My mother and I often quarrel, and the frequency is three sentences before we have a big fight. What shall we do? Somebody help me. Control yourself.

If you want to be a filial child, you must learn to be patient. My mother is tired of taking care of the elderly and has to worry about the life of her family. It is inevitable that language can't stand it. You can think that my mother is a neat freak. Then do what she wants. As for your saying that mom is mentally ill, are you sure? If so, please forgive me for being unreasonable. If that's the case, then don't care about something with your mother. Do you really want her to become mentally ill? You are also a new generation with higher education. You should have a good attitude, be positive, be Qiang Jian and be stupid. Mom and you are not from the same era, and there may be a small generation gap in communication with you. If you can't understand or even accept some of her ideas and practices, let her go on like this and don't correct them. Remember that she is your mother and she loves you. Why can't you love her your way? Well, having said so much, you should know what I mean. Listen to your mother.