My sister-in-law lent me 23 years to go to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year. I became a joke. What should I do?

Since I married my mother-in-law, my relationship with her mother-in-law has been bad. My in-laws don't like my family being in the countryside. Only the wife of my husband's brother has a good relationship with me. Although my sister-in-law is also a city dweller, she doesn't look down on me as a rural person. Every time my mother-in-law deliberately finds fault, my sister-in-law will speak for me. Over time, we became best friends.

After my husband and I got married, because my family couldn't help. It's too much pressure for my husband to support his family alone. My husband quit his job in a public institution and went into business with his buddies. My husband's resignation was originally his own intention. My mother-in-law said it was my family's drag. She scolded me when she saw me, and even called my parents incompetent.

Although my mother-in-law looked down on me, my husband did make some money after going to sea. My husband brings home more and more money every year. When my mother-in-law mentioned that I came from the countryside, my sister-in-law said that I was Wang Mi's life. What she said left her mother-in-law speechless. Fortunately, I have this sister-in-law, otherwise I really don't know how to stand in my husband's family.

My sister-in-law is a very important person to me, so when she borrowed money from me, I directly transferred the money to her without thinking. Sister-in-law's daughter is going to primary school, and they are going to buy a school district for their children. The down payment is only 20 thousand Because we are so close, I didn't ask my sister-in-law to write an iou or anything.

According to my sister-in-law's statement at that time, when the year-end bonus was awarded at the end of that year, she would return 20 thousand yuan to me. That's what she said Of course I believe her. She didn't return the money to me that Spring Festival. I was pregnant, immersed in the joy of being a mother, and forgot about it.

It was not until the Lantern Festival that my sister-in-law wore a brand-new fur to her husband's house for dinner, but when she told me that this dress was actually more than 65438+100000, I suddenly remembered that she still owed me 20000. I'm really embarrassed to talk about money, after all, so many years of friendship makes me not want to be so aggressive.

Two years have passed in a blink of an eye, and I borrowed 20 thousand yuan from my sister-in-law and she didn't pay me back for three years. This year, my husband and I took our son to my mother-in-law's house for the Spring Festival. All my relatives and friends were there that day. My sister-in-law said that I was poorly dressed in front of a dozen people in the whole family, and I immediately became the laughing stock of the whole family. In their view, what should my husband do with an annual salary of several hundred thousand? He just married a rural wife.