Why do more and more women refuse premarital examination?

I don't know if I don't check, I'm shocked if I check!

Afraid of revealing the stuffing!

Tell him she's a simple girl,

I didn't know there was a premarital examination,

My mother, isn't it obvious? How dare you!

Why do more and more women refuse premarital examination?

My opinion is: 1. At that time, in order to confirm her health, my mother took the initiative to have a premarital examination before getting married, registered with my father and gave birth to us. At that time, the premarital examination was self-demanding and honest.

2. Nowadays, women are open, lively and not reserved, and many of them have been like that for a long time. It's okay to talk about friends, but you have to have a premarital check-up before you get married. That won't do. You said you were a simple girl, and you knew everything when you looked it up. No, refuse!

Some women beat their children, but they can't tell their boyfriends. If they are disgusted, it will be difficult. Don't test anything, you have to say it yourself. The doctor said everything during the examination.

Question and answer summary: I don't know, but I checked the man's name. This is the psychology of some women who refuse premarital examination.

I don't make trouble myself, shoot ghosts or knock at the door. An open woman is not afraid to check. It's better to check whether she is healthy.

Now the post-90s generation has basically reached the point of talking about marriage. Some people fell in love a long time ago, and naturally reached the state of marriage after forming a love relationship. However, the actual data show that more post-90s people are forced to get married due to family and their own conditions. Of course, they got married in a hurry because they were unfamiliar, and there were many obscure topics, such as premarital examination. Research data show that more and more women are now secretive about premarital examination, and there are very resistant factors in their hearts.

First of all, the so-called premarital examination refers to some basic reproductive and physical examinations conducted by both men and women before marriage. The main purpose of premarital examination is to give birth to a good child so as not to affect the next generation, but these basic examinations can check whether women are healthy and innocent. Good health, basically nothing wrong, mainly innocence. In the present open society, it is sometimes a joke. So many women refuse premarital examination for the following reasons.

First, some women decide to give their body and mind to each other in order to show their seriousness, but when the so-called feelings disappear, they can only choose to break up. At this time, the so-called perfect figure of girls no longer exists, which greatly affects the psychological barrier between husband and wife and even the frustration in marriage.

Secondly, the premarital examination can also check whether the girl has miscarried or aborted because she has had sex in the previous relationship. Because this question is taboo, many girls avoid talking about it when they get married, fearing that the man will choose to leave after knowing that he has such a situation, and the man rarely notices this, but it will be clear at a glance after he is really married and pregnant. But at this time, it depends on the man's psychological endurance and acceptance.

Thirdly, it is not excluded that many unmarried women will be shy when doing premarital examination. After all, you don't know whether the doctor is a male doctor or a female doctor when you check. The female doctor is embarrassed, so because she is shy, she is also very resistant. However, I believe that the relationship between the two will be further consolidated after the test results come out.

Fourth, the examination process is informal and unprofessional, and some of them are just a formality, so this will lead many women to pay little attention to the premarital examination, and naturally they will hold a kind of refusal psychology, but as far as the current medical level is concerned, this situation has rarely happened.

In short, there are various reasons for girls to refuse premarital examination, but from the current survey data, the first two points account for a large proportion. But, in my opinion, if something really happened, don't hide it. You know, someone will always care about your imperfect past. If you hide deeper, the power of the explosion will be greater. what do you think?

This is the chaos of unmarried cohabitation. Now unmarried young women are pregnant, and there are many unmarried abortions. They are worried about the man's questioning, the man's questioning and the failure of their marriage. They tried their best to avoid premarital examination, covered up the fact of a certain disease and laid a bad consequence for their marriage. Advise unmarried men and women that marriage is not a game, so we must take it seriously and take good care of it!

Although, ideologically, I am still dissatisfied with my old age. However, time makes people old. Every time I see this kind of problem on the Internet, I know I'm really old.

Why do more and more women refuse premarital examination? This question fully shows that the era we once lived in is really gone forever. Now this brand-new era is indeed an era of openness, progress and tolerance, and an era in which the younger generation can fully display themselves.

