My parents quarreled. Originally, my mother blamed my father, but later she came to blame me. What should I do?

In fact, when our parents quarrel, it's the same. They quarrel with me. Actually, it has nothing to do with me. There is always a feeling of being shot while lying down ...

Later, when I told my mother about it, she was surprised and asked me, "Is this the case?" -_-||||

I don't know that your family is different from ours. My parents have almost never stopped quarreling since I can remember. It's either a big fight or a cold war. The most important thing is that they can't tell her every time. So they can only argue on this topic next time ...

Although they have never run away from home (because each of them thinks the house is their own and wants to go. ), but there are quite a few things like throwing dishes, bowls, tables, and being louder than one's voice. My mother said several times that she would become a monk and practice later, and my father said several times that she would get a divorce, but it was all thunder and no rain-I was very determined about this, because: 1. I couldn't get in a word when they quarreled; 2. No one listens to me even if I get in a word; 3. Anyway, the final result is the same-the endless cycle of "cold war-reconciliation-quarrel". So now every time they quarrel, I should do whatever I want, and I get used to it ...

PS: But they have one good thing, that is, they basically don't fight; Although I sometimes smash things to vent my anger, I don't fight-at most, I just push each other twice (anyway, my mother won't take the initiative, and this situation is less now that I am old)-which is why I can always settle my eggs. I have given up any hope of letting them not quarrel. Both of them are very stubborn. As long as they can stay in this state, I am satisfied.