-law was frightened and called the police. After the police arrived, they began to mediate, and Jialin's parents took the people back.

After this incident, Zhang Hao went to Jialin's house many times, saying that he had sent his mother home and would not embarrass her again. Jia Lin just went home with him.

Many times, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often caused by a small matter. But since it can cause contradictions, it shows that grievances have been accumulated for a long time on weekdays. Men should play the role of lubricant in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and nip contradictions in the bud.

Husband and wife * * * Qi Xin worked together to actively solve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and * * * jointly managed the marriage. I believe that only in this way can marriage become happy.