Can a man really accept a second-married woman without any bad feelings?

In many traditional thinking, the requirements for women are usually harsh. In most traditional ideas, it is believed that once a woman is divorced, she will be rejected by men, and it is difficult to find another man who loves her wholeheartedly.

However, with the development of society, people's ideas have also changed a lot. Divorce is becoming more and more common now, and many people have the same number of second marriages and third marriages.

Especially in recent years, many divorced women will even have many suitors if they remain elegant. In the eyes of many people, some women are more attractive than young women after a certain age.

However, for divorced women, even if the society is more open now, many people don't care about divorced women. However, although some men say they don't care, if they are really with divorced women, they will still have some bad feelings in their hearts.

What I said above is only part of the phenomenon. In fact, many times, people still believe in love. And as long as you are good enough, you will still meet the right person, and you can still walk with the right person for the rest of your life.

Below, I listed three stories about second marriage and family reorganization to share with you. Second marriage, is a man really willing to accept a second married woman?

Mr. Ma: Feelings are the most important.

Mr. Ma and his present wife have been married for six years. When they first met, they had the same topic and similar lives. After getting to know each other, they reorganized their families.

After Mr. Ma divorced his predecessor, his life was a mess. Before meeting his present wife, he always thought that he would live alone in the future and was not interested in anyone. Only after being with his current wife did he regain his hope for life.

After they got together, they really didn't like it at first. After all, both of them are divorced, and Mr. Ma has his own children.

At that time, he was always worried that his wife would not treat her children sincerely, and she would be somewhat wary of living with each other.

But as time went on, Mr. Ma found that his wife is not only good to children, but also good in character. When you get along with others, you always show your most elegant side. Even many people often envy Mr. Ma for finding such an excellent wife.

Later, Mr. Ma put down all precautions and lived with his current wife wholeheartedly. No matter what happens, the two people will discuss it, and there are few contradictions at ordinary times, and they get along well.

Mr. Ma thinks that affection is the most important thing in marriage. Once love comes, it feels right, and it doesn't matter whether the other person is married or not.

Mr. Xiao: As long as you really like it, you don't care about anything else.

Mr. Xiao has been with his current wife for more than two years. During this period, they never quarreled, and there was no contradiction, and they got along well with each other.

When Mr. Xiao decided to reorganize his family with his current wife, he was actually opposed by his family. Because his wife is not only three years older than him, but also divorced with a child.

Not only did the family object, but even relatives and friends in their hometown made various accusations. Many people think that Mr. Xiao is too poor to do so and is willing to help others raise their children.

Later, Mr. Xiao overcame all difficulties, not only got a marriage certificate with his current wife, but also settled down in the county. Because they can't stand the discussion of rural neighbors, Mr. and Mrs. Xiao only go home to accompany the elderly on holidays.

Married life is very harmonious. Not only did they not quarrel, but they also made their new home especially warm. The most important thing is that two people have no bad feelings in their usual interactions, just like normal couples.

Mr. He: As long as I can live.

Mr. He's situation is quite special. He divorced his ex-wife for three years and brought a daughter. In addition, he is busy with work, and his daughter has just entered the first grade. He is a careless person and often doesn't know how to take care of his daughter.

Later, under the introduction of friends, I met my current wife. At first, they didn't talk much, because they were both inarticulate people, so they rarely talked after adding contact information.

Later, Mr. He met her at a friend's party, and under the various matchmaking of friends, the two began to try to get along. After getting along for two months, both sides knew each other's situation and felt that they were not bad, so they got the license.

After marriage, the wife is also very kind to Mr. He's daughter. They have been married for more than three years, during which they have never quarreled. And the division of labor between the two people is also very clear. The most important thing is that she is very kind to Mr. He's daughter.

From no feelings to getting along slowly, both sides feel that the other is a person who can survive, so they will not choose again.

Mr. He thought it would be nice to find a suitable person to live with. After all, there are many inconveniences in one's life.

Judging from the experiences of the above three men, in fact, many middle-aged divorced people choose to reorganize their families because of love and other reasons.

But in any case, after all, people are divorced in middle age, and it is really not easy to find someone who is really tempted. Because everyone has experienced feelings, it is clear that in a relationship, life is more important than feelings.