Parents have been quarreling for years because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Every time they quarrel, my parents talk to me alone. What should I do as a daughter and

Parents have been quarreling for years because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Every time they quarrel, my parents talk to me alone. What should I do as a daughter and granddaughter? It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. As a junior, it is really difficult to have a position to judge who is right and who is wrong.

Moreover, dad's inaction is also the reason why mom and he quarrel constantly. I don't want to contradict my parents for my mother's sake, but my father's inaction gave my grandparents a signal: "Mom can let them do whatever they want, because she is alone, and my father won't have any opinions."

In fact, in this whole incident, my parents, grandparents all had problems, my father did nothing, my grandparents slandered me, and my mother was not tough.

I can only say that I want to enlighten my mother as much as possible. If economic conditions permit, 2,000 yuan a month is my father's living expenses for my grandparents to thank my parents for their parenting.

The topic owner can talk to mom rationally first, analyze the whole thing, tell her your position and mood and the influence on your family, and let her communicate with dad first. Attention is communication, not quarrel, quarrel is just meaningless emotional outburst, communication is to tell your feelings and needs in an orderly way.

If not, talk to dad or grandpa and let them communicate with grandma. After all, mom and dad didn't treat them badly, and it's no secret what every family is like in the countryside. Grandma smears your parents everywhere, but it's just adding jokes to others for no reason, which is a harmful thing.

From this point of view, analyze with grandpa, maybe he will pay more attention to and restrain grandma's behavior. After all, some male chauvinists are unwilling to get involved in women's affairs, because they feel that trivial matters are not worth humiliating and wrangling with women. But when this incident rises to affect the family reputation and reputation, they naturally don't want to be the talk of others after dinner, which makes people laugh. However, we should be mentally prepared. After all, grandparents are so old, and the truth that they have lived all their lives is not to say that they can change at once.

If it really doesn't make sense, mom cares, and the landlord can actually take mom out. Now I am cleaning outside, and the salary of being a nanny is several thousand yuan a month, which is enough for my mother to live. It can keep her mother away from annoying people and things, make her feel more cheerful, and also show that she can live better without their mother, and maybe there will be unexpected gains.