Why do people who often chat online seldom speak when they meet, and speak the same language?

There will be such a phenomenon. Many people chat well on the Internet, and all kinds of expressions include all kinds of fighting pictures, but they can't say a few words when they really leave the Internet and come to reality.

I think the reasons should be as follows.

First, this person is introverted and relies on the Internet.

The rise of the Internet is good news for many people, but it is magic sound for some parents. Many children feel inferior and introverted, and are not good at communicating with others, so they indulge in the virtual internet world and pass on their joys and sorrows to strangers. There is a child in our neighbor's house who especially likes playing games and social software. He has been fascinated by it. These family members refused to listen to anything they tried to persuade, and they refused to listen to anything they said. Finally, his father smashed the computer in a rage.

The more you rely on the virtual world, the more you resist the real world.

Second, expectations

In the virtual world, you don't have to communicate with others face to face. Others can't see your face or hear your voice, so everyone's face becomes words. If people at the other end of the network talk humorously, you will have a good association and feel that the other person is a tall and handsome person, which will gradually lead to a good impression.

However, if you really meet a real person, you may feel that the appearance and voice of the other person are not what you like. This gap in your heart suddenly comes out, and you will feel that your imagination has completely collapsed. However, if you start chatting, you may feel embarrassed. After all, the two people are strangers and have only communicated online.

Third, fun.

When you feel embarrassed on the internet, you can make up for it with words. Whether you know it or not, everyone can compete for pictures, and competing for pictures can also bring the relationship between two people closer. But in real life, chatting between two people is really chatting. I am most afraid of the sudden silence of the air. If there is nothing to talk about for a while, will they just stare at each other?

Third, virtuality and reality.

Invisible and intangible in the virtual world seems to be fueling some hidden desires in people's hearts. If I dare not say it at ordinary times, I dare say that it will be pleasant to say it, and I don't have to pay for this consequence. At most, I will be hacked. For example, some people who chat online only choose girls in their twenties, and they must browse other people's spaces first. When they came up, they asked how old they were and whether they had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This kind of person may still be a well-dressed gentleman in reality.

And many people dare not say such things, such as confession. In real life, do many people express their love for each other by writing letters, leaving messages on QQ and leaving messages in space? Are there very few people who can make bold courtship with their goddess? Because he is afraid of refusing and losing face.