A 60-year-old man in Shenzhen went on a blind date and lost confidence when he met a quality girl. Is it important to be a well-matched match in love?

I think being well-matched in love is not that important, but being well-matched in marriage is very important.

The traditional consciousness that has existed for thousands of years is still subtle, and this topic has existed since ancient times. To a certain extent, falling in love does not require a good match, but being a good match is very important in marriage.

On a blind date, a young man encountered an inappropriate match and decided to give up decisively.

Recently, a blind date story of a 62-year-old man in Shenzhen went viral on the Internet. The uncle is a very particular person in terms of clothes. Although he does not have much pension, he is unambiguous in dressing up and wears all famous brands. However, when the uncle went on a blind date, he met his match. The aunt he was going on a blind date with was more sophisticated than the uncle. When he opened the wardrobe, he found all brand-name bags and clothes, and his daily exercise was golf. This time, the uncle lost his confidence and decided to give up on this blind date.

Secondly, I think love can be of the wrong person, but marriage must be of the right person.

The reason why the uncle chose not to date and marry his high-quality woman is because he would feel pressure. Although the woman did not put pressure on the uncle, subconsciously, the uncle himself seemed unconfident. If he thinks he can't squeeze into the circle, he won't force it. In fact, I agree with the uncle's idea. After all, people who are over fifty years old are not like young people who break up when they no longer love each other. When you're in love, you can talk about whatever you want. You can buy her whatever she likes. If you feel it's inappropriate, you don't have to be together. But marriage is different. Once married, life consists of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. If you choose to be with her, you must be responsible for her, but if in the process, she is a generous person, you are a frugal person. That's right, you will accommodate her at first and tell her: "It doesn't matter, you go buy it." But what about the long term? The two of you will have disagreements, you will not be able to stand her squandering, and she will think you are stingy, and then the rest will be endless quarrels, and in the end both of you will be scarred.

In a third-party marriage, it is very important for both parties to have the same ideas

When I fell in love a few years ago, I didn’t have any idea of ??a good match. I thought that as long as we fell in love, everything else was just a cloud. But as I grow older and face more and more things and experience more and more, I feel that it is very important for both parties to have the same concept in marriage, and the concept of family status is also very important. So I think the uncle’s behavior in this matter is worthy of approval.