You see, this premarital examination can be refused casually, which is an incredible thing for us "older generation".

I am not a scholar, much less a poet. I don't feel like a scholar However, I have experienced a relatively closed era and witnessed the arrival of a great era. This really impressed me.

Why do you say that? Because, I think it is really good to be a young man now.

I remember in our time, this kind of marriage was not something you could get married if you wanted to. It is really not easy to get married smoothly and neatly.

At that time, if you wanted to get married, you had to write an application first, then get the consent of the unit leader, and then the unit would give you a certificate. With the certificate, you and your prospective lover can go to the designated hospital for premarital examination together.

There are two necessary conditions for a premarital examination. If you want to get a marriage certificate, you must do it and pass it.

If you don't get the results report of the premarital examination, or the results of the premarital examination show that you have reproductive health problems with your lover or one of them, the street civil affairs department will not handle the marriage certificate for you. In other words, it is impossible for you and your lover to get married.

From this, we can imagine how important the premarital examination was at that time.

That's what I want to say. This era is really good, and it is also one of the reasons why I envy the young people now.

In fact, premarital examination was not compulsory many years ago. Now young people can go or not to get married, and they are completely free to choose. Many people still choose to go. Then why do more and more women refuse premarital examination?

The reasons may be as follows: First, young people nowadays are too troublesome to go to the hospital; Second, most young people now live together, and it is only one thing to check it out; Third, the girl doesn't want others to know that she is no longer a prostitute of Huanghua, and she feels a little ashamed; Fourth, I may be afraid that I will really be found to have reproductive problems. You see, we have lived together for many years. If the other one is not suitable for marriage, it will be embarrassing and people don't know what to do.

However, on the other hand, although there are so many reasons for refusing a premarital examination, it does have certain significance. It is suggested to check the situation and rule out some possible situations in advance, so that married life and life will be smoother and happier.

Premarital examination generally refers to premarital examination, which refers to some basic reproductive and physical examinations conducted by both men and women before marriage.

Why did you refuse the premarital examination? On the one hand, I am afraid, on the other hand, I feel untrustworthy.

What are you afraid of? As we all know, there are so many unmarried people living together now that young people can't help it. On the one hand, it may be that the man is afraid of the legendary virgin complex Secondly, many unmarried cohabitants do not take contraceptive measures, which often leads to death and accidents. We should know that abortion is harmful to health, and some may affect lifelong infertility and the quality of children in the future. So I'm afraid for these two reasons.

Why do you think it is not credible? Then some women will think that when two people fall in love, you love my person, my body and my soul. Is it important to have children in the future? Is it important to have high quality children in the future? If the quality is not high, then it is not your child? Do you love me or our children? Am I a fertility machine? Wait, wait, wait. If you have these ideas, you will be very disgusted with premarital examination.

