"Daughter, your nephew is married, and your brother has no money. You give him your daughter's dowry." what do you think?

Seeing this sentence, I seem to instantly see the scene in Ode to Joy where Fan is unable to refuse to cry in the face of her mother's unreasonable demands. At this time, being a "brother helper" can easily ruin her daughter's happiness. Moreover, the little nephew may not remember the kindness of his aunt when he marries his daughter-in-law, but his daughter may resent her mother for life. So this thing, it is best not to do ... besides, you have married off all the water poured by your married daughter. You should also consider your husband's feelings when you do this, right?

A daughter is her own daughter, but not necessarily if she gives her dowry to her nephew. Although her mother-in-law always asks her future son-in-law to give her a bride price, many in-laws ask her to marry herself. If your daughter gets married and the other party gives her a bride price, but you don't give her a corresponding dowry, her future life with her in-laws may be a little sad ... or you may not have a bride price to accept.

My daughter, knowing that her biological mother gave her uncle's son a dowry, won't say anything because of her relatives, but she will definitely feel uncomfortable. She may even think, if she is her own, why not be an "outsider" ...

So, if you want to give your daughter's dowry to your nephew, think about whether you want this daughter or not ...

If you give away your daughter's dowry at the request of her family, you may lose your husband. You know, you are not the only one who prepares a dowry for your daughter. You're married. You should consider your small family, not your nephew's marriage. Your brother has no money ... you know, many people are disgusted with "helping the younger brother" now.

When your husband knows that you gave your daughter's dowry to his nephew, although he is related to you, it is not for him. No matter how close he is, he is always inferior to his own daughter, and he will definitely feel uncomfortable. So, this dowry, which concerns the husband and daughter, is very important to you, but you can't just give it away ...?

If your brother has no money, he will make it. You don't run a bank. Actually, I hate moral kidnapping and emotional kidnapping. Try to make money if you have no money, instead of kidnapping others with affection and letting others give you hard-earned money. Your mother's abacus is too loud. Do as much work as you can. You can get married without money. You can get married with money, and you can get married without money. Don't be swollen and fat.

How much does it cost for a nephew to get married? Getting a marriage certificate is free. Other banquets have no money, so consider it as no money. Besides, there is not much money in this marriage, and your daughter's dowry is used. Do you want to move your savings next time you have no money? If there is no money in the future, will you still give him a pension? Come on, you don't run a bank, where did you get so much money?

What, in your mother's eyes, grandchildren are human, but granddaughters are not? ?

When your nephew gets married, you can give a red envelope. Besides, if your nephew gets married, he won't let his aunt take out his daughter's dowry. Just give me a red envelope of 18 thousand at most. People should be content, not too greedy.