Why do you just want to make a lot of money?

When talking about money nowadays, some people will always jump out and say: You are so vulgar and vulgar, you love money so much. But who doesn’t love money? There has always been a joke that goes like this: You are not RMB, why should everyone like you?

It can be seen that everyone loves the RMB. And I never deny the fact that I love money.

Because I know that poverty will really bring too much despair to many people.

A

Recently, a distant relative suddenly had a high fever in the middle of the night and was hospitalized in the intensive care unit. When I heard the news, my first thought was: Why is it so serious? The second reaction was: How can his family bear such a high medical expense for one day?

This distant relative’s family is really poor, and he even borrowed money to build his home. The day after he went into the hospital, the hospital called his son and told him to give him a few days of grace time to raise money. When he heard the news, his son sat down with a plop. He couldn't believe that the hospitalization fee alone was 5,000 a day, not including the cost of medicine. He took out all his savings in the past few years, and it was not even enough for half a hospital stay. Months ago, when he called to borrow money, he cried and said: "A man doesn't shed tears easily, but I want to save my father."

Before he was transferred out of the ICU, relatives and outsiders There is no way to visit. His son sat in the corridor of the hospital every day. As soon as the nurses and doctors came out, he would grab him and ask about the situation. Maybe the doctor got used to it and said coldly, "We will take care of it." After he was transferred out of the ICU, we went to see him. His daughter was sitting beside the bed, her eyes clearly looking like she had just cried. When I saw her like that, my heart tugged hard. I looked up at the bottles, and they all had medical names that I couldn't understand.

The hospital has always been the one place I don’t want to go. Although it represents hope, it also represents death. Walking in the corridor of the hospital, I don’t know which of the patients I pass by will be lying in the morgue the next minute; I don’t know which one will give up treatment the next minute because they have no money and can only stay on the list. Write: Give up treatment.

In this huge city, someone's death has no impact on it. But for a family, what kind of grief is that. My distant relative's condition has stabilized now, but because of this, I still owe more than 100,000 yuan.

Why do you want to make a lot of money? Because you don’t want to be unable to afford treatment when you are sick, and you don’t want to be disappointed with the bill.

B

Orange, the first time she hugged her head and cried in front of me was when she gave up her studies.

Chengzi lost her father in the fourth grade of elementary school. Although relatives occasionally helped her, it was really hard for her mother to raise three children by herself, not to mention she didn’t want to receive charity from others all the time. Life. Chengzi's mother went to the factory to work as a female worker after sending her three children to school during the day. But the salary was pitifully low, only 1,000 yuan a month, so she washed clothes for others at night to earn extra money, because the tuition alone for three children would cost more than 1,100 yuan.

Cheng Zi said that when they were in elementary school, their mother would secretly wash buckets of clothes in the yard after they went to bed. She always cried when she looked at her, and ran out to help later. Even her younger brother and younger sister didn't know about this, because she felt that she was the elder sister, and she was half the head of the family at that time. When she was in junior high school, Chengzi went to the factory to help her mother do handicrafts as soon as she had no classes. She broke her hand after only a few times, leaving a lot of blood. She didn't dare to say anything, so she silently wrapped it up with a piece of cloth and continued.

Because she was a few points short of being admitted to the ideal middle school that met the standard, which cost thousands of dollars to buy, she carried the crumpled notice in her arms and did not dare to let her mother know. But she really wanted to go to that school, so she could only take the notice and go to her uncle for help, but her uncle said very tactfully: her son wanted to start a business, which was still a little bit off, and he was still planning. After hearing this, of course she could no longer hope for anything more. She took the transcript and went home in despair, crying for a long time in the corner of the yard in front of her home.

Later she said that she was so sad at that moment that she didn’t want to live anymore. After entering the house, her mother asked her which middle school she had been admitted to. She said calmly: "If you didn't get into the ideal school, forget it." Her mother didn't say anything and gave her a bowl of rice, and then she I went to Guangzhou to work alone.

She still keeps the crumpled notice in a small envelope. The outside of the envelope reads: Because of poverty, I can't afford to sleep with you.

Because I have known since I was a child that poverty brings about being out of school, and poverty brings about being looked down upon. She works harder than others. She says that money is her life. Only when she has money can she live well, because having no money is really too hard.

Why do you want to make a lot of money? Because you want your family to live a better life, because you don’t want to be unable to go to school, and you don’t want to be unable to pursue your dreams.

C

Her name is Yanzi. She got married the year she graduated from college and has been working as a stay-at-home mother. She had just graduated at that time, and at a young age she thought it would be good to marry someone who loved her, but it turned out not to be what she wanted. Because she has a child, she has no job, and her husband's salary is not high, so the cost of the child alone is exorbitant. She became afraid to buy cosmetics, clothes, shoes and bags. There were too many things she didn't dare to buy, and she had to hide and hide everything she wanted.

The few times she went shopping to buy things, even if she bought things for her children, her mother-in-law would not look kindly on her, and her words would be full of thorns. She originally wanted to go out to work to support the family, but her husband said that she would go out to work and who would take care of the children. She was silent. She knew that her mother-in-law would not be able to help her. Even when she fell ill during confinement, her mother-in-law would not help her.

With no other choice, she took some small money from her parents' family and opened a 15-square-meter small shop downstairs. At that time, I thought, her husband loves her so much, why would he let her guard the small shop alone. When chatting with her, she said: "The beauty on the surface is sad behind the scenes. Poor couples are really miserable. They don't want to live a poor life, let alone a life of spending money based on their appearance."

Although she doesn't make much money now, she still takes care of the children by herself. But at least her life has gotten a little better, which makes her feel that she is rich and how proud it is to spend money without looking at other people's faces. Sometimes she would take her children for a walk outside when they were on vacation. The world was so big and she really wanted to see it, even if it was just to the suburbs.

Why do you want to make a lot of money? Because you want to be financially independent and don’t want to look at other people’s faces; because you want to be able to afford the cosmetics, clothes, shoes, bags, and even luxury goods you want; and because you want to I have the confidence to say that it was all my own money.

D

Many people are saying that you don’t really need too much money, just enough. But for people who have experienced poverty and the experience of looking at other people’s faces, no amount of money is enough. They don’t want to eat ordinarily eat or dress in ordinary ways, they don’t want to face a sudden disaster, and they don’t want to be looked down upon by others.

Sometimes we work like crazy and run like a cheetah, not for fame and fortune, but just to live a better life, just to make ourselves more valuable.

When we have money, our parents can enjoy their old age in peace early, take them for regular physical check-ups, and take them on trips regularly.

Once we have money, our children will be able to afford good schools and good interest classes.

When we have money, we can say to the expensive menu that we are not in a good mood today and want to eat a big meal without feeling distressed.

When we have money, we can say that the world is so big, and I really want to go for a walk, so as not to regret it later when I can’t move.

When we have money, we don’t have to say to expensive things: I’ll go to such-and-such website to see if they have the same style.

If we have money, you can hold a dazzling and dreamy wedding for the girl you like.

When Yang Mi was being interviewed, the host asked her if she wanted to buy a house for her parents, would she need to ask Hawick Lau? She said: "No, I have money and can afford it." When Fan Bingbing was asked by reporters about marrying into a wealthy family, she said domineeringly: "I don't need to marry into a wealthy family, I am a wealthy family myself."

Money is never a bad thing. Only when we have money can we stand at a higher place and see how beautiful the world is.

Money is not everything, but without money nothing is impossible. We want to make a lot of money too much, just because we know how terrible it is to be poor.