The story of conflicts with parents

① A 30-word short story with my parents

Every beautiful moment, every smile, and every sincere touch between me and my parents is worth it I treasure it well.

On a whim, I want to teach my parents to learn English! I thought I would have to spend a lot of time persuading them, but unexpectedly they agreed readily. "The first word is TV." "Look at that cc on TV..." "TV!" "Congratulations, you got the right answer!" Unexpectedly, I, as a teacher, am quite good at teaching. Just a moment ago I was secretly happy, but the next second I was completely defeated by their cuteness. "What about taxi? How do you say it in English?" Mom deliberately made things difficult for Dad. "There's no need to ask, it's just a taxi! It's really overkill to test me with such a simple question." My mother and I looked at each other and suddenly burst into laughter. "It's...taxi...haha" I wiped my tears, "The foreigner on TV just didn't shout 'taxi' when he took a taxi...haha"

This is the relationship between my parents and me of laughter.

Every time I have a holiday, I always like to do my homework and read books at home. My parents like to go out for a walk, and they say they don’t want to be a homebody or homebody like me. Seeing me sitting there all the time, they keep nagging me. “You don’t exercise all the time. Look, you must have gained weight again.” "When I first heard such a magic sound, I always surrendered obediently. But now that I am used to hearing this trick, I have sufficient immunity. I will only be reluctant when my mother is about to be offended. Put down the book in your hand.

This is the "confrontation" between me and my parents.

What I will never forget is what my parents cooked for me early in the morning. Hot porridge. In the evening, no matter how late I stayed with my homework, they would stay with me, sometimes watching silent TV in the living room, sometimes reading the newspaper. But every morning when I got up, there would be a bowl of thick, hot porridge. A bowl of hot porridge is waiting for me, especially in winter. It warms my heart until I get up an hour early.

This is what my parents gave me. Caring.

My parents are the closest people to me, and everything between us is so beautiful

② Write a story about what happened between you and your parents (500

My father made tea and called my mother: Ying (mother's name is only English), come and drink tea.

"Wait a minute, I'll go after I've finished packing." . "My mother's voice came to the living room through the sound of rushing water.

While my father was speaking, he had already poured the tea into a large cup specially designed for mother. When he heard his mother say that he would drink it later, he became angry: Wait, wait, the tea is cold. You are so inflexible, why don’t you drink it first and then clean it up?

I couldn’t help but laugh: Dad is so cute, why don’t you do it first? Pour my mother's tea. I really don't know who doesn't know how to adapt.

"Just wait. "My mother also doesn't know how to adapt. She won't let go and drink the tea that her father carefully poured for her. After more than thirty years together, she still foolishly adds fuel to the angry lion.

"Father, pour it to me first. "Seeing that the situation was not good (my father had already entered the brief silence before the storm, and my mother still looked like she was not afraid of death), I quickly made peace.

"That belongs to your mother, don't touch it. Yours is the cup. "Halo, my father is really super stubborn.

No matter. I drank my own cup of tea and waited leisurely for the same old drama to happen again.

Mother finally After cleaning up and going to the living room, he picked up her cup and was about to drink it when his father exploded: It’s already cold. Your stomach won’t be able to bear the cold drink. So you should drink it first. I’ve told you many times that you don’t accept your opinion. .

My mother poured out the tea in her hand and was also very angry: I told you not to pour it for me yet. I have told you so many times and you didn’t listen.

"The freshly brewed tea is more flavorful, I want to give it to you. Don’t you like strong drinks? "As always, whenever my mother spoke back, my father would slowly lower his voice. When my father spoke, he opened a new bag of tea leaves and poured his mother a thick cup of the first brewed tea.

The quarrel is over, and the next step is to enjoy tea calmly.

I have become accustomed to the way my father and mother get along, and I am not as scared as I was when I was a child. And I understand very well that no matter how fierce they argue, as soon as something happens, they will stop immediately and work together. Face it together.

Wait until you have free time before making any noise.

After sipping tea, I invited my parents to go downstairs and take a walk in the park.

As soon as he walked into the park gate, his father looked at his mother who was walking in a gust of wind, and became angry again: "Walking is leisurely, but you walked as if you were trying to escape from the rain, and others didn't feel anything at all."