In the past, before marriage, it was also a test for couples to have a premarital examination. Only after passing the doctor's examination can the two parties get married. After the implementation of the new marriage law in 2003, the premarital examination was changed from compulsory to voluntary, and many girls refused. There are many factors. First of all, they think this is a very private matter and don't want to expose their privacy to others. But some doctors are male doctors. Looking at and touching the most secret parts of their bodies will make them feel unacceptable, which is also a kind of shyness. They feel that the other party doesn't trust them enough. What are they hiding from themselves? If you trust each other, you will tell them everything about yourself, instead of finding some problems through a premarital examination. Therefore, if you don't love each other deeply enough and don't trust each other, test each other's body in this way before marriage, so that the other party feels unacceptable and disrespectful to themselves. Some women deliberately hide it, such as chaotic pre-marital relationship, or suffering from certain sexually transmitted diseases, repeated pregnancy and miscarriage, thin uterine wall, or inability to get pregnant. They are afraid that their husbands will find out their hidden secrets and abandon them after the examination, so they will do everything possible to refuse the premarital examination. And some girls, in order to avoid their husbands, deliberately went to the hospital to do some repairs. The husband doesn't know about this operation, but the hospital can check it out. They are afraid that their husbands will know the truth, dislike or even abandon them, and refuse to have a premarital examination. Some women have been operated on all parts of the body, and all the beauty is fake, not original. They are afraid that their husbands will know the truth and refuse them, so they don't cooperate or even refuse this premarital examination. Of course, there are also very few women who are particularly conservative, very shy, and even afraid of this kind of examination, fearing that it will have a bad influence on their health. Now it is an open society, and there are very few particularly conservative women. If you find out that your partner is a virgin before marriage, it is as rare as winning the lottery. Most of them are afraid of revealing their secrets and refuse to cooperate with the premarital examination. At present, premarital check-ups are mainly voluntary and voluntary. If the man doesn't want to have a premarital examination, he has no right to force the other person to have such an examination. Moreover, both men and women should cooperate with doctors to carry out such examinations, and it is of great significance for the harmony and stability of marriage to find early treatment of diseases, solve problems in time and avoid various contradictions after marriage. Premarital examination system is a good system, which can prevent and solve the hidden dangers of pregnancy and childbirth, and ensure the harmony of marriage and the safety of children. Women refuse premarital check-ups, using "shyness" as an excuse, or lack of time and necessity as an excuse, mostly because of lack of self-confidence and safety awareness. It is human nature and understandable to keep your secret, but marriage is the love and desire of both men and women, and it is also a major event to live together for a lifetime. Keeping a secret may give you peace of mind for a while, but it is difficult to guarantee your peace of mind for a lifetime. There is a saying that what is good for you and me is really good. For this, I just want to say: if there is no ghost in my heart, why should I be afraid of a premarital examination? If you don't want to go to the premarital examination, then more than 90% people will have ghosts in their hearts.

Nowadays, it is normal for girls to fall in love several times, make a few boyfriends and sleep together. Even if there is no chance, they will live together after a trip. Don't ask me how I know, because I have experienced it. Of course, this matter can't be entirely blamed on women. Some men are full and run away. It is because I have had a boyfriend that it is inevitable that there will be accidents when I sleep together. However, without financial means or desire, the only solution is to get rid of the child and get rid of it.

Many men are not afraid of someone dying in the belly of their marriage partner. So under normal circumstances, men will ask for a premarital examination, which should be a comprehensive physical examination, just to understand all health problems. If girls have no problem, I believe they will be willing to have a premarital examination, because it is responsible for everyone, because men will do it, which is actually good for everyone.

Some girls who think that the premarital examination will find out their past will resist the premarital examination because they are afraid that boys will know the past, and then the relationship will end.

Another possibility is that some girls are not chaotic, just afraid of premarital examination. In case they find out that they have never had a disease before, they are afraid, just as we are afraid to go to the physical examination and find out the problem.

Actually, if a girl really has a problem, she can tell her fiance in advance. If she thinks she will make mistakes when she is young, forgive you, that is the best ending. If she feels that she can't accept it, it is equivalent to knowing a lot in advance and avoiding the unhappiness of married life.

"Premarital examination" is a comprehensive physical and physiological (privacy) examination of young men and women before marriage. It can detect whether you have genetic diseases, infectious diseases and so on. Premarital examination is not only beneficial to the health of the parties concerned, but also to the healthy growth of the next generation, which can avoid many tragedies and is a good policy for the benefit of the country and the people.

But why was it rejected? First of all, premarital examination involves personal privacy. Apart from shyness and fear of pain, some people have not lived an honest and clean life before marriage. Of course, they refused because they were afraid that the other party would know.

Others think that things like premarital examination are detrimental to their dignity. Since they don't believe it, don't get married.

Others feel that they are young, free to fall in love, healthy, feel unnecessary and refuse.

In short, because everyone's experience is different, the situation is definitely different, so we cannot generalize.

Only by not correcting the past and looking forward can we live healthier and happier lives.