Boys' chasing routines

There is a line in the movie "Ashes of Time" that says:

If one day I can't help asking you, you must lie to me. No matter how much you hate it, don't tell me that the person you love most is not me.

However, no one wants to live a lie. We all want to be loved with sincerity and embraced by each other.

In a relationship, girls always love each other more and more until they despair of this love.

However, girls often forget to tell by heart whether he tries his best to pursue you because he loves you or just wants you.

Dear, don't be fooled by sudden kindness. If he pursues you with these four routines, you should be more careful to distinguish whether he is sincere about your kindness.

1. Chat with you every day and tell you ambiguous love words.

Boys who pursue you will definitely brush their sense of existence.

He will always be by your side and chat with you every day. From daily chores to future planning, he can't wait to throw out countless questions to understand all aspects of you.

When chatting, he will always say a few sweet words to please you. Girls are emotional animals. When faced with the frequent sugar-coated cannonballs of boys, the metropolis will be defeated and say "naive", but it will feel like a spring breeze in its heart. After a long time, they will begin to enjoy the feeling of soaking in honeypots.

The beginning of a relationship must start with keeping close contact. The first step for him to catch up with you must be to chat with you often, capture your heart with sweet words, and let you gradually get used to his existence in your life.

I suddenly stopped talking to you, playing hard to get.

When you get used to his good morning and good night every day, you will start looking forward to his appearance every day before you know it. Slowly, you want him to be as attentive and consistent as before, but suddenly one day he disappears.

Every day is when he wants to chat with you, but he has been missing for a long time. You have a mobile phone and want to send it to him, but you don't want to send the sentence "What are you doing?" First of all, it's your face. You think he was delayed by something, but in fact he just deliberately didn't look for you.

Because he knows that when you have formed the habit of having him in your life, his sudden disappearance will make you uncomfortable, and then you realize that you have begun to care about him.

3. cater to what you say and make you feel inexplicably hit it off.

Girls always seem to believe in fate, even if it is just coincidence, it will be regarded as fate.

Especially when chatting with him, he revealed your similarities intentionally or unintentionally, making you feel that you had an indissoluble bond in your last life.

Everything you say will cater to you. For example, if you say you like folk songs, he will say that he often listens to Zhao Lei. You said that you like traveling, and he said that he had just been to Weizhou Island last month. When you said you liked cats, he said that he had just adopted a clever kitten. You said you like spicy food, but he said he didn't like spicy food. He even ate a spoonful of Chili for fried rice with eggs.

His words always make you feel that there is an inexplicable fit between you. Like previous lives, your fate has long been doomed.

4. I invite you to dinner and give you a gift at every turn.

He was not stingy when he chased you. If he doesn't agree with you, send a red envelope and a gift. He won't let you pay for the meal every time. With him, I can always feel full of doting.

He said, I never let girls pay; He said, I like everything you give me; He said, it's really fun to watch you eat.

Every time he invites you to dinner, there are always all kinds of strange reasons.

For example, celebrate that today is the weekend, or congratulate yourself on not working overtime today, or feel a little cute today. You wander in his tenderness for you, and you think he is very interesting, and even have so many tricks to invite you to dinner.

He loves you, doesn't he? How can he say he doesn't love you?

However, is he chasing you to do these things just for you? Did he open the conversation with other girls when chatting with you? Did he say good night to others when he invited you to dinner and gave you a present?

In the final analysis, good love depends on whether he can give you the right company when you need it, whether he can empathize with you when you are worried, give you timely comfort, and whether he can decisively shelter you from the wind and rain when you are wronged.