"I've always walked like this. You have to do what you like when walking. There are rules about this and that. What's the point of that?" Mother responded.

"You and Hei Ya go for a walk, I'll go to the lottery station to check it out." The father's voice immediately returned to its normal state.

Looking at his father slowly walking away, my mother felt very sorry: Alas, for more than thirty years, your father and I have never been able to get along well. Your grandfather predicted from the beginning that our personalities would not be very harmonious. Your grandpa is really sharp.

My father is the kind of man with the ocean in his heart. That is not the most important thing. The important thing is that in the past thirty years, you have gone through hardships and ups and downs together, raised the three of us sisters, and are still facing the future together hand in hand. It has been very difficult and very successful. Face difficulties together and retain your own individual world at other times. There is really no need to be harmonious everywhere.

My father went to study his favorite lottery, and my mother and I continued our quick walk as if we were running for our lives.

③ I urgently need stories about the conflict between parents and children

Most of them are caused by parental concepts, which are too outdated, 14-16 Children under the age of 10 have a strong rebellious mentality, and the two are incompatible. The best way is for one party to give in and become friends together, and parents are not in a position to do so.

④ Debate materials about conflicts between parents and children, such as celebrity stories about parents Ancient Chinese allusions with children

1. Gauss solved mathematical problems

One day in 1796, at the University of G?ttingen in Germany, a 19-year-old young man finished dinner and began to work as a tutor alone Assign him two routine math problems every day. As usual, the first 2 questions were successfully completed within 2 hours. But the young man discovered that his instructor had assigned him an extra question today. The third question, written on a small piece of paper, required only a compass and an unmarked ruler to make a regular 17-sided polygon. He didn't think much and just did it. However, the young man found it very difficult.

At first, he thought, maybe the instructor made it more difficult for me. However, as time passed by, there was no progress on the third question. The young man racked his brains and felt that the mathematical knowledge he had learned was of little help in solving this problem. Difficulties arouse the fighting spirit of young people: I must make it! He picked up the compass and ruler, drew on the paper, and tried to use some unconventional ideas to solve the problem... When a glimmer of light showed through the window, the young man breathed a sigh of relief. He finally solved the problem! When meeting the mentor, the young man felt a little guilty and self-blame. He said to his tutor: "I worked on the third question you assigned me all night long. I failed to live up to your cultivation..." The tutor took a look at the student's homework and was immediately shocked. His voice trembled, and he said: "This...really...did you...do it yourself?" The young man looked at the excited instructor with some doubts, and replied: "Yes, but I am stupid. It took me a whole It took one night to make it."

The instructor asked him to sit down, took out the compass and ruler, spread the paper on the desk, and asked the young man to do this problem in front of him. The young man quickly solved this problem. The instructor excitedly said to the young man: "Did you know that you solved a mathematical problem that has a history of more than 2,000 years? Newton didn't solve it, Archimedes didn't solve it, but you actually solved it in one night. ! You are really a genius! I was studying this problem recently, and when I assigned you a question yesterday, I accidentally put a small piece of paper with this question in it." Later, whenever the young man recalled this. When talking about something, he always said: "If someone told me that this is a mathematical problem with a history of more than 2,000 years, I might not be able to solve it. This young man is Gauss, the prince of mathematics.

Comments : Most children have little thought of following rules and little fear.

Children can often do something better when they don't know how difficult it is. In fact, the fear of difficulty is not the fear of difficulties, but the fear of oneself and lack of confidence in oneself. Therefore, in the process of educating children, do not instill fear of difficulties in your children from your own perspective; you should encourage children to dare to think and do and build self-confidence.

