The love between Yu Xiuhua, a poet with cerebral palsy, and her post-90s boyfriend: Even if he wants something, I want it!

A few days ago, Yu Xiuhua, a 46-year-old poet with cerebral palsy, also showed her love online. She joined hands with Xiao She 14-year-old post-90 s boyfriend Xiao Yang, dancing happily in Hanfu and enjoying the beautiful picture of the world!

However, the next day, it broke out on the internet that she broke up with her little boyfriend, ending this vigorous rumor of sister-in-law love.

The confusing operation, whether true or not, has made netizens "unable to understand" one by one, and once again there have been many comments on her "love between young and old Xian Yi", with mixed opinions.

This middle-aged poet with the label of physical disability and unfortunate life has long been famous throughout the country for her beautiful and profound words.

A famous poet and beekeeper in Shennongjia, this love affair, which is out of proportion to others' status and age, is utilitarian in the eyes of too many people.

Recently, Yu Xiuhua released a video to respond to various questions from netizens about her love: "Even if he wants my name and money, I will help him!" ! The essence of love is to have a picture! "

Although Yu Xiuhua expressed his free and easy feelings, some netizens still have many complaints:

"I can understand her emotional desolation and longing, but I can't agree with her lightning love!"

"Poets have no love, poets have only passion!"

There are three different views in the world. No matter what we do, there will always be different voices, not to mention Yu Xiuhua's lightning-fast love.

For the time being, regardless of whether Yu Poet's contribution is worthwhile, just because she is not afraid of worldly elegance is enough to make people read a compliment!

Make your own decisions about your life! Don't be afraid of what others say and don't be judged by others.

Although Yu Xiuhua's love for lightning is strong, it is still admirable.

After all, life is your own and has nothing to do with others; Feelings belong to two people, and they know each other very well!

Six years ago, Xie, who had just given birth to her son Xiaoyu, was shocked by the news of cheating in the media before he could experience the happiness of being a mother for the first time.

According to the time of the incident, Xie was derailed when she was pregnant in September.

For a time, the "Super Dan" who was in the limelight became a street mouse.

As Dānlín quickly issued an apology statement and confirmed the rumors of cheating, there was a lot of discussion in the workplace, and Dānlín's future was in jeopardy.

At this moment, Xie made a statement of forgiveness, prevented the derailment from continuing to ferment, and also pushed himself into a hot search.

At first, Dānlín was accused by herself. Because of Xie's voice, she has also become the object of cynicism among netizens. Compromise, cowardice, contempt, "after all, it is wrong to pay."

Some people think that Xie's resignation caused by his growing environment doomed his ending; Some people think that she can only choose to compromise for her children; There are even people who think that she is not financially independent and dare not divorce.

Xie turned a deaf ear to this. She has her own judgment and choice.

In an interview program, facing the sensitive question of the host, she replied indifferently: marriage is not black and white, and there are other things. Every family has its own problems, which can only be said to be self-aware.

The emotional ties between her and Dānlín for more than ten years, not everyone thinks that they can be solved separately.

After all, the highest color in life is gray!

Moreover, the essence of life never needs the approval or denial of others.

What's more, the determination and wolf nature of world champions are by no means comparable to ordinary people. Bold choices come from confidence and self-confidence.

Every brilliant life will not be satisfied with any single role.

As a mother, Xie hopes to influence her son's growth through her talents.

20 17, after sufficient market research, the maternal and infant brand "Du Fen" was born in Xie's hands.

With rich contacts and painstaking efforts, Du Fen has now become a dark horse in the maternal and child industry.

And Xie also successfully transformed from a poor girl who "dare not divorce without a career" to a confident entrepreneur.

Xie, who has a happy family and a successful career, hit the mocking keyboard man with a gorgeous transformation: my choice has nothing to do with others!

Others are just bystanders in your life, and you are at the helm.

Paying too much attention to others' participation in their own lives will only lose the exploration of their own values.

Read a fable of "father and son riding donkeys":

Father and son are going to visit relatives in a distant place, and no one cares about a donkey at home. So they decided to take the donkey with them.

