After attending the funeral in the countryside, what should I do with filial piety?

After the funeral in the countryside, some mourning clothes will be taken back, because it represents respect for the dead. Many people will say that this is a bit unlucky. In fact, in our rural hometown, there is a saying that only taking back mourning clothes is a kind of respect, and there is no unlucky saying.

Of course, in modern times, mourning clothes are generally leased, and they will be returned to their original owners after they are used up, so it is easier to handle them at this time. Just like my colleague Xiao Li, when his mother died, everything was rented, so it is more convenient to return it at this time. This can save a lot of things, or avoid some unnecessary troubles. Of course, some people do not belong to leasing, but belong to direct purchase.

Then we can get it back at this time, which is not necessary. Of course, there are many stresses on filial piety, but it is related to the deceased, and we should treat it differently, and there is a lot of knowledge in it that we need to learn. If the old man in the family died at the age of 1 or 9, then this is a funeral in our rural hometown, that is to say, the old man is close to 1 years old and died of old age without any illness, so at this time, mourning clothes can be used to sew some clothes for children, which is a sign of blessing.

After all, 1 years old is a long life for ordinary people, so if it is a funeral, then clothes can be used to make some gadgets, and you can choose to give them to your children, which is absolutely necessary. Of course, if a distant relative dies, then these mourning clothes can be burned. And generally this kind of situation belongs to collective burning, that is to say, the mourning clothes of distant relatives will be unified, and then a place will be found for unified burning. Of course, every place has its own emphasis, and this is different, because in some places, both distant relatives and immediate family members will choose to burn directly.