What if my colleagues often speak ill of me behind my back?

Sometimes we encounter this situation in the workplace and overhear some gossip about ourselves. At this time, we just heard it and didn't know what to do. Well, first of all, we have to admit that this is a very normal thing, and there may be "communication" between you and your colleagues!

We come to the enterprise to do things, to achieve the goals set by the company, and to gain fame or benefits for ourselves, so we should keep an eye on our goals and don't give up the opportunity to communicate with every colleague. The exchange meeting will let them know themselves and what kind of person they are, so that everyone can get to know each other. Generally speaking, you always think of others, and others will think of you and change things for you.

Don't overestimate yourself and don't underestimate others. It is not a bad thing to unite capable people to do great things, unite ordinary people to do things, and unite villains.

Don't get angry when your colleagues speak ill of you. Calm down, a little intolerance leads to great mischief.

If you learn from other colleagues, they will speak ill of you. When you hear this, you can't take it too seriously, and you can't compete too much.

It's good that you know it.

Find a suitable opportunity to talk to other colleagues in the future. When everyone is excited, you can praise the colleague who often speaks ill of you.

As long as you insist on praising your colleagues from time to time behind your back, your colleagues will not dare to speak ill of you behind your back for a long time.

As the saying goes, those who talk about right and wrong must have right and wrong. Your colleagues often slander you behind your back, but you often praise her behind her back and give her extra points. After a long time, a discerning person will know who is right and who is wrong at a glance.

If she continues to speak ill of you behind your back, it is estimated that more than half of the people in the company will want to stay away from her.

Tidy up your emotions before communicating.

The first step of correct communication is to tidy up your emotions before communication.

It is undoubtedly unpleasant to be misunderstood. Many people have a strong impulse to prove their correctness and let the other side see themselves correctly. When you want to communicate with each other to prove your innocence, if you don't sort out your unpleasant emotions in advance, you will communicate impulsively in most cases, that is, vent your emotions more than express your content!

This simply can't achieve the expected communication effect.

If the communication emotions are wrong, the content will be easily biased by emotions, or even seriously distorted, so we must sort out the emotions before communication, otherwise the misunderstanding will only get deeper and deeper.