Have you ever met a girl who has “never seen the world”?

I went for a pedicure that day, and the girl who massaged my feet said that she could earn about 5,000 yuan a month, but she only kept 1,000 yuan and sent the rest home. I looked at how she was dressed, and she didn't look like someone who only kept 1,000 yuan a month.

That day, I was called in by the landlady as soon as I got to work. She asked me to accompany her to the wholesale market to inspect. She said that she wanted to open more stores, but she didn’t know what the current market conditions were like. She also said that she would wait for a while. The store is open and I will manage everything.

After hearing what the landlady said, I concealed my inner joy, took the keys and bag from the landlady, and then set off. After shopping for 3 hours, my feet were already sore and sore, but the lady boss was still full of energy. It seemed that the title of "strong woman" was really well-deserved.

The boss lady smiled meaningfully when she saw me almost unable to walk, and asked me to exercise more, saying that the body is the capital of struggle. Without a good body, there is no need to talk about struggle, let alone Talk about happiness. I am ashamed to say that I will pay attention to it in the future.

Later, after we returned to the company, the lady boss insisted on giving me 300 yuan to find a pedicure shop to relax my feet. She said that I would accompany her to inspect another wholesale market tomorrow.

I couldn’t refuse, so I had to accept the 300 yuan. In addition, my feet were really sore, so after get off work, I ate a quick meal and went directly to a nearby pedicure shop. .

At that time, there was no one in the pedicure shop. The girl who massaged my feet was probably in her early 22s. She was pretty, but she didn’t like to talk. In order to avoid embarrassment, I took the initiative to find a topic to chat with her.

In the chat, I learned that the younger sister is from the countryside and is 23 years old. In order to reduce the burden on her parents, she has been working for three years. She now sends her brother and sister's tuition fees back.

I really didn’t expect that this little girl would be so sensible at such a young age, and love her parents, younger brother, and younger sister so much. It’s really rare.

However, regarding my younger sister’s career, I was very curious about how much her monthly income could be, so I asked her how much money she could earn per month and whether it was more than 10,000 yuan.

The little girl smiled sheepishly and asked me not to make fun of her. She also said that she could earn about 5,000 yuan a month, but she only kept 1,000 yuan and sent the rest to her. Go home.

I took a look at the little girl’s outfit, including lipstick and manicure. The quality of the clothes looked good and the style seemed new. The high heels looked brand-name. Like the person who only keeps 1,000 yuan every month.

The little girl seemed to have read my mind, and smiled and said to me that her lipstick cost 5 yuan, her manicure was done for free during the store’s event, and her clothes, skirts, and high heels were all cheap. Goods, silk stockings are even cheaper, 10 pairs for 10 yuan.

After hearing what the little girl said, I was a little unbelievable. If this was really the case, then she would still have 1,000 yuan left every month, because she said that the boss paid for her food and accommodation. Since you have enough money, why not buy some more expensive and better lipsticks and clothes?

The little girl did not answer my question directly. Instead, she asked me, why do I choose the expensive one instead of the cheap one? I said, if you buy these cheap ones and people find out, they will laugh at you for not seeing the world.

The little girl looked at me seriously and asked me again, what does it mean to have never seen the world? I proudly said, do you know any big brands of lipstick? Do you know how much a pair of other people's high heels is worth like yours? Do you know what monogrammed stockings are?

Faced with my series of rhetorical questions, the little girl calmly replied to me with three words: I don’t know. I was about to explain it to her proudly, but she added that although she didn't know this, she knew how often her family ate meat, how often her parents changed into new clothes, and how often her younger brother and sister changed their schoolbags and pencil cases.

The little sister’s words made me stunned for a moment. I didn’t know what to say. The little sister asked me again, asking me if I knew what she knew. At that moment, my face turned red because I had forgotten the last time I gave money to my parents.

The younger sister saw the embarrassed look on my face, so she said sorry to me, saying that she was not targeting me, but just expressing her feelings.

She also said that in fact, she could also choose the so-called "seen the world", but compared with her family and family ties, "seen the world" is really not worth mentioning.

I never expected that my little sister would say such profound things, so I apologized to her embarrassedly and asked her not to take my rash words to heart.

The younger sister said it was okay, and also said that she had actually never seen the world, but she did not think it was a shameful thing. If you want to "seen the world", you must have certain qualifications. Conditionally, and her conditions do not allow it, but she has been working hard, she has been saving money, and she wants to learn yoga and English. This has always been her interest and dream.

This time, I felt even more ashamed. My little sister’s words really made me better than ten years of studying. In order to resolve the embarrassment, I changed the subject and asked my little sister how much money she had saved now.

The girl looked at me sheepishly and said that she had saved quite a lot, but last year she saw someone organized to donate money to Wuhan, so she donated most of the money she had saved. Although it wasn't much, it was still part of her heart.

The image of the little girl suddenly became taller in my heart. In the past, I only admired my boss’s wife, but now, I have another woman that I admire.

Later, when I left, I wanted to give my little girl a tip of 200 yuan, but she refused. She also said that although she needed money, a gentleman loves money and should get it in a wise way, so it was her turn to take it. She will take it if it's hers, and she won't take a cent of what she shouldn't get.

That night, I tossed and turned and couldn't sleep. I felt that I was too superficial. In vain, I laughed at the little girl for "having never seen the world." I didn't expect that the clown was myself, and I had never seen the world. Like myself.

Through the exchange with my little sister that night, I would like to share my opinion on the question "What is the most unsociable girl you have ever seen?":

1. Compared with "seeing the world", family love is more worthy of our efforts. Some people do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to buy brand products in order to "see the world", but they do not realize that they need to contribute more to provide a good life for their families; some people do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to travel around the country in order to "see the world", but they do not even have a single I have never bought any long johns for my parents. "Having seen the world" is indeed valuable, but family ties are more valuable, and family ties are more worthy of our efforts.

2. It doesn’t matter whether we have seen the world or not. What is important is that we must know how to work hard and strive for our dreams. Everyone cannot choose their own birth environment, but we can work hard to change our living environment, and we can fight for our dreams. We work hard, there will be bread, there will be milk, and we can see everything in the world.

3. We should not laugh at those who have "never seen the world", but should do our best to help if we can. Many times, we make fun of others for not having seen the world. Little do we know that our own behavior of making fun of others is actually a kind of behavior of "not having seen the world." This is the first time for everyone, and everyone should be treated with the respect and kindness they deserve.

There is a saying that goes: All roads lead to Rome, but some people are born in Rome. Everyone’s situation is different, but through hard work, we can all get to where we want to be. Not having seen the world is not scary. What is scary is not working hard and not changing.

In the face of "people who have never seen the world", if we cannot help, then at least we should not look down on them. If you are successful, you can help the world; if you are poor, you can take good care of yourself and encourage the king.