2. The light of the oil lamp is still there

A student always dared not ask questions because he was afraid of troublesome teacher. This teacher was very attentive. After spending a long time with the students, the teacher finally discovered this phenomenon and asked him the reason. The student said: "Teacher, I'm sorry. I forgot the answer you gave me again. I really want to ask you again, but thinking that I have troubled you many times, I don't dare to bother you anymore!" The teacher thought for a while , said to him: "You go and light an oil lamp first." The student did so. The teacher then said: "Go and get a few more oil lamps, and use the first lamp to light them." The students also did so. At this time, the teacher smiled and said to him: "Other oil lamps are lit with the first lamp, but is the light of the first lamp lost?" The student replied: "No!" The teacher said to him again: " Sharing the knowledge I have with you will not only cause me no loss, but will bring you greater happiness and satisfaction. So, if you have any questions, you are welcome to come to me at any time. "

Comments: Parents should let their children know that one person's knowledge is very limited, but after many people discuss and ask each other for a long time, their knowledge and foundation will be improved. Therefore, if you encounter any problems, you will not understand them. Just ask someone else. Asking for advice is also a kind of knowledge. You can ask for advice at any time, but the people you ask for advice are different, some directly and some indirectly. You can ask for advice from books, or from classmates, teachers, and parents. Without asking for advice, there will be no progress and no success.

3. Let plans give way to action

Omar is an accomplished emperor. His mind is full of wisdom, stable and knowledgeable, and he is respected by people. Once, a young man asked him: "How did you do all this? Did you already make a life plan from the beginning?" Omar smiled and said: "At this age, I just Knowing that making plans is useless. "When I was 20 years old, I said to myself: "I will spend the first 10 years after the age of 20 learning knowledge; the second 10 years to travel abroad; the third 10 years. , I will marry a beautiful girl and have several children.

In the last 10 years, I will live in seclusion in a rural area and think about life. "Finally one day, in front of me. In the 7th year of 10 years, I found that I had learned nothing, so I postponed my travel arrangements. In the next four hours, I studied law. And I have become a very important figure in this field, and people regard me as a role model. At this time I want to travel, this is my long-cherished wish. But all kinds of things kept me from leaving. I was afraid that people would accuse me of being irresponsible behind my back, so I gave up on the idea of ??traveling. When I turned 40, I started thinking about my marriage. But I can never find a girl as beautiful as I imagined before. I was single until I was 62, and at that time I felt ashamed that I wanted to get married at such an old age. So I gave up the idea of ??finding such a girl and marrying her. Then I thought of my last wish, which was to find a secluded place to live in seclusion. But I have never found such a place. If I get sick, I can't even fulfill this wish. These were my life's plans, but none of them came true. "Young man, don't waste your time on making long plans. As long as you think of something to do, do it immediately. Give up the plan and act immediately!" Omar finally said.

Comments: In the process of children's learning, instead of making a long study plan for the children, it is better to urge the children to start taking action immediately and seize the moment. In specific actions, there may be new discoveries or new ideas. If you make timely adjustments, you may be able to find new methods and new ways that are more suitable for your child's growth and development.

4. Pay attention to the children's specialties

There was a down-and-out young man who wandered to Paris. He hoped that his father's friend, Uncle Charles, could help him find a job to make a living. "Proficient in mathematics?" Charles asked. The young man shook his head shyly. "How about history and geography?" The young man still shook his head in embarrassment.

"What about the law?" The young man lowered his head in embarrassment. Charles asked questions one after another, and the young man could only shake his head and tell the other person - he seemed to have no strengths, not even the slightest advantage. "Then you write down your address first, and I will have to help you find a job." Charles finally said. The young man shyly wrote down his name and address, turned around to leave, but was caught by Charles: "Your name is written beautifully, this is your advantage." Writing your name well is also an advantage. ? The young man saw the affirmative answer in the other party's eyes. If I can write my name in a way that others will praise, then I can write beautiful handwriting. If I can write beautiful handwriting, I can write beautiful articles... The young people who are encouraged will magnify their own advantages little by little. His steps immediately became relaxed. A few years later, the young man indeed wrote a world-renowned classic work. This young man is the well-known 18th century French writer Alexandre Dumas.

Comments: Children’s growth is a long-term process that requires constant encouragement and self-motivation. Uncovering a potential advantage can greatly stimulate their self-confidence and self-esteem. There are many children in life who have some small advantages such as "being able to write their names well", but parents often ignore them. If parents want to cultivate their children's "specialties", they must pay attention to their children's hobbies and strengths that can be developed into "specialties", and then deliberately enhance their children's interests in this regard.

