Why is the fate of children different after Xiaoshengchu? what do you think?

Why is the fate of children different after Xiaoshengchu? what do you think? After Xiaoshengchu, the fate of children is not at a starting line. Every choice after primary school, junior high school, senior high school, university and work has created a different life for everyone.

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The first choice in life is junior high school, which is the beginning of our first choice. I still keep many photos of my primary school days. At that time, we had dreams, ideals, beloved teachers and friends who hit it off. Going to school together every day, we never thought that our future life would torture our ideals and dreams.

I took the primary school graduation exam for the first time and went to a middle school in the town 40 kilometers away. The middle school in the town is twice as big as the primary school campus. Unfortunately, at that time, I began to live in a different place. With my achievements at that time, I missed this middle school. Later, my father sent me to a private school in the city to save money. This private school has classes for six days a week, and has evening self-study from Sunday night to Friday night, from 7 pm to 9: 30 pm. At that time, I didn't feel bitter at all, because I could study without doing farm work. According to my mother, this is already a good kind of girl. I'm so lucky to be in junior high school.

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After junior high school, primary school students and junior high school students are not from the same world. After I entered the private junior high school in the city, I found that some of my classmates entered the key middle schools in the city, and some entered the ordinary middle schools according to their positions. Moreover, the scores of students in key middle schools are much better than those in private schools.

I have a cousin who is in the same class in primary school. According to the location, she studied in the junior high school with the weakest teaching quality in our hometown. But her grades are better than those of primary school students in private schools and key middle schools in the city. It can be said that my cousin is a bully or something. When the results of the senior high school entrance examination came out, my cousin entered the local high school with the highest enrollment rate and the best teaching quality. At that time, parents always thought that they would be happy to send their children to school, and they were never willing to spend money on tutoring. For ordinary me, my grades from primary school to junior high school are average, and it is impossible to counterattack.

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After junior high school, the trajectory of life has completed the most important part. Because junior high school grades are average, after high school, you can rely on the previous rote learning methods, and it has become a luxury to get qualified grades. As the task of learning becomes heavier and heavier, the learning methods have not improved, and there is no spare money to help extracurricular teachers. Just like a snowball, it is getting bigger and bigger, and it is getting farther and farther away from our university or dream. The fate of life is different.

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Are there still shadows in the dreams and ideals of life? Since I graduated from college, my savings are not much, and my house, car, children and husband have overwhelmed the ideals and dreams of that year. Getting up every day now is a trivial matter of life, and it is also a big expense. Dreams and ideals have long been untouchable jokes in real life.