How to start with a friend of the opposite sex who hasn't been in touch for a long time?

With friends of the opposite sex who haven't contacted for a long time, the opening remarks of the chat are as follows:

1, the opening of the expression pack.

Expression packs can be said to be a panacea. It can be used for conversation or conversation. When you start with an expression pack, it will make the other person feel that you have something in common with her. Some interesting expression packs can easily arouse the other person's desire to come back to you.

2. The photo will open.

Different from the opening of Yan Wen, the opening of photos is often to show something, not simply to arouse her desire to chat. Generally speaking, food and pictures of small animals are a good start, because most women are interested in both. Of course, if you have any advantages, such as your eight-pack abdominal muscles, you can send a photo of your fitness.

3. Curiosity begins.

You can use photos or videos, such as sending a strange photo or a strange video. Don't say anything, she will naturally ask you curiously. Of course, there are other ways. For example, you can say "I just remembered something suddenly", and she will definitely ask you something, and then you can add "We don't seem to have talked yet".

4. Topical opening.

This is the opening way that many people will use to chat with her through a topic. The advantage of this method is that if you know what she is interested in, then start with the topic she is interested in, and she can chat with you easily. If you don't know what topic she is interested in, you can look at her circle of friends. Generally speaking, you can find what she is interested in.

But the disadvantage is that if you bring up a topic that she is not interested in, she will easily ignore you. If you say it too many times, she will think you are a boring person.

5. awkward opening.

This kind is usually used between familiar people, such as "I just saw a dress and imagined what you were wearing." It seems quite good. " Of course, the degree of ambiguity depends on your own relationship.

The advantage of this method is that you can tell your sister directly that you don't just regard her as a friend. Many brothers have been friends with girls they like for a long time, because they dare not break the relationship, so that girls only regard themselves as friends in the end.