Make-up is said by her boyfriend that "the more you paint, the uglier you get." How did you get back when your boyfriend denied it?

There is a very popular word PUA this year, which is very similar to the behavior of the topic boyfriend. To put it simply, he just wants to deny you, hit you and make you feel inferior, so as to control your mind.

In this case, I personally suggest that the subject is not polite, just ask him directly. You can tell him that if you don't like anything about me, get out. Some people like me. Just because you are blind doesn't mean that others are blind.

In fact, to put it bluntly, it is the selfishness of your boyfriend. He always wants to deny you and make you feel insecure, so you can control it. There are many similar incidents exposed online this year, and many men have completely lost themselves.

It's not that you are not good enough, but that your boyfriend doesn't want to admit that you are good. He would rather you are not perfect, so that he will be more confident when facing you, and don't worry that one day you will think that he is not worthy of you. Men are very selfish. Don't underestimate their thoughtfulness. Reading them will make your heart cold.

Let me talk about my personal experience. When my husband and I first got together, he had such a sign that he wanted to make me feel insecure by hitting me, causing the illusion that no one wanted me except him. At that time, all he often said to me was look at you. You are ugly, short, can't wear clothes and can't do anything well. You can tell me what you can do. Nobody wants you except me.

I said it twice before and didn't take it seriously, so it was a joke. I just took it as a joke and didn't take it to heart. Later, after many times, I found that it was not simple. I have lived well without him for more than 20 years. How come I'm useless when I get to him? I found that he has been deliberately denying me, just to make me feel that I can't find anyone else except him.

When I understand this, I am welcome. I just told him that he would stay if he wanted to, and he didn't want to leave. Without him, there are others. I have bad things here and bad things there. The most fundamental thing is that I have a bad eye, otherwise I won't have a crush on him. He is useless and will only belittle others. These words took effect as soon as they were finished, and he immediately apologized to me and said that he was only joking. I'm not used to him either I told him clearly that I was fine. He doesn't like it or watch it, but I don't want to keep denying me.

The same is true of the topic. You should be clear about your attitude. If you keep putting up with it, your boyfriend will definitely get worse. He will think that his practice is very effective and continue to try to control you in this way. You must express your opinion firmly and tell him that he won't buy it, and he will continue to do so, so be ready to break up.