I think when people laugh at others, they themselves become a joke because they laugh at others. Is this correct? What if correct

I don’t think so, depending on the situation. I assume that you yourself were laughed at, and you thought he was ridiculous and disdainful, but you didn't fight back in time, or you didn't think of a reasonable rebuttal that followed your mood. One possibility is that after hearing your point of view, he felt that you made mistakes in some places that should not be wrong, or that your point of view lacked thinking, was naive, immature, wishful thinking, and self-righteous. , cowardly and incompetent, tending to evade, etc., and in the corresponding aspect, he claims to be at a higher level than you, and does not want to be inconvenienced or disdainful to refute directly, so he laughs at it; another possibility is malice, and the ridicule in this aspect is very It is easy to detect, considering your reaction in my hypothetical situation, it should not be, and any "ridicule" is covertly aggressive (i.e. malicious); another possibility is behavior, your way of dealing with others or Personality traits make him feel uncomfortable, or your behavior has caused certain consequences without knowing it. The last possibility is that he was joking. One thing to note is that ridicule also has "original causes" (these "original causes" are all determined by his subjective identification of you, including prejudice, malice, and opposing views). Therefore, you should not stick to the "ridicule" "The behavior itself, it is undeniable that (at least in most cases, and it can support your point of view) ridicule is largely accompanied by "conceit" emotions, or objectively speaking, it is accompanied by a certain ability Higher than the other person's self-judgment, this may be the reason for your feeling. Let's not consider the differences in this "self-judgment" for the moment. Judging from my hypothetical reaction of you, you feel that he The point of your dissatisfaction is that you are also dissatisfied with his own judgment of yourself, so you feel that he is arrogant and unqualified. However, here, your emotions are of the same nature as his (that is, the third type above) situation), the behavior is different in appearance, but the nature is the same. Now you just want to be a prelude to a quarrel. Although you think you are superior to others (who quarrels with others?), but after thinking about it carefully, I am convinced. He won't quarrel either. And even if you find this famous saying, what is the difference between you and him in this matter? Don't treat behavior superficially, you must see the motivation behind your behavior. If you start a verbal fight recklessly, what's the difference between you and those who are superficial and conceited? If you can see through each other's behavior (starting from the reasons, any behavior is "reasonable"), controlling emotions and other things will be a piece of cake.