Who is Li Qingzhao's biological mother in Ancient Weapons? Li Qingzhao's unique personality in her girlhood

I often think of the pavilion by the stream next to the pavilion until the sunset, intoxicated by the beautiful scenery, lingering. I had a good time, but I lost to the swimming pool in the depths of Zhu Feng. How to row out, accidentally, but scared a group of Europeans. Looking at Li Qingzhao's happy time, we can't help thinking that her girlhood was lively, happy, reckless and full of energy. But Li Qingzhao was not always happy when she lost her mother in her early years!

According to Wen Yuanzhi in the History of Song Dynasty? "Li Chuan Ge Fei" Li, whose real name is Uncle Wen, is from Jinan. His wife, Wang, is a granddaughter and an excellent writer. Zhao Qing "Li Qingzhao's great-grandfather Wang is a garden celebrity and the youngest scholar in the garden. It was only when he won the first prize 19. The name Chen Gong was given by the emperor.

Li Qingchen in the Northern Song Dynasty wrote in the book "Wang Wengong _ Tombstone": "In April of the eighth year of Yuanfeng, the Prime Minister Wang Jue fell ill and took office in May. Female: Professor Li of Yunzhou died young. " Here, Li Qingzhao's grandfather became Prime Minister Wang Jue again.

Some people think that Li married the king's two wives, first the daughter of the Prime Minister Wang Jue, but she died young and later married the king's daughter. Therefore, whether Li Qingzhao's mother is the daughter of the former king or the queen, whether she was raised by her stepmother or never lost her mother, there are different opinions in academic circles. This unclear question is put aside for the time being.

Let's look at Li Qingzhao's words and manners. Whose daughter is she? Did she lose her mother when she was a child?

Li Qingzhao's ci, writing "drunk" is a major feature. According to statistics, there are 58 poems written by Yu Shu, of which 28 mentioned wine and drinking. In addition, the drunkenness in Zhao Qing's ci continued from girlhood to old age.

"Always remember XiTing sunset, drunk don't know the way home. I had a good time, but I lost to the swimming pool in the depths of Zhu Feng. Fight, fight and raise a pool of gulls. " This is the memory of Li Qingzhao's happy life as a girl in her dream. I often recall the experience of visiting Xiting. We had a good time that day and got drunk. After the excitement, we found it was getting late. I rowed the boat back in a hurry, but I made a mistake. The boat rowed deep with a thick layer of lotus root. Everyone is anxious to row the boat faster and want to go back quickly. As a result, a beach of seagulls flew by.

"Where is my hometown? Unless you are drunk, you will forget. " This is her bodhisattva man? It is still a soft spring breeze, and it should be a text describing the pain of home and country after the invasion of the nomads from the south was forced to leave their homes. "YuLouChun? There are also these two sentences in "Red Crisp is willing to put Qiongbao Broken": "If you want a drink, you can have a rest. It's not that I can't stand the wind of the Ming Dynasty. "If you want to drink and enjoy flowers, come on. There may be no strong wind tomorrow. The tone of a celebrity highlights the heroic side of Li Qingzhao.

The drunkenness and drinking habits shown by these words are understandable in the old place where mountains and rivers are broken and Li Qingzhao is in a foreign country. I'm afraid many modern mothers will worry that they were intoxicated by alcohol in their girlhood, not to mention the ancient times with strict ethics.

In addition, Li Qingzhao's ci is also bold in describing female forms. : "A small waist does not hurt spring. Under the shadow of thin plum blossoms, the evening makeup is new. What does it feel like to be personable? A wisp of light cloud. " Write about the beautiful figure of women from the angle of appreciation. : "In the snow in spring, cold plums are beautifully dressed. Face half open, charming and moving. In court, people put on new makeup. " Writing plum blossoms in early spring is compared to a graceful girl who just came out of the bath. This situation was unacceptable to some moralists at that time and later.