On the way, someone laughed at them: "What a fool! You have to go if you don't ride a donkey! "

Hearing this, the father told his son to ride on the back of the donkey. After walking for a while, I heard someone say, "This son is really unfilial. He rode the donkey himself and let Lao Zi go! " "

The father quickly called his son down and sat on the donkey's back. Haven't walked a few steps, and someone said: "this is really tough when dad, not afraid of tired children?"

The father with soft ears quickly let his son sit on the donkey's back. Before he started walking, someone sighed, "What a poor donkey! You are so thin and camel, you will be crushed to death sooner or later! "

Ashamed, the father and son quickly slipped off the donkey's back, tied the donkey's four feet and carried the donkey with a stick. Passers-by all laughed: "Are there any problems with these two people? Aren't they tired? "

The father and son were at a loss and simply went to the market to sell donkeys. The journey after that was peaceful, and no one laughed at them anymore.

How tired it is for people who have no opinions to use other people's comments to decide their own behavior!

Father and son in fable, even if they sell their donkeys and go on the road, I believe some people will laugh at their stupidity. Why not buy a donkey to reduce your feet?

No matter what you do, there are always people who think you are doing something wrong.

Different views will always lead to different perceptions of things, and we will never reach everyone's standards.

But there are always many people in life who care about other people's eyes and comments: a compliment can make you happy for three days, and a belittle can make you unable to eat or sleep.

San Mao once ridiculed these people: "We are afraid of losing others."

This easily influenced emotion will also affect your life because of other people's comments.

Ruan committed suicide because of "terrible words". In Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Wang Lang got angry on the spot because of Zhuge Liang's scolding.

Many parents who urge marriage can't stand the "kind" advice of relatives and friends and whisper in private, and their children's marriage has become their heart disease.

Older men and women who can't bear the urging of all parties, in order to deny their parents' wishes, entered the marriage with unwillingness and bets.

It's good to bet right, but if you lose, you will contribute one point of divorce data.

People who care about others' comments will never live well.

Sartre once said angrily: Others are hell!

Our goal is to turn ourselves into hope. Living in other people's comments will only make you a nuisance.

Only by making your heart strong and rich can you focus on yourself and don't need to see your value from others.

We should live the life we want, not what others call "should".

In the past, there was only one strange daughter Doris in the video of Ye Haiyang, a single mother in Shenzhen. Now a soft and beautiful baby appears in the picture.

Five years ago, when Ye Haiyang, who didn't want to get married, spent 500,000 yuan to buy mixed-race sperm and gave birth to his eldest daughter Doris, the word "Ye Haiyang" became a record on hot search.

For a time, all kinds of criticisms poured in.

Some people say that she is "selfish and has an incomplete family for her children." Some people say that "children grow up in such an environment, and their personality is flawed" and "they must be hurt by the dog's blood plot".

Ye Haiyang went his own way, still trying to run his own business, raising his daughter carefully and recording her growth on social accounts without hesitation.

Life is your own and has nothing to do with others.

Five years later, Ye Haiyang, an eccentric brother, has never stepped out of the sight of public opinion, but his comments are blessed and respected.

Live the life you want and do what you want.

Today, Ye Haiyang lives a quiet and wanton life between the elite and the loving mother.

Public opinion is always thousands of miles away from her.

Ye Haiyang said: "other people's stories are stories, and their own is life;" It's better to do your own thing than to listen to a thousand stories. "

People living in his population can't stand the pickling of saliva!

Live the life you want, this is the real happiness.

As long as you don't break the law, don't influence others, follow your heart and live like life.

"The world belongs to itself and has nothing to do with others." Master Jiang Yang has shown us the motto of life.

It always reminds us that you are the only one in the world, and you don't need to compare with others or cater to others.

You are the master of life, and trying to be yourself is the most realistic life.

Even if you can't be free, you should "do what you want to do and follow your own footsteps;" Life is like a trip, a reed sails. "

Because it is true to live in the present, live a beautiful life and enjoy life!

Author | It turned out to be you: a black gold member of Xiao Wei Growth College.

Editor | Jinghong