How should a woman view a man's commitment to herself?

I think women can trust men's promises, but they must be reserved. For example, "I raise you" in men's minds and "I raise you" in women's minds are absolutely different concepts. The "I support you" in a man's heart is simply to eat and wear warm clothes, clean up the housework at home or take care of the children. "I support you" in a woman's mind means to buy whatever she wants and eat whatever she wants. If you have nothing to do, you can have afternoon tea with your girlfriends and do a SPA. These are two consumption concepts. Don't confuse them. Women must be economically independent to have the right to speak.

Of course, we don't deny that men want to lift your heart at the moment they say this to you. Absolutely, but life is made up of trivial daily things, and the mood at that moment can't last forever. But in the face of a man's "I raise you", don't answer "Can you afford it?" Or "I don't need you to raise it!" Give appropriate emotional feedback.

The attitude towards commitment is actually the personal experience of the person who accepts the commitment. When we are young, commitment is a kind of good hope and trust in the promisor. For living in the present moment of life, commitment is not only a commitment, but also a responsibility and responsibility. It also means cheating, even lies. Frequently giving promises and discounting promises will eventually lead to the loss of expectations, and stay away from a faithless person, not only a faithless person, but also a liar full of benevolence and morality and a fool who wins the trust of the people.

Finally, virtue is virtue because virtue is rare. A man who can keep his word is a man standing, and vice versa. When you make a promise to others, you should first trust him, but also be prepared for him to break his word. If he keeps his promise, you should treat him as a gentleman. If he breaks his word, you can only pity him. Because you were prepared before, you won't be hurt because he broke his word.