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many online things, without looking back, have grown old, like stones falling into the bottom of a river, silent in the depths of memory. Although it has never been touched and forgotten, it has already penetrated into the bone marrow and become permanent. Huoxi is one of my online chess friends, or more precisely, my mentor and close friend. Among my many netizens, I meet and talk with him the most.

I met Huoxi for the first time and went with A Fei (A Fei, one of my good friends, will be in another article). It was a late autumn evening in 22, and it was already dark when I really saw him. Huoxi, just like his name, is chic and elegant, neither tall nor short, neither fat nor thin, a little blessed, wearing a pair of gold-rimmed glasses, a black suit and a yellow tie, which is a bit of a gentleman.

A Fei has already met him. After a brief greeting and shaking hands, he took us to a restaurant where there was a table of chess friends he invited.

I have heard from A Fei that Su Beiren is generous, and he is also generous in doing things and drinking. This time, he is no exception, and all he uses are glasses that are only used when drinking beer. Maybe it's because of the long ride. Teddy boy can't drink well, and I'm a little dizzy. If I drink any more, I'm afraid it will really become an "Osprey" and make a joke.

The next morning, A Fei and I went to visit his classroom. The classroom is not very big, but he temporarily adapted it from a temporarily rented house, and the outside of the classroom is his smaller kitchen. At that time, he didn't take many students, only about 2. These are all places that failed to attract my attention. The only thing that interests me is his good handwriting by the door: plain is true. The following is a very poetic sentence written in small block letters: If you want to wander, but you are not wandering, you should spread a small dream all over the sky like dandelion and let them either derive or wither. And that original root is still in place, pregnant with new hope, waiting for the wind to rise again.

I went to Jiangsu for the second time, when SARS was raging. Teddy boy has already returned to his hometown in Sichuan. Because there was no internet (all Internet cafes were closed due to SARS), I chatted with Huoxi on the phone, and he asked me to come over for a drink. I said, aren't you afraid of SARS? He said with a smile that he didn't want a buddy if he was afraid of SARS? Drinking can also drive away SARS! In a word, my eyes filled with tears. My wife missed me at that time, but she didn't dare to call me back. Otherwise, the whole family would have to "rest" at home for a week and couldn't go to work and study.

I couldn't resist his temptation, to be exact, the temptation to drink with him, so I passed. After staying with him for three or four days, he was busier than before and brought more students. Watching him deal with children happily all day, I thought that men are like this, graceful or embarrassed, generous or obscene, half born and half restricted by living environment.

Like father, like daughter, his daughter has probably inherited his style of playing chess, which is tough but gentle, and seeks articles without losing details. Not only did he play chess well, but he also wrote a good article. Later, I recommended an article to Go Newspaper Children's Weekly. When he left, he said that they were moving to a new home, and they must come back for a drink then.

But I still missed the opportunity to congratulate him before he moved. I was transferred to Zhejiang due to work changes, and I seldom went to Jiangsu again. My long-unbearable loneliness is always causing trouble in my stomach, and I finally caught a chance to come to the old place again. When he came back, he had already moved to a new home, and the second floor was not high. He said it was for the sake of the children, so he couldn't let them climb up and down every day, because it would be very tiring. The new house has three rooms and two halls. A large room and a living room are used to teach chess. The house is new, the tables and chairs are new, and a computer is added. The only thing that hasn't changed is the vigorous calligraphy that hangs at the main entrance of the living room. At this time, he took more students and divided them into junior, middle and advanced classes. This is a bitter experience for the beautiful and generous sister-in-law (his wife, as I affectionately call her). She used to be a boss and had to take care of the housework at home for her husband's career. She said that although she was a little tired from cleaning, washing and cooking at home every day, she was very satisfied once she could see the smiles of her children coming in and out. Everyone says that behind a successful man, there is half of a woman. It seems that this is true.

Among his existing students, there are two 4-paragraph students and seven 3-paragraph students, who have won the local competitions for more than ten times, and often lead students to participate in the qualifying matches in Nanjing and the friendly matches at the prefecture level. I'm afraid only he knows the ups and downs.

I had the most heart-to-heart talk with him that time. He said that although the population of China is large now, the population of Weiqi is relatively small. At present, there are relatively many Go coaches, but there are few coaches who know how to pay equal attention to pedagogy, teachers' studies and children's psychology. At present, there are many Go textbooks, but there are few systematic, complete and gradual Go textbooks ...

When he left, he gave me a book with a line written by him on the front page of the book: because he discovered the truth of life, all the beautiful imaginations about love, marriage and career finally began to show ordinary results in front of us. How can a young heart be content with being dull? But we have no way out, so we have to grow up, get married and work. We begin to gradually throw away our independence, freedom, bohemian and lofty aspirations, just because everything is dull.