5. Little John’s Puzzle Map

The pastor was preparing a sermon, but his little son was making a lot of noise on the side. The pastor had no choice but to pick up an old magazine, tear it into pieces with a colorful illustration of a world map, throw it on the ground, and said: "John, if you can put this map together, I will give it to you." 25 cents. "The pastor thought it would take John a whole morning so that he could calm down and think about the problem. However, within 10 minutes, his son knocked on his door, holding the complete map in his hand. The pastor was very surprised that John could piece together a map of the world so quickly. He asked, "Son, how can you piece together the map so quickly?" "Ah," said little John, "that's easy." There was a picture of a person on the other side, so I put the picture of the person together and turned it over. I figured if the person was correct, then the map of the world would also be correct." The priest smiled and gave. He gave his son 2.5 cents and said to him: "Thank you! You prepared the topic for tomorrow's sermon for me: If a person is correct, his world will be correct."

< p> Comment: There are many ways and methods to solve the same problem. Children's thinking is active and full of associations. They can come up with many things that adults cannot. Therefore, parents should be good at grasping this characteristic of their children, pay attention to the broadness and flexibility of their children's thinking, grasp the correlation between things, exercise their divergent thinking ability, and guide them to continue to move forward.

6. He is the smartest child

The famous successful scholar Napoleon Hill was once considered a bad boy since he was a child. Cows were lost, trees were cut down inexplicably, and everyone assumed it was him. Even his father and brother thought he was bad. People think that the death of his mother and the lack of supervision are the main reasons why Napoleon Hill turned bad. Since everyone thought so, he didn't care. One day, my father said that he wanted to remarry, and everyone was worried that the new mother would not know what it was like. Hill also made up his mind not to take new mothers seriously at all. The strange woman finally walked into the house. She walked into every room and greeted everyone cheerfully. When he walked in front of Hill, Hill stood as straight as a gun barrel, folded his hands on his chest, and stared at her indifferently, without a hint of welcome, "This is Napoleon," his father introduced, "The whole family The worst kid ever. "

What Hill will never forget is what his stepmother said at that time. She put her hands on Hill's shoulders and looked at him with a twinkle in her eye. "The worst child?" she said, "Not at all, he is the smartest child in the family, and we have to bring out his true nature." The stepmother made Napoleon Hill, and she believed he was a good boy. Have this kind of faith in a person and he will succeed.

Comments: It’s not that children need appreciation, but appreciation that makes them become better and better; it’s not that children need to complain, but that complaints make them become worse and worse. How parents treat their children will determine their different fates.

However, when their children do not perform well, many parents tend to blame them blindly, complaining that this is not good and that is not good, but they rarely think about their own responsibilities and do not look for the reasons themselves. As a result, many parents turn their originally lively, lovely and energetic children into people who have no ambition, no ideals, are self-defeating, and spend their lives mediocrely.

7. My daughter is one in a hundred

In the first mock test before the college entrance examination, my daughter’s score was not satisfactory. She told her father with a frown on her face that the teacher asked her to be in the class based on her results. Calculate your ranking in the whole school, your ranking in the whole district, and your ranking in the whole city based on the rankings here. The child said that after calculating this way, she might not be able to get into junior college. The father immediately said: "My daughter is one in a hundred." The daughter was puzzled. My father then made some calculations: When graduating from junior high school, nearly 140,000 people in the city took the high school entrance examination, only more than 30,000 people could go to high school, and only a few thousand people could go to key middle schools. My daughter’s academic performance has always been at the top of the class. Within the first 1/3 of the number of people, doesn’t this count as one in a hundred? After his father made this calculation, the child's eyes suddenly lit up, and a smile broke out on his face. He rushed up and hugged his father: "Dad, your account is different from the teacher's account."

Comments: Everyone has a personality, and no one is absolutely the same. So "comparing people to people" is meaningless. The best strategy for successful parents is not to talk about or criticize children's shortcomings at will, but to use another method to help children correct their shortcomings and overcome psychological barriers. Parents who understand their children's psychology will make comparisons in a positive manner.

