How should women in the workplace deal with the liquor market?

The workplace is like a battlefield. It needs to face all kinds of people and all kinds of things all the time, but as a woman, if possible, it is best to go to the wine shop for entertainment less. Even if you go, you should pay attention to protect yourself. How should women deal with the wine market? I'll share a case with you to tell you how women in the workplace should deal with the wine market.

For example, a friend of mine, who is the general manager of a company (female, about 35 years old), said something some time ago. She went out to dinner with the vice president in charge of their department, and the other party toasted her. She refused to drink for various reasons, and the other party directly told the vice president that the manager of this department was out of control and she didn't drink two glasses of wine. So-and-so may always feel that his face will hang up. Tell her that after two drinks, you won't have to go to the afternoon shift. She had no choice but to drink. What about this situation? Let me share with you the experience of working women in dealing with the liquor market:

First, dress appropriately, learn to find excuses to leave the dining table gracefully, and learn to show up less, not just less. Men like to judge a woman's easy virtue potential by her appearance, so it is the best choice to dress appropriately and be a little conservative when going to dinner. Give yourself more excuses to leave, such as having experience the next day, having something at home, learning a driver's license and so on. These harmless but successful excuses should be learned.

Second, in the process of wine games, try to hide wine skillfully. When colleagues around you leave for a toast, pour out the wine in your glass and fill it with water. When you take a few sips of wine, you must take a few more sips to dilute the alcohol concentration (remember to drink it with soft drinks and only mix it with water! If you drink blended wine, remember to make it yourself. Try to drink a lot of drinks and mix a little wine, otherwise you will get drunk more easily.

Third, for strangers, don't let others know that you can drink. The most taboo thing on the wine table is to try to be brave, so you must insist on not drinking, so there will be less opportunities for toasts between colleagues. I have repeatedly stressed that I can't drink, so even if I give you a little wine, it won't weigh much. Working women must remember that alcohol is not a good thing. Once they get drunk, something unexpected may happen to them. Therefore, when toasting colleagues, we must emphasize that we can't, and learn to avoid alcohol skillfully, which is good for ourselves and harmless to colleagues!

Fourth, if the customer knows you can drink, don't stop drinking. There are many reasons for not drinking: allergies, illness, driving, working at night, etc. It's necessary to make excuses, but don't drink. After all, you are not so delicate that you can't drink a glass of wine. For example, after the dinner begins, you can take the initiative to propose a toast to the leader and say to him, "Leader, I'm really sorry, I drove today. Guess what? I'll do it first to show my sincerity, whatever you mean. Thank you for your concern. " Pour yourself a little after drinking, and the people who come to propose a toast will usually inform you politely.

Of course, we should treat women's drinking and socializing correctly, especially women in the workplace. As long as they care about you and love you, they will not approve of women always going out for entertainment and drinking, not to mention drinking too much will hurt their health, and eventually they will meet tigers in the mountains and be hurt by man-made disasters at some point; This is what men are most afraid of and care about. It's not a question of understanding, it's a question of living conditions. There is another principle: you can't say "just take a sip" or "all right, have a drink", otherwise you can't touch a drop. If you let go, you can't push it away. Do you think my sharing is meaningful? Welcome to communicate.