Do you choose to separate or divorce? Talk together

Why don't you get divorced when you are close?

Few people choose to divorce, and many friends still maintain seemingly divorced marriages. Why?

First, divorce should be divided at least.

The newlyweds want a divorce, and the money for the wedding reception, taking photos and buying jewelry is wasted. Who will bear the loss?

After marriage, * * * lived with each other for half a year. If you want a divorce, will the bride price be refunded? Is there any evidence to prove that both parents are involved in the investment in the wedding room and car, whether it is a loan or a gift?

Couples who have been married for a long time don't save much money together. If there is a suite in their name, how to divide it? Who has the financial strength to take the house and give half of the house price to the other party? If two people have no strength, they choose to sell the house and divide the money. After the loan, each person loses half of the money and loses a lot of interest in vain. As a result, they still don't have a house and may not be able to afford it for the rest of their lives.

Second, if you have children, divorce is more troublesome.

Who is the child with? Is it a woman who takes good care of her children but has weak financial strength, or a man who can't take care of his children personally but has strong financial strength? This woman is nice. You got custody of the child, but you are still young. If you choose to remarry or even have children, the children will live with their stepparents and new brothers and sisters. Does it affect children?

The happy growth of children and their own happy marriage will always be a dilemma. There is nothing wrong with choosing anything, but the fact is that many, many mothers have firmly chosen the happiness of their children.

Third, how to live after divorce.

In order to break away from the customary marriage life and rebuild a new life, the simplest place to live and what to eat are all problems that must be solved before us. After divorce, you may not meet true love. If you get married again, you will still quarrel in the cold war. Isn't it a joke to toss a big circle?

To sum up, three points are the reasons why many couples still live in harmony without divorce, because this is the solution that they consume the least at present, and there is no need to solve the problem.

Many marriages are not good enough, but everyone who decides to divorce needs great courage and determination, as well as enough motivation or opportunities.