8. I want to be the second Bill Gates

In an English speaking class, the teacher asked the children to express their dreams one by one in English. Some said, I want to be a nurse; some said, I want to be an actor; some said, I don't want to do anything now; a child named Bob said loudly, I want to be the second Bill Gates. Someone was whispering below: Can it be done? Whenever Bob talks about his ideals with his father, he always looks bright and confident. At this time, the father is also very happy to be a loyal listener and share his vision for the future with his children. As he listens, the father will be moved by him in the end. (Inspirational Story lz13.cn) Once, Bob only scored 69.5 points in his English test, so that he did not dare to take out the test paper. When his father found out, he didn't blame him. However, Bob lost interest in English for a long time. So, before going to bed every day, the father and the child lay in bed together and dream about each other. The father told his son that both his father and mother were proud and happy that he had such a dream, and believed that he would realize his dream. One day, Bob said, I must learn English well. Bill Gates' English is not deceptive. Later, his father bought him an English extracurricular reading book "Bookworm", often read it with him, and encouraged him to write a short composition in English every day. After persisting for a period of time, his English level improved. I got full marks on the exam. After experiencing this incident, Bob was full of confidence in himself.

Comments: Almost every child has a good design for their future, although they don’t know how difficult it is to implement their dreams. But it is undeniable that dreams have a huge motivating effect on children as they grow up.

In fact, it does not matter whether the child's dream comes true or not. What is important is that only when the child has a dream will he have expectations, thereby enhancing his self-confidence. Even if they don't achieve their dreams in the end, at least the children will have a good mentality and room for development.

9. Serious little Tom

Like other children of the same age, 3-year-old Tom likes to eat snacks, drink carbonated drinks, and like all kinds of novel toys. His mother also regarded him as a child who did not understand what a sense of responsibility was and could not do anything except eating and drinking. However, an unexpected opportunity completely changed her mind.

That year, Tom's family moved to a new city, and Tom also entered a new kindergarten. Two months later, the kindergarten will hold a parent-teacher meeting, and Tom's mother is also invited. On the way to the kindergarten, my mother jokingly said to Tom Liu: "Son, my mother hasn't fully adapted to this city yet. She doesn't know anyone in your kindergarten. You have to help me when the time comes." Tom said seriously Said: "No problem, Mom. I know all the teachers and children there, including the parents who pick up and drop off the children every day."

"My mother found it strange to see his serious look, but she just smiled and didn't take it to heart. When he arrived at the kindergarten, Tom began to fulfill his promise. He accompanied his mother to the conference room responsibly and introduced her to the principal seriously. He and other teachers carefully introduced every child in the kindergarten to his mother, and finally told his mother the names of the children and who was their father or mother. Then, Tom brought his mother to a sofa and brought it to her. A glass of water, "Mom, you sit here for now, I'll go to the toilet and I'll be back in a minute." "It is precisely because Tom's mother showed respect for Tom unintentionally that it inspired Tom's sense of value and responsibility.

Comments: Parents often complain that their children lack a sense of responsibility. There are also some parents I believe that responsibility can only be possessed by adults. In fact, responsibility should be cultivated from an early age. Only when a person, whether an adult or a child, can be loved and respected by others can he feel proud. In the process of guiding and releasing children's dreams, it is essential to believe in children's self-understanding and self-molding abilities

10. The basic qualities of a writer

Shiloh spent a long time. She wrote a novel during her time and gave it to a famous writer, hoping to get his teachings. She came to the writer's house, and the writer received her warmly. Because the writer's eyesight was not very good, Shiloh left. Read it to the writer. Soon, she finished reading and paused. The writer asked: "Is it over?" "" Listening to her tone, she seems to be eager for something to happen! "Thinking of this, Shiloh immediately had inspiration and replied: "No, the later part is more exciting. "So she continued to read according to her imagination. After a while, the writer asked again: "Is it over? "Hero thought: "The writer must be eager to hear the whole story. "So she continued reading. If the phone *** hadn't interrupted her suddenly, she would have continued reading. The writer needed to go out immediately because of something. Before leaving, the writer said: "Actually, your novel It should have been closed long ago, when I first asked you if it was over, it should have been over. Why add superfluous things and follow the dog's tail? It seems that you lack the most basic quality as a writer-decision. Decision is the foundation of being a writer. How can sloppy works impress readers? "

