Lin Daiyu is so gentle, why do many people say she is "snarky"?

Lin Daiyu was said to be mean and mean because she offended Zhou Rui's family.

Lin Daiyu offended Zhou Rui's family because of a small matter of sending palace flowers.

In Jia's family, the status of girls is higher than that of daughters-in-law. Aunt Xue asked Zhou Rui's family to send palace flowers in order of Sanchun, Daiyu and Wang Xifeng. Now Wang Xifeng from Zhou Rui's family finally gave it to Lin Daiyu, which is obviously contempt for Daiyu.

Daiyu asked Zhou Rui's family: "Should I give it to me alone, or do all the other girls have it?"

Zhou Rui's family replied: "You all have these two branches." It belongs to the girl."

Daiyu sneered softly and said: "I know that if others don't pick the leftovers, they won't give it to me either."

After hearing this, Zhou Rui's family flushed and said nothing.

Zhou Rui’s family has always watched others order their dishes. The book writes:

Although Zhou Rui's family does not do anything, because she has always been Mrs. Wang's companion, she is somewhat decent, has a good nature, and is dedicated to doing everything to please her.

The Zhou Rui family turned out to be slaves of the Wang family, so they naturally leaned towards the Xue family. Lin Daiyu was Xue Baochai's competitor, so she naturally wanted to step on Daiyu.

Furthermore, the main reason for the fight between Mrs. Wang and Jia Mu was Lin Daiyu.

The Zhou Rui family naturally wants to share the worries of their master, Mrs. Wang, and beat Lin Daiyu whenever they get the chance. Unexpectedly, Lin Daiyu didn't swallow her anger, but instead yelled at her.

Jia’s servants have always flattered others and suppressed others. If you are honest, she will bully you. Yingchun was bullied by her slaves. Her nanny secretly sold Yingchun's golden phoenix for gambling. Later, she was punished by Jia's mother. Her daughter-in-law threatened Yingchun and refused to return the golden phoenix if she did not intercede for the nanny.

When I visited the housekeeper, I was also given a hard time by the slave. Wu Xindeng's family deliberately set a trap for Tanchun, and the other housekeepers and wives were waiting to see Tanchun's jokes. If Tanchun hadn't been shrewd and powerful, he would have been bullied by his slaves.

The slave of Zhou Rui's family is a bully. He will bully Daiyu first. If she endures it silently, he will do it worse in the future.

Daiyu has seen through Zhou Rui's family's tricks. Daiyu's principle in dealing with these wealthy slaves is that I will not offend others unless they offend me, and I will fight back if they offend me. Daiyu fought back against Zhou Rui's family, which made her fear Daiyu. From then on, no one in the Rongguo Mansion dared to bully Lin Daiyu. The consequence of sending palace flowers was that Lin Daiyu was burdened by rumors.

After Zhou Rui's family sent the palace flowers, there was a rumor in the Jia family that Lin Daiyu was mean, petty, and picky. So much so that now, people still regard Lin Daiyu as the representative of picky and petty girls. Baochai's scolding of Ind'er was much harsher than what Lin Daiyu said about Zhou Rui's family

To be honest, what Daiyu said to Zhou Rui's family was not as harsh and merciless as Baochai's scolding of Ind'er. Baochai pointed at Jin'er and said, "You have to be careful! I've been naughty with you before, and you doubt me again. You should ask those girls who are always smiling with you."

Baochai. Chai scolded Di'er in front of Jia's mother, Wang Xifeng and others, but no one said she was mean; Daiyu said, "I knew it, and others wouldn't give me the rest if they didn't choose." This became evidence of her meanness.

The festival between Daiyu and Zhou Rui’s family illustrates a truth: it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain! In fact, Lin Daiyu is really not a mean person.

On Baochai’s birthday, Xiangyun made fun of Lin Daiyu for looking like an actress. Baoyu winked at Xiangyun, and Xiangyun said to Baoyu angrily: "I am not as good as your sister Lin. Others make fun of him, so..." Xiangyun's words mean that Shi Xiangyun was not the only one in Jia's family who made fun of Dai. Jade, there should be many people who have made fun of Lin Daiyu.

Lin Daiyu was laughed at by everyone as being like a little actress, but Daiyu did not fall out with Xiangyun. Instead, Xiangyun and Baoyu said a lot of bad things about Daiyu.

Xiangyun said to Baoyu: "During the first month of the year, don't believe me and say such unimportant lies! What you want to say, you tell those who are petty, whose actions are annoying, and who will control you." Listen, don’t tell me to spit on you!”

Daiyu went to Xiangyun to play and happened to hear these words. But Daiyu did not quarrel with Xiangyun.

Xinren and Xiangyun said that Miss Lin Daiyu loves to cry and is not as generous as Miss Bao. He also said that Lin Daiyu does not do needlework. Daiyu also heard these words, but instead of confronting Xiren and Xiangyun, she silently returned to Xiaoxiang Pavilion. If Lin Daiyu was a sarcastic person, she would definitely push in the door and argue with Xi Ren and Xiang Yun to argue about right and wrong.

Lu Xue'an Xiangyun was eating roasted venison, and Daiyu joked: "Where can I find this group of flowers! That's all, that's all, Lu Xueguan was robbed today, and his life was ruined by Yun girl. I'm here for Lu Xue An burst into tears!" Xiangyun sneered and retorted: "What do you know! You are all fake and noble, and you are the most disgusting. "Xinxiukou." Lin Daiyu still didn't criticize Xiangyun.

It can be seen from this that Lin Daiyu is really not a petty, carefree, or mean person. The rumors are not credible. They are spread by people with ulterior motives such as Zhou Rui's family.