The old man always likes to be angry. He often scolds us for being unfilial, saying that we want to provoke him to death, and that we must do whatever he wants no matter what. It is unreasonable.

This problem is really difficult to solve. The family of origin cannot be avoided. If it is a colleague, we will change the company. If it is a lover, we can divorce. If it is a friend, we will never have contact with each other until death. , but parents, we have absolutely nothing to do with them. We insist on catering to them. It is our heart that is tired. If we do not accommodate them, it seems that we are particularly unfilial as children. No matter what we do, we will feel aggrieved and dissatisfied. , we don’t know how to be children anymore. We can’t persuade or change. We can only try to tolerate, understand, and accept. We have exhausted all our patience. Sometimes we really want to run away, but we don’t care. They can't do it. In fact, they themselves know their own problems, but they just can't change them. Sometimes I have tried to treat them with humor. However, when the work is particularly tiring, it is difficult to control emotions and there will be negative energy. When I was furious, I really wanted to have a particularly calm and good communication with them. What if parents don’t know how to control their own temper, what should their children do? Old and young children, maybe we owe them something. When they were young, they coaxed us. When they are old, it is our turn to coax them. This is a cycle... Be patient with the elderly, lead by example, and teach by words and deeds. Our children may You can also be kind to us! Everyone gets old, and we don’t want to be rejected by our children in the future, so we still need to practice! !