What should I do if my parents don’t let me attend the class reunion?

Hello! It was holiday, and my classmates all liked to party, so I went too. When classmates get together, they often talk about what they have been busy with recently, what books they have read, or hanging out together, participating in social practice, etc. I feel very happy when I am with my classmates. But every time I go home, my parents will interrogate me like a prisoner. If I don't tell them, they won't let me go out in the future. After that, my parents stopped me from attending some class reunions for many reasons, such as delaying my studies, being unsafe, or wasting money. I especially want to attend these gatherings to talk, laugh or have fun with my classmates. Dear sister, how should I convince my parents? Shanghai Yueyue Yueyue: Hello! From your letter, my sister can see that you are a child who loves to talk and laugh. She can also see your desire for friends and your expectation for communication. This is normal, because my close sister also had this idea when she was a child, and wanted to meet up with friends during the holidays and have fun together. My dear sister here wants to wish you a loud blessing: be prepared and go to the party easily. Tell your parents what you think and win their understanding. Parents all want their children to be happy and grow up healthily. So if attending a party can bring you happiness and improve your communication level with friends, then you should boldly tell your parents about these ideas. I believe that understanding parents will not reject you outright. This is the first point. Success often favors those who are prepared. So before going out, be prepared to go out. Do what you should do before the party so that your parents can rest assured. For example: all the homework that should be completed is completed in advance, some housework is also done, etc. It is very important to arrange your own affairs first before telling your parents about the party. Communication between people sometimes does not require the use of eyes and ears, but the heart. Mom and Dad will clearly record your performance in their hearts. Another example is to make an appointment with your classmates on the time and place in advance to make your parents feel that you are doing things in an organized and reassuring way. This is the second point. Choose the right time to discuss with your parents. Your parents' emotions can affect your communication. Choose a time when your parents are in a happy mood and tell them about the class reunion. A happy mood is usually associated with pleasant things. Mom and dad think of you working so hard to do your own things these days, and usually they also want you to relax, so they will readily agree. But if you choose to work when your parents are not going well at work, it is very likely that not only will you fail, but you will become your parents' "punching bag". Therefore, Yueyue must seize the best opportunity and try to get her parents to agree to go out for a party. However, if your parents insist on not letting you go out, there is no need to rack your brains to find opportunities to "escape". This is the third point. My close sister believes that you will be able to successfully convince your parents and reassure them that you can go to the party easily. Many parents believe that children are children and there is no real friendship between them. They are just childhood playmates. Instead of spending time letting children play together, it is better to confiscate "time" and let children devote themselves to learning. , truly achieve "not hearing what is happening outside the window, and only reading the books of sages". As everyone knows, children will have an interesting herd mentality when they are in a group of friends. When an individual is submerged in a group, the individual's behavior will be involuntarily assimilated by the behavior exhibited by the group members. For example, a child who procrastinates when eating at home eats significantly faster after going to kindergarten, and his picky eating situation improves. This is largely due to the influence of his peers around him.