In the Song Dynasty, Wang Zhuo wrote in Langtaosha? The commentary of "Tie a Small Man's Waist" said: "Since ancient times, the women of the gentry family have never been so careless." This Wang Zhuo spoke highly of Li Qingzhao's ci, but from the standpoint of the old feudal pedant, he was not satisfied with the above explanation.

Especially the pride of fishermen? Chun Xin knows in the snow: "Kick open the swing, get up and straighten your hands." Beside her, thin Germany hung with crystal dew, and the sweat on her chest permeated with a thin silk robe. As soon as the guests came in, socks and gold hairpin slipped away and left shyly. Look back at the door, Wen. "The general idea is to come down from the swing frame and lazily touch your little hand scratched by the swing rope. Thin clothes are soaked with sweat. Seeing the guest come in, I ran shyly to the boudoir, but I wanted to see this person again. I casually sniffed the plum in my hand and leaned back against the door. This song was especially criticized by many scholars in ancient times, saying that looking back at the door means selling jokes by the door. They can't imagine that Li Qingzhao, as a good family, can write such a sentence to directly express a girl's desire for love. Some people even think that this is the work of a prostitute, under the guise of Li Qingzhao's name. Girls who are lively and naughty and can express their desire for love are not suitable for women in their eyes.

Li Qingzhao, it is not enough to write spring poems and praise the beauty of women. After Li Qingzhao married into a rich family and became the daughter-in-law of the Prime Minister's family, she was straightforward and unrestrained. She dares to interfere in her parents' affairs. At that time, his father Li and his father-in-law belonged to two political factions. After the new party came to power, it attacked old party member vigorously, and her father Li was also on the hit list.

Out of the affection between father and daughter, Li Qingzhao wrote a book to plead with her father-in-law, which contained the words "let alone the affection between father and son". Such a move naturally belongs to human nature. But when Tingzhi Zhao refused to agree to her request because of various concerns, Li Qingzhao was heartbroken and wrote the words "hot but cold" to her father-in-law, directly expressing her anger and irony. However, in view of this, some people say that this last sentence is not to blame my father-in-law Tingzhi Zhao, but to evaluate Cai Jing in front of my father-in-law. Even so, in the Song and Ming Dynasties, when Neo-Confucianism had begun to take shape and Confucius' thought of "monarch, monarch, minister, father, son and son" was dominant, Li Qingzhao, as a woman, boldly talked about current affairs in front of her father-in-law, and her attitude was straightforward.

Looking back, let's think about it. As an ancient woman, what kind of family can support such a character? Let's take a look at Sister Lin in Biji Manzhi. Daiyu is clever. She has read a lot of books with her parents since she was a child, and she is quite knowledgeable. Because I lost my mother when I was a child, my father gave her another layer of accommodation out of sympathy for the orphan girl. Later, when I arrived in Jiafu, I was my grandmother's precious grandson and daughter, so I developed a mean character. I am more narcissistic because I am smart and talented. Li Qingzhao's indifferent and independent character is probably related to the early pampering of her poor orphan daughter who lost her mother, father and grandmother in her childhood.

However, in today's world where dead men tell no tales, we can't find any absolute evidence to tell whether Li Qingzhao really lost her mother in childhood and was raised by her stepmother, although there are such descriptions in some scholars' works. In order to grasp the complexity of the world and the generation of human nature, it is still necessary for us to think about Li Qingzhao from another angle.

There are also some strange girls whose parents are still alive in history, and there are also rebellious behaviors that violate discipline. Therefore, those who think that Li has only one wife, or that Li has two wives, but the first wife died early, not Qingzhao's mother, and Qingzhao's mother is the second wife who lived to the end of her life. So they came to the conclusion that Qingzhao didn't have the pain of losing her mother, and Qingzhao's character had nothing to do with this experience. This view is not unreasonable. In short, what is certain in the end is that these women who have personality and dare to resist have something in common. It seems to be common not only among male compatriots, but also among women.