What does "Young Mien, Fight Miqiu" mean in Ode to Joy?

What does "Young Mien, Fight Miqiu" mean in Ode to Joy?

"Ode to Joy" has been in a mess recently, from dozens of years old uncles and aunts to children in the academy. As a confused old man, I just relax, watch ode to joy, see some beautiful women and keep my eyes open. Why not? Among them, I found a very interesting sentence, "Promote Mien and attack Miqiu".

In the seventh episode of Ode to Joy, Andy told Tan that he wanted to change trains and took a fancy to Tan's new Porsche Panamera, which he only drove twice. Tan said a word at this moment: "Let's fight for rice."

So what do you mean by "promoting Mien and playing Miqiu"?

In fact, this sentence is an old proverb. The original words are: fighting rice to raise good, bearing rice to raise hatred. In fact, if you give people a little help when you are in danger, they will appreciate you, but if you continue like this, if you suddenly stop helping for some reason, they will hate you for life.

There is a similar saying: "A meal is a benefactor, a hundred meals are an enemy", and a meal means eating.

Once upon a time, there were two neighbors, and they usually had a good relationship. One of them is much richer, and the two have no grudges. However, one year, there was a natural disaster and there was no harvest. The poor family has no harvest, so they can only lie down and wait for death. Because the rich family had money to buy food, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family, thinking about their neighbors' concerns and saving their lives.

When you are hungry, you can get help in the snow. This poor family is very grateful to their neighbors! The hardest time passed, and the poor thanked the rich. While speaking, talking about the seeds that have not landed next year, the rich man generously said, well, I still have a lot of food here, so you can take it again. The poor man went home grateful with a bucket of rice. After returning home, his brother said, what can this rice do? Apart from eating, there won't be enough seeds in our fields next year. This rich man has gone too far. Since you are so rich, you should send us more food and money. It's really bad. This word reached the ears of the rich,

He was very angry and thought, I gave you so much food for nothing, and you not only didn't thank me, but also treated me as an enemy. It was inhuman. So, two families with good relations. From then on, they became enemies and never contacted each other again. So, this liter of rice, rice revenge that is to say:

When a person is starving to death, if you give him a liter of rice, he will treat you as a benefactor; But if you give him a bucket of rice, he will think, since you can afford a bucket of rice, give me another bucket. If you don't give it to me, you will become my enemy.

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Seeing this, I believe that everyone knows the meaning of "Young Mien, Fighting Miqiu". I believe as a knowledgeable old Tan also understands this truth. What he means is: I gave you (Andy) a Porsche 9 1 1, and now you have to change cars. I won't offend you if I don't change your car now.

Of course, this is a joke. Lao Tan is kind to Andy and won't give it away. Andy knows that even if Lao Tan doesn't change, she won't be angry.

There are many such stories, and I believe you will often encounter such things in your life.

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Today, I just heard a girlfriend talk about her love puzzle. This girl met a boy who had a crush on her. They should be in a stage similar to "bosom friends" and have not yet developed into lovers. Because girls have a good impression, they will unconsciously find ways to help boys.

But recently, the boy came to explain to her that he made friends with her not because she could help him, not for the benefit, but because he really felt that he could "chat" with her.

This explanation puzzled my girlfriend. After listening to her story, I have a feeling that her kind help may have put a lot of pressure on the boy. In the ambiguous stage, the emotional relationship formed by "helping" is intertwined with the feelings between men and women, which actually hinders the development of love. The relationship between mutual appreciation of the opposite sex and the harmony of values is simple, because "helping" has become complicated.

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There is such a plot in the TV series "Going to Sea":

In the early 1990s, the Grain Bureau of Changxing, a small northern town, was undergoing reform. The director made a decision to build a window in Guangdong, and zhou yun, students of Grade 4 and Grade 5 and Mei Mei took 500,000 public funds to look for opportunities. Because of the stranger, zhou yun and others quickly lost more than 20,000 yuan there, and even almost lost 200,000 yuan. According to their agreement with the Grain Bureau, zhou yun should compensate for the losses. 45 and Meimei didn't want to risk their future investment, so they ran away first. Zhou yun, who struggled alone, finally made a profit of 900,000 yuan by reselling the land with the help of the nobles. Excluding the profit of 50,000 yuan stipulated by the bureau, there was still 350,000 yuan left. According to her agreement with the bureau, the money belongs to her. (Background introduction)

Zhou yun returned to Changxing and told Mei Mei that she had finished the task of the station by herself. They need not worry about losing money. The Fourth Five-Year Plan and Mei Mei are very happy. Later, the bureau held a celebration party. After the meeting, April 5th and Meimei recorded the third class merit and were transferred to the office. At this time, the 4th Five-Year Plan and Mei Mei are very grateful to zhou yun. (litres of rice)

However, zhou yun only told the Grain Bureau that she earned a profit of 50,000 yuan as agreed in the contract, but did not tell the Grain Bureau that she actually earned a profit of 400,000 yuan. Originally, she didn't say anything, and no one knew about it. However, zhou yun decided to give them 50,000 yuan and told them not to spread it. When Lao Siwu and Meimei came home, they felt that zhou yun must have earned dozens. Heart began to imbalance, so the April 5th and Mei Mei began to spread gossip in the Grain Bureau, saying that zhou yun had embezzled hundreds of thousands of public funds and used the jealousy of other employees to cause zhou yun to be dealt with. (against rice)

Being a bad guy is also a kind of wisdom.

You really have to be careful when you get along with others. The same is true of helping others.