Only forty years old-are you forty years old? Have you lived the life you want?

All words are just cold language, floating on paper, and all you can see is the corner of a person's heart.

It is always you who can truly understand yourself.

Since my child's senior high school entrance examination, it seems that there is a rope that binds all my thoughts. I don't want to move, I don't want to write, and I don't want to turn my feelings into words and make them public.

Inspiration seems to be gone, repeating daily things every day, just like a rag doll without thought and soul. The withered body is left, swaying like a ghost.

I wanted to add some oil and salt to my dead 40-year-old, but I found myself without oil and salt.

When I was ten years old, I felt that everything was very happy. Accompanied by my parents, I caught birds and eggs in the trees and touched fish and shrimp in the river. The soil is fragrant and the wind is sweet. Although wearing clothes with holes, I am infinitely satisfied and happy inside.

At the age of twenty, I felt that everything was so young and curious, and I was full of hope and fear for all unknown worlds. At the same time, when you escape from the world and close yourself, you also close your touch to the outside world.

At the age of 30, I felt that everything was so difficult. The embarrassment of the bride and the joy of being a mother for the first time could not resist the hardships given by the years. The ugliest thing is your appearance.

At the age of forty, I felt that everything was safe for me, that everything was clear and knowledgeable, and that human understanding was the wisdom of the article.

Finally, I understand that every ten years is a trip that comes and goes. It doesn't matter where I go on my next trip. The important thing is that I want to live well.

Since I have only lived for half my life, I can't write a profound truth anymore. I only know that I don't bother with anything, and I don't ask for anything. The only thing I want to do is to live with idealism and be simple and clear. Then remember yourself at the age of 40! Take this as a mirror and spend the rest of your life safely.

1.40-year-old women choose to be beautiful. Don't lose everything, don't be beautiful, just lose everything and live the life you want. Maybe things are complicated and you can't do whatever you want, but you still have to live yourself into a landscape.

2. A 40-year-old woman must stand up to lies, perfunctory, deception, forget promises and let go of everything! Only by emptying your brain can you really live as yourself.

3, a 40-year-old woman, the best state is to know how to respect herself, regardless of other people's affairs, not to bask in her sense of superiority, not to show love. The more women grow up, the more restrained they are. You are not alone in this world.

Be an elegant and quiet woman, don't speak ill of others, be yourself. Not deep, but simple. You live not only to please others, nor to show off what you have, but to be the better live high wants.

You become excellent, and your surroundings will be optimized.

4, a 40-year-old woman, don't rely on a person easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. Whenever and wherever, learn to walk independently, which will make you walk more calmly. No matter how you look at it, living beautifully is the skill.

Independence will make you learn to think, and a woman who can think is full of charm. No matter what age, she is radiant.

5. Don't feel bad about trifles in the future, don't be easily moved by good words, don't compromise, don't give up easily, don't make trouble without reason, and don't die for an unworthy person.

Don't force your heart, don't think that others understand your good mood, don't say that you are happy when you are uncomfortable, don't lie to yourself, be true to yourself, love yourself more and love yourself more than others.

Only a woman who knows how to love herself can know how to love the people around her. Your love will be valuable!

A 6.40-year-old woman can be stubborn, proud and persistent at the right time. If a girl in her twenties is the most beautiful, she can laugh at will or cry stubbornly. So a 40-year-old woman, after half a life of glitz, has already become tolerant and wise.

The most beautiful years leave a bright smile, dare to love and hate, and dare to pursue. Then at the age of forty, crush yourself and scatter it to the years, so that time can slowly piece yourself together into what you want.

7. I am such a person. "Don't think too much, don't torture yourself. You can be sad, but you must be strong; You can be ugly, but you must be kind! " I have always believed that God will be kind to good people. It's just a matter of time. Before that, after that, just be yourself.

8. External clothing is only a necessary condition for women to decorate, but it is not an important condition. The most important thing is to read more books and read good books. The book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own golden house. I am full of poems and books, and I am tired of cooking leaves with old Confucianism. Temperament is a woman's best ornament.

San Mao said: read more books and your appearance will change.

9.40-year-old women should not be too fat. Even if her figure is not perfect, she should look decent and generous.

When you are in a good mood, you can paint a light makeup and buy some clothes that suit you. You can buy some gadgets you like without buying luxury goods. You can buy some toys, play by yourself and make yourself happy.

The premise is to do so much, not because of a man, but purely to please yourself and please yourself.

10, even if men all over the world like beautiful women, you should believe that someone will fall in love with you because of your beautiful heart. Even if you are insignificant in the crowd, he will see you, like you and please you.

The so-called good man will let his woman live into himself. Will not change you easily. He will spoil you like a child.

If you can't meet such a man, treat yourself as a girl's pet.

1 1, Yi Shu once said: "When I was forty years old, I was healthy, had some savings, got married, my husband was considerate, my children were obedient, and I had a job I really liked. This is success. I don't have to be famous or rich.

A good sentence doesn't have to be famous or rich, which makes people envy. But these words seem simple, but if you really want to do it, it is not easy to experience too much.

Because things are complicated, fewer and fewer people can calm down and be themselves. Everyone is too impetuous to do something stupid that can be seen through at a glance, but they still think they are smart. Now it is sleek and sophisticated, and to put it bluntly, it is a mockery of yourself.

12, influenced by my family, I have always been very independent. Even if I marry a woman, I won't let myself fall into prison easily.

Maintain your own independent work and financial resources. Only by maintaining independence in personality, spirit and economy can we have the courage to face ourselves at any time. A 40-year-old woman can't change for one person, but she will become stronger after half her life.

Because the strength of self is a kind of independence, the more independent, the more capable you are to live a good life alone. Not afraid of losing anything.

13, a 40-year-old woman, neither supercilious nor unhurried. No more heartache for a word, no more entanglement for a long time for a word, no more wasting your feelings on people who are not worth it.

Because I have seen a lot of scenery, walked a lot and met many people in my forties, I have long understood that people just treat life as a joke, make others laugh, and tell others about themselves as a joke, which can't be true, because if they are serious, they will lose.

14, a 40-year-old woman has her own personality, and she is not persistent, precipitate or vain. Try to live in the present, try to make yourself better, and then spend the rest of your life in peace.

This is the attitude of a 40-year-old woman.

Are you forty?