After hearing what the writer said, Shiloh regretted it deeply and thought to herself: "It seems that I am not suitable for writing, so I might as well give up and find a new direction for myself! "Many years later, Shiloh engaged in the profession of painting, but she still liked writing from the bottom of her heart. It was her childhood dream. But she did not have the basic qualities of writing. There are really many unsatisfactory things in life. A very accidental By chance, Shiloh got to know a more famous writer. When Shiloh talked to him about reading novels to writers, the writer exclaimed: "You can make up such wonderful things in such a short time." The story is really not easy! This is the most basic ability that a good writer should have! And it’s such a shame that you gave up writing! "

Comments: The same thing will have different views in the eyes of different people. Even if they are successful people, more often than not, children need to believe in themselves and insist on setting their own path, because What others say may not be correct. As a parent, to a large extent, you must give your children self-confidence. Self-confidence is more important than anything else.

⑤ A story about a child resolving conflicts with his parents.

< p> A good lifestyle, a healthy and energetic lifestyle. In the era of only children, the consequences of a child having no friends will be more serious than failing an exam. The most important thing is whether the child has friends. If the child has no friends or does not like to make friends, the parents should pay attention to it. The best way for adults is to let the child learn the lesson and resolve the conflict again. Children are more capable than adults. It is very popular in foreign countries to sign a contract to rent a child. No matter how good the parents are, they cannot replace the role of the children's companions.

A family must be a happy home. There must be a kind of poetry in the family. There is a kind of education method on blackout days in foreign countries. Everyone is busy with their own things, and no one can do anything when the power is off, so the family relies on each other. Telling stories together brings a very warm feeling. I really miss the feeling when the power goes out. When there is no power outage, I light candles and the family gathers together happily.

Be sure to take your children out to play on weekends, which will be very good for their psychology.

An equal and harmonious parent-child relationship, a good relationship is better than a lot of education. If a child likes a teacher and has a harmonious relationship with his parents, the quality of the relationship will often mean whether the education is good or not. Poor education may very well mean that the relationship is not handled well. A relationship of respect and trust is a relationship of cherishing rather than doting. If parents can look at their children with admiration, the children will feel very proud and warm.

The bottom line of a good relationship is being able to talk to you when your child is in trouble or danger. This is not easy to do. Hug yourself more. Children who have not been hugged by their parents will have psychological problems. Touch your baby and express your love. What do you eat at home? According to surveys, children who often eat with their parents are emotionally stable. Let children get rid of loneliness and do not support sending children to study abroad too early. The younger the child, the greater the need for emotional support. It's just that he left the care of his parents prematurely. If he is particularly determined or has relatives abroad.

⑥ The story of conflicts between parents and children (short story)

It’s really short

⑦ The story of parents

Between families Sometimes there is a little contradiction. But the most important thing is to be open-minded and put yourself in your parents' position. Don't always stand on your own subjective standpoint, which will make your vision more and more narrow. We need to enlarge our mind and vision. How to enlarge? Be more tolerant of other people's shortcomings and put yourself in other people's shoes. Enlarge your vision and see more. You must know that it is not easy for parents to raise themselves to adulthood. We must tolerate them. Everyone can actually look further, but everyone's vision is limited to their own narrow space and they are unwilling to take this step. The relationship between children and parents should be the most cordial relationship among all people in the world. Don't cause rifts in the relationship between parents and children because of quarrels. Be considerate of each other and don't assert the value of things because of your own subjective opinions. Let's listen more to other people's opinions and views, be more tolerant, and know our own abilities. , don’t judge things blindly and subjectively. Tolerance and understanding between parents is the best way to show filial piety.

⑧ What jokes-like stories have happened between you and your parents?

I remember when my mother was nagging me, I would ask her to get out of my room, using some necessary words. I sent her away because of homework and asked her not to talk to me. Of course it's unpleasant, but it's also fun. Every time after my mother and I "have a fight", after a few minutes, she will say, "Mom, give me some money." Although my mother says she won't let me talk to her, she acts very honestly and always gives me some pocket money. money.