Why bother relatives during the Spring Festival?

During the Chinese New Year, there are three kinds of annoying relatives that you don't want to face at all. Every time I see them, I feel bored and can't avoid it.

The first is the kind of person who likes to watch your jokes and seems to care about you.

I asked you on purpose when you were not married. Did you find someone? When are you getting married? Did you buy a house?

You didn't do all this at first. After listening to it, he will say meaningfully, and work hard in the future.

But then she did it herself, and she was particularly disappointed after listening to it. She didn't even answer the words, which made people feel that her mentality was too distorted.

This kind of relative is even worse than a stranger. He can't see that you are doing well. When he sees that your work is satisfactory and your family is harmonious, he will be particularly angry and uneasy, and he doesn't know what his mentality is. Maybe I'm not doing well, I'm too competitive, I'm always full of hatred and dissatisfaction with others, and I always want others to do worse than myself.

Secondly, relatives who especially like to take advantage of others want everything.

This kind of relatives try their best to fry your oil and water, and then make friends with you. On the surface, they flatter you, but in fact they use you.

What they often say is, I heard that you have made a fortune recently, and you look broad-minded and fat, and your car and house have changed. When do you go out for dinner? Let me use your car for a few months. I'm a little short of money. Please use your credit card again. ...

Finally, ostentatious relatives are arrogant and look down on others.

I talk loudly and like to brag. My pet phrase is that I've been too busy these days and earned1800,000, which is too little and boring ... I only spent 200,000 on a bottle of wine with my buddy yesterday, which is boring ... The foreign investment project has just started and needs several hundred million. ...

I am an ordinary employee, working everywhere, and I like to cheat people. Others can't stand it, but I am intoxicated with it, which makes people feel wonderful.

See these people, most of the time is playing dumb, silent, or occasionally nodded, don't want to say a word, feel particularly boring, boring.