Oolong joke

We have guests. Look at the time. More than half of the guests have not come yet.

The host was very anxious and said, "What's the matter, the guests who should come haven't come yet?"

Some sensitive guests heard this and thought, "Then we shouldn't come?" So he left quietly.

When the host saw several guests leaving again, he became more and more anxious and said, "How come all these guests who shouldn't have left?"

When the rest of the guests heard this, they thought, "Those who should go should not go, and so should those of us who haven't!" "So they all left again.

In the end, there was only one friend who was close to the host. After reading this embarrassing scene, I advised him: "You should think it over before you speak, or it will be hard to take it back if you make a mistake."

The host shouted grievances and quickly explained, "I didn't ask them to go!" " "

My friend was furious and said, "Either tell them to go or tell me to go." Say that finish, left and never look back.

I believe everyone has heard this story countless times! The original intention of the story is to teach us to learn to speak and master the skills of speaking. If the exit is not careful enough and the listener's position is not taken into account, it is easy to hurt others unintentionally and cause some unnecessary misunderstandings. The so-called "the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional" is the truth.

But this story is told from another level. What if someone at home suddenly doesn't come? Because he didn't know what to do, the host drove all the guests away with a word. This is what we usually call an oolong incident. (The Oolong incident is an incident that caused unnecessary losses by mistake. )

In life, we often encounter all kinds of oolong occasions. For example, Dani, who was hot searching some time ago, mispronounced the names of the major stars. At first, he called Gulnazar Dilraba and Jelly Lin Lin Yin A by mistake.

For example, there will be a slip of the tongue when giving a speech. I tried to explain, but the audience burst into laughter. In fact, it's not too funny. There are only two or three people laughing in the audience. As a result, the whole audience finally laughed. At this time, you are particularly embarrassed to stand on the stage. This is the reaction of being too anxious.

How to solve all kinds of oolong time in life?

First of all, don't be too anxious to make up for it, and admit your mistakes as soon as possible. Too much anxiety can easily backfire, just like a slip of the tongue in a speech. The advantage of admitting mistakes first is that it won't continue. In the language of economics, it is called timely stop loss.

Secondly, humor should be serious before it can achieve the purpose of reducing losses. For example, at the Oscar ceremony last year, a producer immediately said seriously, "You just made a mistake. Moonlight, you won the best film award. This is no joke. Please come on stage first. " Therefore, only serious expression can achieve the effect in the shortest time.

Finally, after resolving the embarrassment, continue to get on the right track. No matter what you are most concerned about on any occasion, what matters is the matter itself.

Therefore, in the face of the sudden Oolong incident, it is the core to calm down first, not to rush to reverse the situation, and to reduce losses.