Relatives always play jokes on their children. Should I still associate with them?

Visit relatives and friends on holidays, and talk about the recent situation after eating, drinking and having fun, but it is inevitable that some relatives and friends speak improperly. Most parents will not notice, but in fact, these relatives have a great influence on their children.

Joke or vicious. Many parents, like Ms. Zhang and his wife, simply didn't notice whether the so-called jokes of adults would bring shadows to their children. Many people use the status of their relatives and elders as an excuse to tease their children. In fact, everything they say is what children fear most. Such relatives, to be honest, have no need to associate at all.

? Your mother doesn't want you if she has a younger brother? This should be one of many adults' favorite jokes on children. When they say this, they may be thinking about Doby children, but the speaker doesn't listen at all. Children don't know what a joke is, and they will naively take many words said by adults seriously.

When this sentence distracts the child, the child will be very resistant to the fact that mom and dad have a second child. Even if there is a second child in the future, the child will not take care of his younger brother and sister for fear of being spoiled.

? Do you like dad best or mom/dad is good to you or mom is good to you? This question should be asked by the most disgusting relatives in the world. In children's minds, mom and dad are equally important. Forcing children to choose one of them with such questions not only makes them doubt the love given by their parents, but also may cause sensory differences between them.

Some parents teach their children to answer in order to make their answers more satisfactory? Is everything all right? . Some adults still insist on letting their children make choices, which leads to their anxiety. Some adults will praise their children for their cleverness, which invisibly makes them feel that this is the true meaning of being a man.

Advise children to smoke and drink, saying it's just a joke. At the dinner table, there is a kind of relatives who hate it the most, and that is to persuade children to drink. There was news before that a man took his two-year-old son to a friend's party. After the man got drunk, his friend coaxed his two-year-old child to drink. The naive child drank a small glass of white wine and immediately fell into a coma. After being sent to the hospital, he died after being rescued.

Such an example should be enough to alert parents. What are these so-called? I'm just kidding, okay? Relatives, but they just don't care about your children. Who would do such a thing if they were their own children?

Relatives? Subtle? Even more frightening are several relatives. Although they don't take the initiative to tease children, their behavior has a greater impact on children than jokes. Parents had better stay away from such relatives and avoid them if they can.

Children with foul language have strong learning ability, and they are keen to imitate the people around them. Adults clearly know that some words are swearing, but for children, they are just imitating adults and have no idea what swearing means. By the time they understand, these words may have become a mantra because of habit.

People who make a hullabaloo about and drink too much should learn to keep their manners in front of their children and prevent them from following suit. If you clearly know that there are children present, or whether you drink or splash water, such a person is not suitable for children to know.

When relatives and friends meet, they gossip or gossip. There is a kind of person who is born as a gossip disseminator. When they meet relatives and friends, they either talk about Zhang's parents or Li's family. Children who hear such gossip are likely to spread to the outside world. After being heard, they will not only feel disgusted with their children, but even think that these rumors are from your home, and the killing area is really too large.

No? China people tease children? It's a simple creature to continue to pass on children. In their eyes, acquaintances are all good people. It is this idea that makes many relatives and acquaintances leave a great shadow on their children.

Parents need to pay attention to teaching their children what they can and cannot do. You can't treat your child as a show-off toy for your own face. When relatives and friends are booing, it is easy for you to push the boat with the current, making children more afraid and embarrassed.

Many parents may not realize this, because they have no such awareness, and even in the face of such a situation, they will not feel any problem. For them, this is how they came when they were young. Is that what everyone says? China people tease children? . This kind? China people tease children? It has affected and hurt generations. If possible, koi fish's mother wants to end it in our generation.