Why do I always feel a little stupid?

First of all, you must understand that face is given to yourself, not given to you by others.

The reason why you feel stupid is not because of IQ, but more because of EQ.

After reading your question, I think your biggest problem is your lack of confidence.

Because you are not confident, you are cowardly;

You are cowardly because of emotional problems, so you are laughed at;

Because you are bullied, you are cowardly, so you are bullied repeatedly; /p>

Maybe it’s because I couldn’t get first place, so I don’t have enough confidence.

In fact, there are not many people who are truly confident. Everyone has an inferiority complex.

Thinking about it from another angle, maybe it is because your grades are not so outstanding and your personality is a "soft persimmon",

Those who are making noises may not be jealous of you. So play tricks on you to find balance.

No one is born unconfident. There must be a reason for your unconfidence;

I guess your unconfidence should initially come from your appearance, body and other extroversion. Characteristics;

In addition, your immature way of thinking is also the cause of your current situation.

These characteristics make you less and less confident.

Fortunately, you said that you are an extrovert. Here are some suggestions:

1. Establish correct values, don’t be influenced by other people’s thoughts, and reflect on your own. Behavior;

2. Don’t be hot-headed and say immature words, think more before speaking, silence is golden;

3. Be brave enough to face the object of your admiration, because everyone is making noises In the end, your reaction will always meet everyone's expectations. If everyone doesn't see the scene they expect to see after making noises, they will get tired of it after repeating it a few times. According to my experience, pretending to be silent is not as bold as breaking the boat and talking about it in a normal way with the person you admire. I think as a girl, you may not be happy to be teased every day.

4. As for the one who takes the lead in making noises, there is no need to beat him up. You have to show him with practical actions that you are not afraid of him! He is making noises, but you can remain calm and ignore his existence, which is the greatest victory. If he scolds you, you ignore it. If he takes action, you do the same. Don't care about winning or losing. This is an attitude! As for him asking people to surround you, you have to tell him what might happen if you are maimed. After all, there is no deep grudge against you. In addition, you can also ask your teacher for help. In short, if you are really beaten, no matter how badly you are beaten, you must defend your own dignity. The physical damage is only temporary, but the mental damage is lifelong. You cannot compromise, you cannot be afraid, and you cannot be a grandson. You must persevere to the end, this is victory, otherwise you will never be able to hold your head up!